Originally posted by: IAmLuvBolly
This is a very good point. However, the big difference here is that a black and blue face due to abuse will eventually heal. An acid attack victim will have that scarred up face for the rest of her life. Should she not try and learn to love her face and find beauty within that?
We are all bashing Deepika for being insensitive towards acid attack victims but arenāt we equally being insensitive by bashing this video? Arenāt we basically telling them that their faces are no longer good enough to be part of a look, any look?
Maybe Deepika should have used different words in this video. But I donāt believe her intention here was to just gain publicity for herself with no regards to anyone else. I also donāt think the answer here is a simple āsheās insensitiveā or āno, sheās notā. How do you recognize victimsā sufferings and fight for justice for them without hindering their ability or willingness to forge a normal life for themselves in a cruel crass society?
An acid victim's face isn't a look though, it isn't something makeup brings out. It isn't something we should recreate and popularize. It's a scar a woman carries for the rest of her life caused by actions that weren't her own. She didn't choose to get her face burned with acid. She didn't choose to have her face disfigured permanently.
Heck, let's take a step back and look at makeup in general. It basically telling women that their faces aren't good enough, and they need the contouring, the eyeshadows, the mascara, the face powder thing, to look good in society.
If we can't accept the face of a typical person who hasn't been fluffed by products, why are people attempting to twist this so it looks like people are accepting them? I'll admit I have no knowledge of how acid victims are treated in society (beyond the normal staring). When it comes to accepting their new faces ... their new faces are the tragic aftermath of an attack. This isn't something they wear with pride, it isn't glorious or some battle scar ... it's a continuous reminder that they lost something very precious to them because of the insecurities of a lesser person.
How do we help these poor victims? We make laws, we try to prevent this as much as possible, and we hold people responsible for their actions. And most importantly, we treat them normally. Heck, we should treat everyone normally, even disabled people.
That's why it's hard for me to see the alleged "good" message from this TikTok video. It lacks immense foresight.
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