I agree. Its very easy to be like Babita should have spoken up and should have stood up for herself, or should have demanded to go with Ashok. Its not that easy. She comes from a different school of thoughts, from a different generation. Being married at the tender age of 18, when you are still growing up, you are thrown into a new house, new relationships and new environment. On top of that, she gets pregnant right away. She is in a difficult situation. And, her husband is not even with her and doesn't even fight to take her with him. All the power was in Ashok's hand to take Babita with him, yet he didn't and didn't even try to. Babita was just 18 and still growing up and not mature as you would be in your mid-late 20s (when normal people get married), how do you expect her to handle situation like other mature women (in their mid-late 20s) would have? You can't compare the two. She also didn't have anyone to confide in, not her parents, and no friends, which btw, Ashok and Beeji objected her to have friends too (as she herself told Mini). Her situation is a very relatable one, many women in real have faced what Babita has, be it in-laws, vile SIL, or an absent or uncaring husband. That's why her journey was so important, and something that needed to be told. Thats why it was even more disheartening that the writers chose not to complete her journey and the way they chose to finish her story arc was just horrible.
Edited by LoveInAutumn26 - 4 years ago
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