Khushi is the most disrespected character on IPK. - Page 9

Originally posted by: .Euphoria.

Wrote a bigass essay, then lost it all. F*L.

But I agree with you Pri...couldn't have said it better mysel

Priyanka,

Originally posted by: Hot.Pink.Heels

I agree with what you're saying ...to an extent! 

I too wish they would pay more attention to Khushi's character to carry of a proper realistic consistency.

I remember in one interview Sanaya had said that the writers love Khushi cuz they can make Khushi do anything! Which is quite true, since she laughs, cries, goofs off, has a temper and everything else!

I feel that doesn't mean that they stop paying attention to the details on her character! 

But I think the PH are so desperately trying to justify Anjali because they already know that we love Arnav and Khushi so no matter what they make those two characters do and no matter how much we crib about it, at the end of the day we love them! But that doesn't apply to Anjali! All these days we loved Anjali cuz she was Arnav's sweet Di that played a huge role in making Arnav and Khushi realize their love during PaYash's wedding! And now when she is the vulnerable, hurt wife and doesn't know how to react to the situation she is unconciously getting in the way of Arnav and Khushi's relationship, which makes her look like a potential thorn in ArHi's love story. But she's not!

She's just a woman that had her husband snatched away and wants support from her beloved brother and is hurt when she sees him preoccupied with his wife, whom she believes is the cause to all her problems.

But I definitely agree that Khushi deserves much more attention from the writers and Sanaya definitely deserves more credit for her role!

I know I sound like I'm supporting Anjali, but that's not the case. Trust me it seriously irritates me whenever they show Anjali coming in Arnav and Khushi's way but I do realize that the writers are trying to convey something through her actions.

Edited by sanayakhushifan - 11 years ago

Thanks for writing this, I feel the same way. Kushi never gets an apology from anyone. It is just ridiculous. I want ASR to say sorry to her, if not for everything else, for forcing her to get married to him. Now ASR wants to make her smile. If she smiles, so what? Will that alleviate her pain?

Originally posted by: Drwho

Priyanka,

Excellent post and very valid points!

They can try all they want, to get Anjali's pain across but don't they know 'You can lead a horse to water, but you cannot make it drink'..

 

Apparently 4 Lions just posted a picture of Arnav and "Di" on their Facebook page - an indication of what is to come? 😡

I've honestly been keeping quiet this whole time in the hope that things were going to change but what mr.hegde said blew me off, I feel like instead of Anjali, Khushi has become the supporting actress in the show, honestly if the show were just based on Arnav and Anjali this show would have NEVER EVER made it this far,  Edited by SaJanLuv14 - 11 years ago

@ LadyLaLa: Wow your reply almost rivaled mine in the length, I love it! It was just wonderfully written.

Hi Priyanka

I cannot speak for Sanaya but honestly I hope the drama that goes on over the internet never reflects on the sets of the show where they seem to behave like one happy family. It's unfair, I feel they should all maintain a distance from fans, like Barun and Sanaya do. Or deal with it a very level headed manor as Akshay and Abhas do. I understand Daljeet too get upset about being personally attacked because of Anjali but from the video there was a sense of her not being able to handle it and perhaps taking it to heart, I hope she distances herself. I can repeat that 100x for Mr. Hedge. Seriously that dude should not use the internet to communicate with IPKKND fans, he doesn't do himself, the show or us any favours. It's really bad practise. Hire a PR please.

But back to Khushi, 100% ditto. I am still frustrated at the fact they haven't addressed THAT line from Thursday but then again I am not surprise, they have as I feared successfully romanticised that notion. I think they've never quite grasped how to balance Khushi happy-go-lucky, fun loving, bubbly attitude with that sense of maturity and her feisty side, I mean it does emerge once in a while but I think they're in fear of making her the stereotypical bread and butter SP bahu hence they have this tendency to skate over all of Khushi's serious, demeaning issues. Which is frustrating because initially when the show started, Khushi really had spunk where she wouldn't let anyone demean her unfairly.

I'm glad we're getting more monologues to understand her HOWEVER who in the world wrote the dialogues for today's DM scene, where she is talking about how some things will never change but then a second later she decides they can be changed. Plus her reflection on everything Arnav has said and done was so cryptic and vague - it's shoddy.

The CVs need to take a step-back and evaluate what message they want to get across, because the more they continue to skate over the really rubbish that happens to Khushi, the less people will be interested in seeing the female lead being made so weak and disrespected - no matter how many times they use Sanaya for comical, light hearted scenes OR rely on ASR.
Edited by Rabba-Ve-Delena - 11 years ago

Originally posted by: AyeReKhushi

I think it is a combination of two things...one, DB asked for more importance and was this close to quitting and two, the writers probably have run out of ideas to drag the show!

Thanks everyone for your responses! I can only hope that the writers handle Khushi's character with the same sensitivity and care that they are handling a supporting character. Because right now, I'm worried that Khushi is being shown carelessly. Then again, the writers of this show have never written an author-backed track for her. It is all credit to Sanaya and the FANS for bringing this character of Khushi to life.

I don't even know if Sanaya feels bad about this or not but I certainly do. I'd be annoyed if I was her. Its like...you use me to promote the show, the Arshi romance, go overseas to meet international fans and then when it comes to the storyline...you sideline me and even have the nerve to say that the show was always about the brother-sister's story. SI is the one who should be going around, running her own campaign to get people to feel sorry for her and her character.