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EPISODE 85 ' Part 86
Navratri -----Part 1
Significance of Navratri
Navaratri is divided into sets of three days to
adore different aspects of the supreme goddess. On the first three days, the
Mother is invoked as powerful force called Durga in order to destroy
all our impurities, vices and defects. The next three days, the Mother is
adored as a giver of spiritual wealth, Lakshami, who is considered to
have the power of bestowing on her devotees the inexhaustible wealth. The final
set of three days is spent in worshipping the mother as the goddess of wisdom, Saraswati In
order have all-round success in life, we need the blessings of all three
aspects of the divine mother; hence, the worship for nine nights.Kanya Pooja
comes with it.
Connection part of
Navratri will be done in Part 2---------
In RM,The family is busy in the preparation of Navratri
.While Arnav is climbing down the stairs JP is going up.The moment Jai Prkash spills coffee on Arnav the
poor guy started shaking with fear but appallingly Arnav does not get angry and tells him softly to make another one...Everyone looks at
him astonishingly .Mamiji is right Sun definitely has appeared from the West.
Symbolism and connection: Jai
Parakash [Victory of light] Light is Khushi in the dark life of Arnav and her
success is appearing as he is changing slowly though.
Sun----- It can symbolize a god; most of ancient
civilizations have a sun god. It can also symbolize intellect and
understanding, the masculine, glory and fame, yang (to the moon's yin), life,
hope.
Again Khushi is a hope of Arnav's hopeless life . Understandings
in between these two souls are increasing day by day but acknowledgement with
their brains is clashing.
"Hai Dhoop sa woh agar tou woh
chandini raat si hai"
Tu hi bata mere Maula
In GH, Not big but prep of Navratri are also going on.Khushi
is in a good mood seems like flying with happiness of her
Arnavji... Payal asks her about her
joy but her Amma scolds at them with love. Khushi tells Payal ,Arnav's sorry
is the reason of her pagalpan.. Khushi finds out her bruised arm and last night
incident lingers in front of her eyes which makes her uncomfortable that how
she supposed to hide it or explain it to anyone as she has no answers. She
wraps her Dupatta her protection around her and makes an excuse in front of her
Amma that she is feeling cold. Amma does not know the REAL Sanka Devi[no one
knows] behind this one...
Pause here:I am so happy I call Arnav by the
name of Akhroo never knew Khushi gave him that name too..."Woh Akhroo Singh Laad
Governor ne hum se maafi kaise mangi...[How come ASR said sorry to me]hmmm
Babuji went to Shyam's work to investigate about him and
found another world within world of Slitherum Sundrum Shyam. Plus point He did find out that his family is in Delhi
then why the heck he is living like PG in our home? Hmmm Good question Babuji..so proud you... .Shyam did see him
climbing an auto when other lawyer told him about the new client who does not
trust him in the name of Khushi.
Symbolism:As beginning stage is set for
everyone[Green, pink, Blue Nile..see epi 83-84] and so is here.This is the
beginning where Shyam is going to come out of his cocoon in his real shape and
Babuji will be his first victim...DM and her move...[These things sometimes shake
us but God knows better]
Payal and Akash had a sweet convo on the phone.Awww...their
sweet shyness..."hum ne aap'mera matlab hai hum ne Khushi se baat karni hai"[I
called for you,...I mean for Khushi]
He made it clear to Mamiji that he will only think of marriage until Bhai gets
married which puts her on halt with fear of her son without being married.But
one thing is right Akash will break the line and will try to become #1 in this
marriage race but our Arnav Bitwa does not like to be #2 so he will bring his
Bride the same day Mamiji...Hello Hi bye byeee...
Pause here:It happened before right Durga if
I am not wrong you had a parody on that pic of Sanyasi Akash and me and Sohara
used it in our analysis..hmmm..Kuch yaad ayea ----------
In RM,the whole Raizada Mansion is still wondering about
Arnav's strange but sweet behavior but Nani still is skeptical and has her
reasons to disagree with everyone in the matter of La.La gets irritate with it
and goes to Arnav's room.Her wifey attitude makes Arnav very much aggrevative
BUT one thing he makes clear She will never be HIS wife.
Pause here: Especially after having HOPE
from last night he is a changed person regardless his fears which will still
hinder his inner feelings for her
to accept and her cold shoulder attitude will add fuel to fire.EGO, EGO
,EGO...They both are going to burn in it but will emerge like a "Kundan"
While arnav
climbs down the stairs being mad at poor JP as usually [Mom's Barsi and at the
top marriage pressure ,he has so much in his plate],His eyes meets with Khushi
and that stops his feet.Khushi looks at him with sweet smile but he passes a
grin which makes her belief go
down a bit' lagta hai LG apne asli roop mein wapas aa gyea hain' [ I think LG
is back in his Avatar]Yes today he is grining but one day he will do anything
to bring her smile back [after kidnapping ]
Khushi walks in and Anjali points out at her wrapping Dupatta
and but Khushi will not say anything about her Arnavji.
Arnav walks right
passing her but her Dupatta gets stuck in his laptop and unwraps her. She
gets confounded at the situation as she tries to clutch her shirt in the place
of Dupatta, while understanding her uneasiness he hands her the Dupatta .
The
moment she was putting it on, he sees her bruised arm
and first closed his fist because of being the reason of it and then closed his
eyes by gulping the pain which he shares with her equally.He is angry at his own anger which gives her pain each time.Its unbearable for him.He wants to remove the pain or do something about it and that urges him when she tries to cover her up without giving him explanation.
He turns around to
go but his feet stops again and he
says Sorry without hesitation yes feels a bit awkward to him but does it as he owes her and then
walks away...Khushi is astounded at him and at the top he turns and looks back at
her makes her more stunned as he said sorry twice.[#2 represents sexual tension
in couples]
Pondering pointsSo Khushi's
Dupatta is stuck with him.Three meanings he is her protector no matter what as
I've been saying it over and over Dupatta is her respect ,her protection and it
represents Arnav who always there
to protect her intentionally or unintentionally.One day he will tell her by
keeping Dupatta away from her Lehnga choli that I am your Dupatta you don't
have to worry.Of course He will be disrespecting her first by forced marriage but
in return protecting her from Jijaji and then when she will try to free herself
"jhoti moothi hi sahi" he will protect this sacred relation of marriage by
forcing her come back to RM and then remarrying her.Second Dupatta is always
happy near him as it delivers message to him from her which she can't convey by
herself.Third she bent down first as she is the one who will do whatever will
it take to protect their marriage they both are holding it together yes they
did and as he is giving her the whole Dupatta he will restore her respect by
remarrying her.
There is a whole array of events here.One scene and that
much significance .Hats off to writers and brains behind it.
Connecting Dots:But at the same time one day he will pull this Dupatta, 1st
pull for kiss, marriage day,and stopping her for not leaving are my fav
few of my fav---guest house,Satsung
,storage room, etc wher Dupatta is wrapping him conveying her messages to him.
While Khushi was having a rejoiced and astonished moment ,La
tells her ASR does not see a wife
in her.Khushi gives La a make over of
bride and explains her about marriage and its beauty. La is a born
confused soul...Loved Khushi's mimicking Arnav which makes La laugh too.No wonder
why they both became friends.Right when khushi was about to leave...ASR enters with
"ding dong Headache" and asks for
lemon tea.
Symbolism and connection:Lemon
is a symbol of purification and love.[epi 58 ANJALI'S WEDDING ANNIVERSARY ]
Arnav's Pure love towards Pure innocent Khushi is proceeding as Beginning has
started and his fears will be purified too but at big cost of Khushi's
sacrifice from Shyam's engagement
to Contract marriage.
.Khushi rushes out but ASR is right outside
coming there so she hides herself in the Bathroom.
Pause here: Last time she hides in the
Closet and this time in the bathroom.Same scenario.[Anjali's weding anniversary
and ARSHI meeting after store room fight]
He comes in his room without paying attention to La but the
moment he opens his closet he stops ,pauses, and turns with astonishment and
only "What the" with gritting teeth comes out .Khushi thnx DM without paying
attention to his anger.Arnav,What is all of this La" as La thinks this way he
can see her as her bride.I think God forgot her brain while distributing
others.
ASR proceeds with his BG score louder and clearer so she can
hear him as in the morning he made it clear to her that she will not be HIS
wife.He drags her down from the bed.La gets scared along with Khushi.He tells
her by yelling "Didn't I say this already...Don't behave like my wife ...How many
times I have to say that..."
La looks at Khushi with her side eyes and both are scared
which makes him look at her hiding there.
He looks at her with astonishment and that changes in pain
and pain changes into tears with disappointment .His bitterly pain can be seen
in his eyes as he was not expecting that from her after last night when she
poured her heart out in front of him. With painful teary eyes and flaring
nostrils he drags her out from the bathroom.La and Khushi shares a scared look
with each other.He looks at both of them and turns his face [always when he
does not want to face reality to keep his ego up] and closed his eyes,"I can't
believe this"...
Bingo he is not angry at Khushi but disappointed and hurt
yes.Khushi seeing him in pain tries to evade from there but Arnav,"eik
minute"[One minute}
Pause here: His one closed fist and other
hand is open.His redemption door will always be open each time when he will be
harsh with Khushi.The same way the night when he threw Khushi out of his car
and came back in his room.One fist closed one hand open and he rectified right
away by looking for it in the night all the way to her home to see her drunk
feeling him the very first time.
PONDERING CONNECTED DOTS:
He found her in her hiding in his closet that day and went
speechless with astonishment that how come she is here after whatever happened
in between them and at the top she left him "Hamesha keh liyeh" regardless he
couldn't throw her out of his brain and heart despite throwing pearls out into
the air.
Today he found her in his room in the bathroom and stunned
at her again how come she is here doing all this after whatever happened in
between them especially when they both threw their hearts out on each other by
sharing secretive anguish moments with each other that's why it was "I can't
believe this" moment came again in front of him.Just beautiful.
La realizes this quickly this time as she knows he will yell
at her like last time.,"ASR ..."But ASR throws his daggers at La and she looks
down with fear,...
He comes close to Khushi,"Mein soch sakta hoon jis mahol
mein tum pali bhari ho wahan ki soch alag hoti hai...par tumhari low middle
class mentality ki yahan koi jagah nahin hai...Yahan kissi ki personal life mein
interfere karne ko badtamizi kehtey hain...par shyed yeh baat tumhain
samajh nahin ayegi...Ghalati shyed
meri hai keh mein tum jaisi larki se expect kar raha hoon keh tum mera life
style samjho
[I can realize the way you raise up ,your thinking is
different ...but there is no place of your low mentality here...over here it is
against the etiquettes to interfere in others life but you will not
understand...its my fault as I am expecting this from you to understand my life
style]
Khushi who listened each and every word of him gathers her
courage to say,"Apni kamzoriyon ko apne life style keh peeche mat
chupaeye.."[Don't hide your weaknesses behind your life style.]
Arnav with gritting his teeth,"I know how to cross all the
limits but I am quiet because of Di so get the hell out of this room"He sees her fear and uneasiness while
gazing her from her hands to face as she was fidgeting with her Dupatta her respect.
He gulps this pain of being mad at her but the pain which is
eating him alive is he can't have her or she will not be hers without Marriage
a relationship which is meaningless for him because of his painful past.
He turns and tells La to change.He repeats but La answers back
with some backbone."No".ASR,"what do you want La"
La,"You and I both know what I want but the real question is
what do you want"[BIG Q IF HE CAN FIND THE ANSWER]
ASR,"Its clear from the very first day what I want,I never
lied to you or made any false promise of marriage.You and I know this that we
will live together but will never marry ...Then why are you behaving like this
Dammit..."
La,"Why do you have a fear to get marry"
Arnav,"You think I am scared...
La,then why are we not getting marry?If you are not scared
or it doesn't affect you then why can't we get marry?
Unintentionally La hit the target of his triggering pain and
scare...of this MARRIAGE.
La,"You don't love me or care about me,
ASR,"no I don't care about you that's why I kept you besides
all the odds and against of all because I lost my brain...He screamed at her/
[A persom screams when he/she tries to hide flaws]
La,"Don't scream...I don't want everyone else to know...I don't
want to be your gf for the whole life ,I want more than that ...
ASR,"I can't give you more than that"
La,"then Its enough ..I can't live like this.I am going...
ASR,"its your wish...."
During all of this fiasco House ladies get upset.Anjali is
right Mamiji its their personal matter.Khushi is the most vulnerable here as
she is blaming herself along with Mamiji for all of this.She tries hard to stop
La along with Anjali but alas.I really liked La in this epi for standing up for
herself and felt sorry for her too.
ASR climbs down the stairs and approaches to Khushi with his
daggering rage at her,Anjali tries to talk to him but he is up to no good.
ASR,"enough Di, yeh sab tumhari wajha se huwa hai, aap sub
logon ne sun liyah na la yeh ghar chod kar ja rahi hai...ab iss larki ki iss ghar
mein koi zaroorat nahi hai...Ise keh dijiye iss ghar se, meri zindagi se nikal
jaye...
{All this happened because of you, everyone heard that La is
leaving so we don't need this girl...give her money and tell her to go away from
my house and my life...
Khushi is hurt by "Meri Zindagi se nikal jaye"[Get out of my life] and he wants her to realize it the same way he did that day he yelled at her for leaving him Hamesha key liye without realizing the pain she caused for him.
Bingo both know the meanings of what he said,"Par jaan keh
anjan hain"[They both want to remain as they don't know]
He walks out of the house without listening Anjali...
Pause here: Arnav,"tell her
to goaway from my house and my life" Bingo so she is part of your life you are telling her this indirectly and
she is receiving it but because you can't have her at your terms and she can't
be with you putting belief system aside so what is left your deep burning love
for each other which is not going let either one of you breath no matter
what."Hum saans hi nahi...
TRANSFORMING PONDERING POINT:This
is reminding me the day when he threw her out of his house before Raksha
Bandhan against his Di' wish but today he asks his Di to do so but at the same
time delivers Khushi a message how dare you to play with me like that.What a
transformation?
Lamha-e-Fikeriya[Thinkable moment:] He is walking out but why there is a slight satisfaction
that whatever happened it happened for good from his side.Why I am getting
vibes here"Jo kaam woh khud nahin kar paya woh Khushi ki badaulat ho
gayea"[What ever he couldn't do it ,it happened because of Khushi.He couldn't
get rid off La as he is so annoyed by her these days but it happened so what.He
is not angry at Khushi this is like show off anger.He is having a point here
though.Think ppl leaving it to you..
MOMENT OF THE DAY
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Edited by ArshiHamesha - 11 years ago
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