Mallika and Ashutosh in Yesterday's Epiosde

Originally posted by: Mehek25

Hi friends...Am back again with a post after what seems like ages...Have just watched the episode and a few things have started worrying me...

While I agree that Mallika has been tortured and has gone thru extreme mental trauma...One which could break a strong educated woman like her, Ashu's behaviour and dialogues are the ones that could be a cause of concern to anyone who hears them...

Agreed that Ashu treasures Mallu's friendship and considers it his most valuable possession but did he even think of what effect his words and his actions would have had on his wife? I am asking all married women on this forum what their reaction would have been if they had been in Nidhi's place and would have heard their husband saying all this to his "friend" in front of the entire staff...I too am married and am not ashamed to say that I would have been both embarrassed and also very hurt...The way he kept and keeps harping on their college and hostel times together...and keeps saying how much he treasures her and their friendship...Any onlooker would have thought he does not consider a mere friend but cares for her with all his heart...And that too with a person like Mallika..who did not hesitate to stoop to lowest levels to get Ashu to marry her...

I may be wrong but that's the impression his words and actions would give to any wife...And i actually salute Nidhi that even after seeing and hearing all this she still had a loving and understanding smile on her lips... I am sure my reaction would have been totally different...Sometimes I think whether Anjie is not right in what she told Nidhi at the end...Not from Ashu's POV but from Mallika's POV...Am sure Anjie will be right and Ashu will bring Mallika home in the end and Mallika will do her best to break them up...Maybe that's the way the CVs want the track to proceed...

Sorry friends but this is simply my POV and am sorry if I have offended anyone...

I agree with your take. I would have given my husband a piece if my mind. And never let her put even a step in through my front door.

i agree...
the CV s have called it friendship... but the dialogues from the beginning, paint a different picture... i still cant forget the expressions and dialogues of ashu when mallika was leaving for US... it was as if his world has come crashing down... itna upset toh woh nidhi ke jaane par bhi nahi hua tha... 😛

on a lighter note, i m sure and hope none of the married women have psycho friends like mallika in their hubby's life..

yes I agree, as a wife it is indeed very difficult to see such closeness of the husband with another female, that too mallika. Even though ash and mallika are very close friends, now that he is married to nidhi, ashutosh should keep nidhi,s feelings in mind while dealing with mallika. After marriage friendship with the opposite sex, though quite fine, should be dealt with some distance. Ashtosh is nidhi's' he should not tell mallika "I am your ashutosh", no wife can tolerate that. Nidhi is being very supportive and brave, but this will lead to trouble for sure. I do not agree with anjie,s advice though. Trust is an important factor in a relation, and a relation shouldn,t be so weak that an external factor can break it. If that happens, then it wasn't meant to be. Nidhi did the right thing by helping mallika, and ash being a friend should be concerned naturally. But he should know where to draw the line and be in limits, respecting nidhi. Lets see if the mature guy has that maturity. My pov.

i totally agree with you Mehek...

No wife can take this sort of behavior. First of all every wife want to be his husband's best friend but Ashu never gives her that place. Its okey that people needs friend in their life but friend like Armaan . If Mallu is so imp for Ashu he should have marry her. In weak moment what comes out of Ashu's mouth is enough to break a wife as she knows Mallu's POV towards Ashu. If Ashu go on behaving like this then depression is inevitable for Nidhi. As she cannot share her pain with anybody. Only one person is there who can understand the pain and can wake Ashu up is Armaan. For Ashu both Mallika & Nidhi is equally imp. But not in any practical situation this is possible mainly when both of them are in love with him. So he need to make a choice otherwise this time he is going to bring complete misery to his & Nidhi's life. Hope atleast KTLK team is not going to show this much negativity.

Agree with u mehek, there r some limitations in friendship & ashu,s words r beyond that limitations.

rohan was living in nidhis hiouse with the permission of cv and db and in the presence of whole family he never expressed his love for nidhi in front of asu. he gave her good advices when nidhi done any mistake he immediately pointed to nidhi and when he became sure that nidhi couldnot forgot ashu and they got merried ne immediately left without crearting problems but it is true ashus emotions towards mallu always hearts nidhi and right wife cnnot tolerate this type of relation and dialogue with emotion for any other lady friend which can spoken by husband

fab post mehek 👏