Asad! Stop calling another man's wife. Where are your ethics now? - Page 4

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Asad sold Zoya huh.. How??
What was other option for him? Did you want him to see Nikhat's dead body and marry Zoya?😕

Yeah, he was wrong , he did not ask Zoya but calling that as selling a girl is not right at all.. Why din't Zoya speak? Why she left Asad on wedding day? When you don't trust your would be husband , then I would say Zoya too does not deserve Asad..

That situation was helpless..If you would have given a choice that your sister will die next moment and only option is to get the girl married to brother , then what??
Its very easy to preach and become moral police but difficult to face real situation.. Do you mean, AsYA would have married and attend Nikhat's funeral that day?🤢.. Not justifying Asad's actions, he was wrong, but he is not seller, trader, master.. It was difficult situation and either way it was his loss. He would have lost his sisters life forever..

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Posted: 12 years ago
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I don't think Asad is calling Zoya with the expectation of conducting an extramarital affair. He is probably feeling guilty for the situation that she has now fallen into. The ZOYAAN marriage is just a marriage of convenience, not a real relationship so there is no issue of cheating.


I think Asad should stay away at the moment, coz you don't get to push someone into something they don't want to do, and then expect them to just chit chat with you as per normal. Zoya is feeling betrayed. So under those circumstances she would NOT want to speak to Asad. Neither would I in her shoes.


But I don't think there is anything resembling an extra marital affair here!! Yes Zoya is married, but its not a real marriage. At least at this point it is not. IF Zoya says she wants to stick with her marriage for real and Asad STILL calls her, then I would say he is being inappropriate. But at THIS point, he really should know she doesn't want to talk to him after what he did!! Expecting her to sacrifice for his lame sister!!


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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: kankabhor

Asad sold Zoya huh.. How??

What was other option for him? Did you want him to see Nikhat's dead body and marry Zoya?😕

Yeah, he was wrong , he did not ask Zoya but calling that as selling a girl is not right at all.. Why din't Zoya speak? Why she left Asad on wedding day? When you don't trust your would be husband , then I would say Zoya too does not deserve Asad..

That situation was helpless..If you would have given a choice that your sister will die next moment and only option is to get the girl married to brother , then what??
Its very easy to preach and become moral police but difficult to face real situation.. Do you mean, AsYA would have married and attend Nikhat's funeral that day?🤢.. Not justifying Asad's actions, he was wrong, but he is not seller, trader, master.. It was difficult situation and either way it was his loss. He would have lost his sisters life forever..

thank GOD i was about to lose my balance
Shy people dont understand its about HIS SIS LIFE
I dont understand if people dont have siblings and they love them or what
Maybe the way he grabs her was wrong but is zoya not wrong
Who is behind all this isnt zoya????
What u wait from asad to do say no and lets go zoya divorce ayan
And we Will get married and nikhat go to hell!!! Is this people wish
Kanka love ur mind GOD bless u
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Sold, stuff buy toy 😕
Whats all this why people hate this man That much!!!
Why after all the one who should be blamed is asad
Is asad made only to be wrong and be insulted to be blamed !!!!!!
Edited by Ilhamez - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
#35

Originally posted by: MrDarcyfan

I don't think Asad is calling Zoya with the expectation of conducting an extramarital affair. He is probably feeling guilty for the situation that she has now fallen into. The ZOYAAN marriage is just a marriage of convenience, not a real relationship so there is no issue of cheating.


I think Asad should stay away at the moment, coz you don't get to push someone into something they don't want to do, and then expect them to just chit chat with you as per normal. Zoya is feeling betrayed. So under those circumstances she would NOT want to speak to Asad. Neither would I in her shoes.


But I don't think there is anything resembling an extra marital affair here!! Yes Zoya is married, but its not a real marriage. At least at this point it is not. IF Zoya says she wants to stick with her marriage for real and Asad STILL calls her, then I would say he is being inappropriate. But at THIS point, he really should know she doesn't want to talk to him after what he did!! Expecting her to sacrifice for his lame sister!!




I agree, the only reason why zoya is not answering asad is because she is angry, all 3 of them know they are responsible for what happened, and since is already clear that is a marriage of convenience i don't see extra marital affair are u kidding me hahah, they love each other for gods sake, and ayaan knows that...This topic have made me think and questioned about myself so am i a sinner because i interact with my ex?, we had some problems and he even has another relationship now but that doesn't mean we can't be friends after evrything has passed...i wonder, or maybe i'm wrong
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Ilhamez

thank GOD i was about to lose my balance
Shy people dont understand its about HIS SIS LIFE
I dont understand if people dont have siblings and they love them or what
Maybe the way he grabs her was wrong but is zoya not wrong
Who is behind all this isnt zoya????
What u wait from asad to do say no and lets go zoya divorce ayan
And we Will get married and nikhat go to hell!!! Is this people wish
Kanka love ur mind GOD bless u




Thanks dear.. I am trying to see it from all POV but I am upset at the extreme feminism on forum .. Nothing wrong in bring feminist but anything when don't at extreme level turns into bad..
Feminism and hipocrisy at its worst I must say .. Why not any post on calling Zoya as cheater as she is thinking about Asad even being married to someone else in that case at least Asad is not married to anyone to call him cheater..

Asad was not right 100% but not trader or seller .. This blind Zoya worshiping is getting in my nerve these days..I too want Zoya to show attitude and cold shoulder to Asad Ayaan both but it's not fair to call Asad cheater and Zoya godess if he is calling her
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Yeah its getting on My nerves too
I dont want to talk more Coz cant stop myself if i start
All what i CAN say people use Logic try to be fair
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Posted: 12 years ago
#38
Agree but its not all asad's fault.all 3 of them r equally responsible for what happened.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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It really irks me that Asad feels that he can do as he pleases with Zoya,hand her over to his bro for a lil while then accept her back when the bro's are done with saving their sister Nikhats life...I mean what teh hell is this all supposed to be?A game of pass the parcel?He has gone against her wishes and offered her as the sacificial goat by trying to emotinally guilt trip her about Nikhats life being in danger.It is not a nice feeling to be in such a position where one feels guilt tripped emotionally to do what they think is going to be the right thing at the time when in actual it is not.He was wrong for putting her in such a position in the very first place.Everyone keeps going on about how this a fake marriage and all a pretense but has everyone forgotten that Ayaan and Zoya both have had to sign marriage papers claiming that they agree to this marriage in front of witnesses.What the hell is Gul trying to portray here...that the institute of marriage is a joke and that one two people can just get married for a period of time just to accomplish other goals in their life and then get divorced when theri missions are accomplished, a marriage of convenience?
In the eyes of the law and society,Zoya and Ayaan are husband and wife now!
I am glad that Zoya didn't pick up Asad's call today.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I beg to differ Pri

Zoya, Asad and Ayaan have not recognized this nikaah to be real and know that this arrangement is temporary.

If you watched Ayaan's interview in the BTS today, he said it clearly: Zoya is my bhabhi!

Zoya is still wearing Asad's ring, thinking about him and even wrote a note to him telling him that she wants to be with him and doesn't need sympathy from him.

If she was committed to Ayaan or this marriage, she would never write a note to another man like that.

There is no EMA, no cheating here. She just feels betrayed and abandoned by the man who had promised to protect and be there for her. Any woman would be upset.


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