82- PART of 83
Parents'Anniversary
PART 2
Happiness and sadness are the
two sides of the same coin. Every person experiences both sides so as to
maintain the natural equilibrium. Sadness is a feeling which strikes the heart
of humans when there is an undesired result or when he/she lost something very
precious.This is exactly Arnav [king]and [queen]Khushi's life story.They both
have lost their parents and this side of the coin is always there for them no
matter what ,the only thing matters how to deal with it to move on with their
lives.
Unfortunately Khuhsi moved on but Arnav couldn't. When Khushi will come to his life, he will move on.
Story of [rooks]Anjali and
Shyam along with the story of [pawns] Gupta and Raizada's family [with Bishops(Nani
and Arnav's mom) involvement ] is filled with these two sides of the coin.
Humein Aansu Se Zakhmo Ko Dhona Nahi Aata
Milti Hai Khushi To Use Khona Nahi Aata
Seh Lete Hai Har Ghum Hans Ke
Log Kehte Hai Humein Rona Nahi Aata
By shayari
TRANSLATION:
I CAN'T CLEAN MY WOUNDS WITH TEARS
I DON'T KNOW HOW TO LOSE HAPPINESS WHEN COMES TO ME
I EMBRACE ALL GRIEF WITH SMILE
BUT STILL PEOPLE SAY I DON'T KNOW HOW TO CRY
These two epis have plots side by side...
PLOT #1
King and Queen's sad moments[continue
from part 1]
Khushi rushes through the
door to be free from the immense pain given by Arnav by closing the door at her
without her fault.Her steps are faster than her dropping tears when Naniji
calls her to put halt on both.She in her standstill does not know what to do
but with her golden heart how can she see the elderly Naniji struggling with
all and this.Naiji asks her to fill up
Ganga Jal for Sharat and she knows the meaning of it as Arnav made it
very clear to her.
She can bear Arnav's harsh words, but can't ignore to share burden of an elders.
Symbolism and connection:This is related with the flour which Khushi
just spread all over him in the kitchen but also spread on her feet too.In some
casts in India they wash Bride's feet with milk and flour.Khushi is doing all
the rituals one by one.Its pure FATE and today she is taking blessings indirectly
from His parents as she is here on their death anniversary and She is the elder Bahu Arnav's
wife and she is preparing it as this is her right.FATE is playing big role
here.
Undoubtedly destiny keeps playing it's game.
Arnav stops her furiously "Sharadh
ki tyari sirf ghar wale karte hain...Aaj ka din mere liyeh bohot important aur aaj
keh din mujhe tumhari shakal dekhna pade mujhe bilkul pasand nahin hai[Only
family members do the prep of Sharadh,Today's day is very important for me and
I don't want to see your face today]
Convulsion of Khush's pain
reaches its hikes and she rushes towards the doorway with eyes filled with
tears and Arnav stood there ruthlessly as he wants to hate her for thinking of him that low.
he indeed was in compunction!
Anjali stops Khushi again and
asks her lovingly and with concern, the reason of leaving as someone said
something to her but she never did nor will do mentioning Arnav's name.Anjali
understands she can't take this pain as she is an orphan too and all of this is
increasing her distress.She tries to pacify Khushi while Arnav rages over this
but stupefies at Anjali's words"aapko apne Amma aur Bauji ki yaad aa rahi
hai"[you are missing your parents] He couldn't move or blink while watching two
important people in his life
crying and sharing their common pain .
Reverberation of his words make him
realize his mistake and he wants to rectify it but she is gone .He tries to
find her and gets a glimpse of her face filled with pain which brings agony in
him but she leaves him with this affliction and gripping hurt because he knows
the real meaning of this pain he gave her and this time he has to rectify it.
he was remorseful for his excruciating words.
Symbolism and
Connection:Arnav's
reflection while he was in pain but reflection is approximately same as him ,
Acc to Egyptians reflections
are like reflecting on one's thoughts and actions in an eternal process of
self-evaluation and this time Arnav is in this process as reflection tells you
what is currently true.He is self evaluating himself to rectify his mistake.
brilliant!👏
Also there are two vases while he is coming down and # 2 represents a famine # as it relates to closeness, harmony, and sensitivity.Sensual awareness among couple.That's what Arnav and Khushi are being going through.
Khushi's pain has no end
today when she finds out her Babuji's condition.She can't see her Babuji like
that as she has lost her parents but her immense love shows the power of love
this family has given her.
Pause here[Connected
Dots]:Khushi was
only eight when Garima brought her when she got married with Shashiji as Buaji
says in epi 2 and since then Shahiji gave her love more than anyone even more
than Garima.She is so close to him and very much vulnerable to tell him all
which she shares with DM the same way Arnav is vulnerable to his Di for now but
Khushi will be more than her as I explained in epi 80.He was hugging her while crying without opening up
but he opens his heart filled with pains to Khushi regardless in anger in epi
81 and will tell her about his Mom's suicide too later and that day he will be
free from this burden on his chest.At the same time Khushi is the only one he
takes to his sacred Garden where
his mother is in between roses ,the rose which he gives her on her Bday even if TODAY he does not want her to
attend their Barsi[death anniversary] . Not only that he will believe in stars
[both will see stars together and telepathy moment]as parents and will create
for her the Galaxy where his mother and her mother will be together.[Saath
Saath]
Khushi's affliction has no
limit today as someone scratches her wounds again and he is no other than her
Arnavji.Sitting right besides her Babuji a girl of eight years old again wants
her Babuji to embrace her the same way he did ten years ago.She can't leave him or see him in this pain as
she already lost her parents and she can't go through the same agony again.
Pause here:"hum apne Amma aur Bauji ko
eik bar kho chuke hain ..hum se Dubara yeh sab nahin hoga.."[I lost my parents once
and I can't bear that pain again]Khushi says these to Arnav while hugging him
and then again while sitting besides him.
PLOT#2
[Rooks]Anjali and Shyam's sad
moments
Anjali wants her husband
right besides her as this is her important day.She calls her artful and crafty
hubby more than enough time but each time sly has
illusory and deceptive answer
to deviate her questions as he can't go there while Khushi is there this is a
sad moment for him as he can't keep up with this."Dhobi ka kuta na ghar ka na ghat
ka"...[sly]
Anjali,'"you did'nt come on
Teej ,wasn't present at time of wedding anniversary but I didn't say
anything.But today if you are not here then..."Love her the way she disconnected
him.
SYMBOLISM &CONNECTION: Water,[Pani...Jal] Shyam's
entrance with dropping water and putting Ghee in the fire.
Water is associated with purity but water is
an element usually associated with girls and women also. It can also be
used to show love or concern. Characters and things that are shown to
have a 'watery' quality to them usually have a blue-colored theme to
them. Blue color of water as Shyam's bracelet .He is in love or more of
having lust of a girl.
Ghee[boiled butter and strained] symbolizes
sacrification along with the use in marriage ceremony and funeral to purify
dead. Arnav is going to sacrifice his Love for his Di .
Water spills,ghee goes to fire and Shyam
enters"Dhan aur Mun Chunchul hai, miritue sache hai"[ Money and heart are
naught but death is is a truth] Hatts off to creators how beautiful they
connected these things together.Water and his character is so cleverly
connected here.
Anjali's tears for her parents or for her
agonizing sly hubby who never stands right besides him makes me vexatious for
her.His astute , artful , and insidious moves are going to hurt almost anyone
especially Anjali's parents especially her mother whose spirit is not only in
pain for her son but also for her daughter too.
Shyam is devil, when devil is around pain is inevitable.And the devil wander around us with a mask on. So we can't even recognise him.
PLOT#3
Gupta [Pawns]Family's sad
moments
Shyam is playing his slimy
games with house ladies while Babuji is playing his sagacious game given by the
grace of DM.He feels pain in his arm and chest and fells down unconsciously.God
sometimes plays game with our heart and minds in such a way that you have to
leave it him because of lack of answers .Divine power is making Shyam a reason
of survival here.He brings the doctor and tries to give courage to the family
too even in his Slithery way.
He did it for his own benefit. he wanted to win the trust of Guptas.
Payal he can't call RM to tell Khushi come home
"iski pol na khul jayegi"[he will be exposed] as RaniSahiba is calling over and
over.
Buaji praises Shyam way too
much and same as Amma as Shyam is the one who saved his life.Arggg ..He is
winning heart over here to get Khushi.
buaji is too much. How cum an elderly person like her trusted a stranger blindly, without even checking his background.
Pause here:Doctor tells Shyam about the
medication and warns him about the heart attack. He is a healer now and killer
later because he is not going to tell family about meds and he will use his
heart trouble to kill him.
Shyam is just a relentless monster!😡
Hate his moves today as he is
totally disgusting.😡😡😡
Babuji even in this condition
did not forget to recall the duty as a father.He picked up his phone which he
made Payal leaving there to get another pillow for him.Meanwhile Slither
notices he left his phone in the bedroom and he comes in and gets suspicious at
Babuji as in this condition and moving on his bed But before he could do
anything Khushi comes in and embraces with her father .Babuji calms her
down.Sly takes his phone and goes out but I hated him lusting over Khushi while
she was embraces her father...Yuck! Dirty man with dirty thinking.Cheap creep!!😡😡😡
keen observation. I didn't notice yet. I just hate this shabby fellow.
He calls RaniSahiba as "Maidan
Saaf hai"[everything is clear] and he can go to his money but mone does not
want to talk to him...
PLOT # 4
Raizadas[Pawns] with Bishops
"Meri aankhon mein tu
muskuraye
Meri Dadkan pey hain tere
saye"
Naniji [Bishop#1 ] sitting in
distress with her grandson
Akash.Her pain has no limit so is her courage and strength.She lost her child
Arnav's mother but got courage to raise her two kids with Love and
affection.Her tears does not show weakness but shows the loss she feels for her
kids as a mother because she has seen ups and downs while raising them.Akash is
his right hand as he was sitting on her right side.He is her son's child but
she always keeps Arnav and Anjali up front no matter what.Her lives with her
through her eyes Arnav and Anjali who are close to Nani's heart.Mamiji and
Mamaji love these kids like on one can and Mamiji's concerns for Dmadji makes
absolutely sense ,he must be present right besides Anajli at this fragile
moment.Arnav's hand on his sister as"Dair se sahi par zaroor ayenge"[it will be
late but he will be here.]
I love and respect nani so much.She is very impartial and a woman of strong values and principals.
Arnav's Mom[Bishop #2} is always with him .She knows
his pain and always show him the way.Because of her attachment he was always
close to her heart and Arnav's eyes are always searching for her even these are
close under that scream"Maa".The pain he closes in his fist grabs his Mom's
spirit and gives him sign I am here with you don't worry.Her "Rooh" Atma
[spirit] is in tremulous seeing her son in agony as her painful memories are
still fresh as the day one in his head.
Arnav's agony couldn't keep her mom's soul in peace. A mom is like that. May be a mom's soul doesn't salvage even after her death if she sees her children in pain.
Pause here:Acc to some beliefs during
praying for dead ,pure and good spirits [Rooh][Atmas]come and visit you and
they are not happy if they see you crying so its better to pray to God May God
bless them with his blessings in their after life rather than cry and make it
difficult for them.
That's why every religion teach us to pray for the dead.
PONDERING
POINT-REMEMBERArnav's Mom is the one who is going to guide him during his marriage day
regardless of Dadi and Shyam unanimous effort to destroy it.
Amazing thought!👏
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