Asad! Stop calling another man's wife. Where are your ethics now? - Page 5

Originally posted by: Rupunzale

oh sure she is a sinner ...her only sin was to fall for a man who basically sold her off as if she were a slave.

sold her off as a slave!? Do u know what that means!?!? God

Originally posted by: shaz2009

<font color="#990099">It really irks me that Asad feels that he can do as he pleases with Zoya,hand her over to his bro for a lil while then accept her back when the bro's are done with saving their sister Nikhats life...I mean what teh hell is this all supposed to be?A game of pass the parcel?

</div>He has gone against her wishes and offered her as the sacificial goat by trying to emotinally guilt trip her about Nikhats life being in danger.It is not a nice feeling to be in such a position where one feels guilt tripped emotionally to do what they think isgoing to be the right thing at the time when in actual it is not.He was wrong for puttingher insuch a position in the very first place.Everyone keeps going on about how this a fake marriage and all a pretense but has everyone forgotten that Ayaan and Zoya both have had to sign marriage papers claiming that they agree to this marriage in front of witnesses.What the hell is Gul trying to portray here...that the institute of marriage is a joke and that one two people can just get marriedfor a period of time just to accomplish other goals in their life and then get divorced when theri missions are accomplished, a marriage of convenience?<div>

In the eyes of the law and society,Zoya and Ayaan are husband and wife now!

I am glad that Zoya didn't pick up Asad's call today.</font>

do u think Asad would have handed Zoya over if she hasn't accidentally got married to ayaan!? Sab Kismat ki lakh hai iys mein kya shakh hai!

thanks Ilhamez for agreeing with me

Originally posted by: studentofdayear

sold her off as a slave!? Do u know what that means!?!? God

Originally posted by: Rupunzale

Asad!

You did your doing...traded/sold her like a slave or commodity...without giving her an opportunity to express her wishes. Well, she did express her feelings loud and clear...SHE SAID NO. So leave her alone. She is a married woman now and she doesn't want to talk to you. Respect her wishes for once.

Asad! She is not a toy to play around with...and she is definitely not a slave to sell and buy back apt your wish. You never deserved her...Please stay with your sense of responsibilities toward your siblings and ethics. And as ethical and honest you proclaim to be you should never try to keep a relationship with a married woman. This is utterly disgusting.

Zoya is an American and however progressive and independent we are we still don't get into extramarital affairs...it's truly distasteful...unethical and characterless.

And Zoya is definitely not one.

You don't get to decide Zoya's fate anymore.

Originally posted by: Rupunzale

Asad!

You did your doing...traded/sold her like a slave or commodity...without giving her an opportunity to express her wishes. Well, she did express her feelings loud and clear...SHE SAID NO. So leave her alone. She is a married woman now and she doesn't want to talk to you. Respect her wishes for once.

Asad! She is not a toy to play around with...and she is definitely not a slave to sell and buy back apt your wish. You never deserved her...Please stay with your sense of responsibilities toward your siblings and ethics. And as ethical and honest you proclaim to be you should never try to keep a relationship with a married woman. This is utterly disgusting.

Zoya is an American and however progressive and independent we are we still don't get into extramarital affairs...it's truly distasteful...unethical and characterless.

And Zoya is definitely not one.

You don't get to decide Zoya's fate anymore.

Originally posted by: bheegi

I beg to differ Pri

Zoya, Asad and Ayaan have not recognized this nikaah to be real and know that this arrangement is temporary.

If you watched Ayaan's interview in the BTS today, he said it clearly: Zoya is my bhabhi!

Zoya is still wearing Asad's ring, thinking about him and even wrote a note to him telling him that she wants to be with him and doesn't need sympathy from him.

If she was committed to Ayaan or this marriage, she would never write a note to another man like that.

There is no EMA, no cheating here. She just feels betrayed and abandoned by the man who had promised to protect and be there for her. Any woman would be upset.

I think talak will happen, but zoya won't go back to Asad and marry him. I think her patience has been tested to the limit, Asad and Ayaan both have thought about Nikhats future and now Zoya is feeling that she really does have no one to call her own..

One thing that is getting me frustrated is the fact that where are her Appi and Jiju on all of this. I feel lile screaming, this entore situation is so unrealistic. She was all set to marry Asad on the same day of Najmas nikhah, but where the hell were her appi and jiju?? Now all this complicated mess and still a no show from her appi and jiju!
I mean this doesn't happen in real life.. Sooo frustrating. I sometimes wonder if the creatives team have actually forgotten appi and jiju all together..

Asad is no saint. There is no doubt about that. He has flaws that should be criticized, but they can be done in a more tasteful manner. Employment of ideas such as "slave trade" or "slave purchase" in such an offhand manner is crass and deprecating towards the sufferings of others, especially considering the historical context of these ideas.

Are you talking about the same Zoya who has another man's engagement ring on? Same Zoya who thinks about another man day and night? Same Zoya who sent another man a letter saying she can't live without him. I understand you dislike Asad but at least be fair for once. Zoya isnt any different from him.

And oh just to set the record straight, more than forcing, Asad emotionally blackmailed her and begged her to trust their love. And I dont get why Zoya is playing the blame game here when half the mess is created by her and whatever was decided was right in front of her eyes. She could have said a straight up no in front of everyone but she chose not to. She wasnt the only one getting emotionally manipulated. So playing victim and putting entire blame.on others is bull crap.