hey di.. read the note before going to pik up t... so wud nt b in order... bt still i wud reply with all pts tht i thot of while waiting fr her cab :) :)
1. trust di.. is nt build upon expecting change... i hv lived thru too many of such relationships myself to knw tht.. n u knw a bit abt atleast 1 of them...
if A expects B to change.. n B does... expecting A to trust him more.. then B is mistaken... someone who cant accept u fr wht u r.. can never trust u..
at the expense of divulging personal life.. i wud say this... my husband is nt the kinds to share everythg... bt still i dont doubt .. u can say its coz i m in love marriage... while khushi is nt.. bt then.. di.. its a choice one makes.. khushi chose to trust him.. whn she was 3 days into marriage.. n nw she choses to doubt.
i knw u dont want to mk it come across as it does.. bt honestly.. rt nw.. khushi comes across as a person.. who keeps hurt hidden within herself.. m mauka dekh ke tana maro.. this is nt only my opinion.. u knw a lot of my frnds n family read this story thru me.. trust me.. fr last few chapters i m mking them read rather than narrate.. so tht i can get individual unbiasd opinion... n all.. i repeat.. all of them feel the same..
tht khushi dil me baat daba ke baad me tana maaarti hai.. which neither considers to b maturity... n this neither includes atleast 4 ppl ,, n u knw tht.
i think if khushi has some issue with the kind of person arnav is.. she shud b man enuf to say it on his face.. directly.. rather than resorting to such ways...
i do the same in my own life.. n so i say out of exp...
2. were khushi's parents.. as in shashi n garima... abusive??? did htey nt hv faith in khushi?? no. i dont think so.. then wht was it.. tht prompted the need to tk away teh rt of a parent tht God himself has imparted..
did they mk mr rathod ( deeptimaan's father) khushi's legal gaurdian?? i dont think so.. then who gave him the rt to keep sthg so imp fr 3 whole yrs.. i understand at tht pt shashi n garima were in no position to tk it.. bt 3 yrs is long..
3. i did question at a pt in time y arnav was nt told.. bt u told me ur views.. n i accepted n understood ... i hope u can believe tht..
bt tht still does nt mk me accept it tht they hid it frm her parents.
i long bak stopped holding deeptimaan responsible.. i told u tht too.. wht happened was beyond his control.. he did the best he cud.. he told an elder.. who was probably the only adult to handle the facts then.. so hence forth.. as far as i m concerned.. its mr rathod's mistake. nt his.
4. as of arnav nt disclosing or he shud b doing... i m nt saying he shud or nt.. i hv never questioned wht n how khushi is.. so y shud i question hw arnav is.. i accepted her fr wht she is.. so i do arnav.. all tht i question of khushi is.. y nt say thgs as u shud.. openly.. keep thgs simple n straight.. gain trust.. n tk trust..
i dont question y she feels bad.. its her rt... bt hw she handles it.. deals with it.. i think can b done better..
n i again say... my life has taught me tht being straight fwd abt ur feelings can save a lot..
abt the last line.. i will give u details in chat.
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