Kavya,
I dont give a BS that Swara was hurt. She is always hurt. Kabhi maa-baba, kabhi Ragini, kabhi MM waasis and kabhi Laksh! So good Sanskaar hurt her too - because among all these delusional people only Sanskaar has the right to hurt her just like she keeps hurting Sanskaar.
Everyone is making this outburst too big a deal than it is. Sanskaar said nothing wrong. He reacte like any other normal man would in a situation like this. I was pissed at Swara from the first scene. Sanskaar comes and asks you that what is happening - because he is seeing you pack your clothes (for whatever reason) and you begin your Dadi jaap! W*F! What is the guy supposed to think? He was forced to think that Swara was leaving him without telling him as usual. When Sanskaar listed the things that he did for her - his intention was not to say that she made him do it - his intention was revealed right after that - that he did it all for friendship which she broke! The trust that she broke!
For him all he did today and the reason he promised to help Swara in baadi was a promise he made to a friend and not to a stranger - who he sees Swara as right now. According to him when Swara never considered him as a friend - never trusted him - then she was using him. According to him - she kept the facade of friendship with him to fulfill her missions. And is he wrong? She did break his trust - she broke his trust not by questioning him but also stealthily following him and watching him burn the blanket. She broke his trust by accusing him and then trusting him on the basis of proofs. When Sanskaar screamed at Swara today - he was not speaking to the Swara who was his friend - who he had promised to help through thick and thin. He was speaking to a stranger who had used him in the facade of friendship (in his mind)
Not once did Sanskaar meet Swara's eyes properly because he knew he was hurting her. He noticed the sad face and he kept himself strong because he knew he was hurting her. He said he did not want to keep anything that reminded him of her is because he was protecting himself from the pain that would follow if her things would be there. He knows he can never get rid of her memories - but getting rid of her things - is the smallest price to pay to protect himself from heartbreak.
Just because Sanskaar always appears as the cool calm gentleman does not mean he has feelings. Swara has wronged him in the worst possible way - making him doubt everything they have shared till now! This outburst proves that he could not bottle up his emotions any more. In his heart - Swara never thought of him as a friend while he did. The promises he made were to his friend and the one he loved and not the woman who he now considers to be a stranger. He feels cheated. He feels he had promised everything to Swara in friendship but all she has ever done is use HIS friendship and his trust as an excuse to enter MM and complete her missions.
Swara has been extremely selfish! She has always kept everyone over him. She did not trust Sanskaar - she kept Laksh Ragini's relationship over him (taking him for granted) - She accused the man who stood by her without even thanking him for his support - what do you expect? Her reasons to not trust anyone I can understand - but To not trust Sanskaar who stood through everything with her - I will not!
And for once when she wants to give this relationship a chance - why have a by the way conversation with him? Why not sit with him and tell him she has thought about it? Why let him bring it up and them decide to tell him what she is planning?
Sanskaar loves Swara and he knows it. Swara needed to hear that everything cannot be the way she wants. She planned the fake marriage - Sanskaar agreed, She wanted to unite Ragya - Sanskaar volunteered to help her. He was out all he did for her because it was needed to remind Swara that he was there when she needed him A no questions asked - but when he needed her to believe in him she failed. The two lines where he says that she used him and where he says that she cannot chose to trust him one moment and not in the other - shows the difference he feels. He promised his help to a friend and not to a stranger in his eyes. In his eyes - this stranger used him for her own selfish goals and when it was done - she was turning her back on him!
Btw, when Swara blamed Sanskaar for falling in love with her - she was wrong. When Swara blamed Sanskaar for wanting to marry her forcefully - that was wrong - so why is that even if assumed Sanskaar did say something that most of the people do not think is right - is wrong? If this is going to be about right and wrong and how Sanskaar should have his outburst - then do we only want him to say things that hurt Swara only to the extent we want? Not to the extent he feels? He is angry, he feels cheated, he is no mahaan - the basis of his relationship with the woman he loves is broken by her - and we want him to think 'logically' before he speaks? Because only he should be hurt by Swara but two harsh words and Swara cannot take it?
I am cent percent sure, Swara did not find anything wrong with what Sanskaar said. She will realise she indeed has been taking him for granted. She always have been. When she feels like - she gives him a piece of her mind and when its her turn to get one - there are doubts raised about Sanskaar. Jeez!
Oh Sanskaar - how great you were today!
Edited by --Anna-- - 9 years ago
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