Khushi: Worn-out Warrior or Sympathized SankaDevi?

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Hello everyone! The Monday suspense riding like a high race-horse on your minds? Skimming through the forum to relieve your thirst for this show? Don't worry; you're not the only one.

I especially love this forum because of the regular inflow of talent you witness here, the ongoing debates which give a whole new colour to your beloved show. So what's the hot topic this week?

Well, it's Khushi's character, which, although it has not been on a roller-coaster ride like Arnav's, does have varying shades to it. The debate isn't whether they reflected a new shade upon the prism of her personality, but if it's the same comedy colour that comes in package with Khushi or a murder of the survivor that had once been ingrained in her?

The Worn-out Warrior:


Khushi Kumari Gupta, despite of her delicate shoulders and innocent eyes, had always been the pawn ready to march in the battle-field, ready to fight for her own cause- ALONE. And perhaps that was why the hard-nut-to-crack ASR found himself being attracted towards her: she handled his challenges with an iron-hand and in return, she presented him with challenges. In response to his "welcome to hell", she retaliated by showing that "hell is not enough to burn out my courage, Mr Arnav Singh Raizada." But once she realized that hell might not only burn, but kill her in the process, a consequence she could not inflict on her family, she resigned. She quenched her ego, because her family was more important to her. Who can dare contradict me when I say that Khushi has always been a survivor? She stepped in the house of the same man who had taken the oath to give her misery- and she survived (she did more than just surviving, but let's not get into that) She received a stake of bitter truth through her heart as she realized her fianc( and we know how our Khushi considers marriage as a blessing, pure from the Heavens) was betraying her trust, and yet she couldn't reveal his evil- and she survived. She was forced into a sham marriage, something that shattered all the dreams she had been fostering since forever and went against her treasure of morals; forced by a man she had started to think of as her "raajkumaar" but who know was showing himself as a "shaitaan"- and she survived. Which brings us to the ultimate question: was suicide the only resort or the last resort of Khushi? After the bewildered thoughts of her husband murdering her swarmed in her mind, our Warrior decided to use her pointed sword on her own heart instead of dying from a supposed enemy's wound. But that's not a warrior, is it? And that's not our Survivor KKGSR, is she? Our survivor would have fought with ASR, fought for her life, for her survival, perhaps would even have forced him to surrender. In other words, she could have demanded Arnav to not play with her life and mess with it, gave him a good pep talk of how he can't write everyone's fate. But climbing on to a roof, leaving behind all hope, is this the Khushi who had tilted a steaming cup of tea on our steaming ASR's face? I doubt it. It's not about not acting according to her age; it's about not acting according to her personality!

The Sympathized SankaDevi:


Now the other party rises in retaliation, elevating banners of "Khushi ki Khudkhushi jaiz hai" (Khushi's suicide is acceptable!)

Khushi and immaturity go hand in hand, janam janam ka saath hai. Buaji doesn't call her Sanka Devi without reason, you know. Three, Twenty-three, or thrity-two, whatever her age, the child in her hardly withers away. It might go on a little vacation to Bali sometimes, but it returns nevertheless. After all, this is Khushi we are talking about; one who can encourage the thoughts of a business tycoon, rendering his office work insignificant just to take revenge from her through black magic, obviously can conclude the mysterious reason to her marriage as a horoscope-fiasco-fixing. And given that, her innocence shouldn't be termed as objectionable, rather it should be sympathized with. A girl, bereft of all hope of receiving answers finally proceeds to hunt them herself, when her childish brain gets the better of her (as usual) and she clings to the only conclusion her head offers her. Resting that aside, her suicide is, unexpected, yes; but over-the-top, NO. And as to a family, her loved ones she's leaving behind, the CVs have portrayed the love within her, which is crying at what she has to abandon. In other words, she has to be pitied, not berated for her doings, even if they are wrong.

So my fellows, to which party do you attribute your precious vote? Balance both of the arguments, which one has more weight ( I might not have done full justice to both the sides, so all of you, whichever side you are on, are free to defend it fully)? My perplexed brain is searching for answers which I hope the many Shakespeares around here would gladly provide.

Resting my case, all I would say is, after making us wait so long for the confrontation, we probably deserved a bit more intense of a situation leading to it. Ah well, all's well that ends well, right?

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Would be looking forward to hearing from you all 😊
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Alas I refuse to cast my vote...in an election I dont recognise...but I must say the campaign was written out very well...and yes thank you...I was searching for juicy material to spice my sat...and your wonderfull post has engaged my taste buds...
Edited by tangam - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I read many posts in forum today, defending Khushi, understanding/analysing her acts.. Your post is one of the bestest post I read.. Thank you for this.


I cant take any one side here. I loved Khushi as 'The worn-out Warrior' as well as 'The Sympathized Sankadevi'. She tried every way to get truth from ASR.. now it is the last thing she is trying.. I dont feel her act as over the top or OTT.. For me, her each act is justifiable..

Anyway, great post.. would love to read comments from members..
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Posted: 13 years ago
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👏 I actually think this is probably one of the best posts I've read on the forum in a long time. You've depicted both points of views brilliantly and fairly!

It is a poor reflection on the CVS writing ability when it comes to character development that we've been left here to choose and ponder - these two sides of her should have blended together beautifully not brought another ASR/Arnav dynamic!😆

Having said that and ONLY with regards to this current suicide track - Khushi resigning to death seems completely out of character for me! Period. It's a cruel blow on exactly the scenes you've referred to before - worn-out worrier, she's a survivor. When forced into marriage, made to promise she would not leave RM, she still persevered and continue to survive, using it all to her advantage to prove a point to ASR or irk him enough that he tells her to leave. Except some OTT moments, most of her actions and decision until this track has made sense but this one not so much.

To be frank, how does it distinguish her from the run of the mill SP bahus with glycerine eyes (no offence to fans) because isn't Khushi essentially STILL behaving like a doormat - the comedy music doesn't take away from the defeatist attitude. Strip the comedy and she's behaving similar to precisely those other characters bowing to the supposed will of their husbands.

Khushi is mischievous and quirky but funnily enough the only other time I felt she was out of character as this was when she believed ASR was doing black magic on her *face palm*😆 - At least my dislikes are consistent if not her character.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Bravo!!
Do we have to choose? Why cant I like both characters equally! Bat for both equally? In any case, when we can accept ASR and Arnav with equal gusto, why cant we accept these two facets of our KKG!!

Hats off to you! Hats off to SI for portraying both the parts so well!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Awesome post dear, and I second the comment of all the others: it is impossible to choose between the Survivor and the Sympathized...
But I am happy you put this across, I like thinking and this has got me thinking!
The question remains: Would the Real Kushi have done this? Yes, that is a fact, it is not real Kushi anymore though she does emerge in certain scenes, as a whole we cannot call this Kushi to be real.
Now let's come back to the question: Would the Real Kushi have gone a ended her life? She who loves her family so much will never think so lowly as to leave them so. But she is an orphan and has been thrown that word quite crudely recently. Could that have shaken her little ship of sacrifice? But the Kushi we know is strong and though they have ridden her to a comical character, her strength still remained. Even in her comedy, she faced the lion barehanded. She held her head high and paraded all over his territory, monopolizing and challenging him...
Then what is her state of mind as she walks to the end of the roof? This is just what I feel, but it needn't be true. She doesn't think clearly when she is ridden by sentimental emotions...Kushi is looking at the entire matter comically and is thinking of ending her life. She comically and quiet thoughtlessly takes the thought into action and finds herself walking along the side of the roof. She looks down? She looks up? She tries to put her feet out...What is she doing here? Nothing! She's just fooling around, killing time, playing with her own comcial fantasy of "about to commit suicide"...How does she expect it to end? She won't fall. She definitely hasn't made plans to fall. Its just Kushi playing about and planning to fall. But she won't do it. Why does she carry a cellphone with her if she is going to die? Does she expect a call from DeviMayya confirming her ticket to heaven? Arnav's entry to the spot outside can't be plain coincidence...she is playing around and waiting. Waiting for him to come. Or waiting for something else. But she is definitely waiting, killing time....No she doesn't expect him to rescue her and she doesn't plan to actually fall. She is just playing with her stupid mind and if Arnav didn't show concern and fear she would have come down wordlessly. But his telling her to not do it will fuel her and she will prolong the "suicide play" a while longer...
This is what I feel. Our Kushi though is comical and a Sympathized Sanka Devi, she still has the Worn-Our Warrior, the Survivor alive within her...waiting to emerge at the right time!!!
Edited by Aquiline - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Thank you all for posting, enjoyed all views above me. This suicide decision by Khushi had me upset. This is not the Khushi I loved, this is very out of character for her. She never gives up no matter the odds. She would NEVER give ASR the last battle. So, I am left in confusion until reading all posts and especially Aquiline. Of course, why did I not use my brain, Khushi never intended to really commit suicide, she was just resting her brain until she could come up with a new plan to defeat ASR. What a relief, did not like track with mixing comedy and suicide. Thank you all for input. 👏👏👏
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Punkin22

Thank you all for posting, enjoyed all views above me. This suicide decision by Khushi had me upset. This is not the Khushi I loved, this is very out of character for her. She never gives up no matter the odds. She would NEVER give ASR the last battle. So, I am left in confusion until reading all posts and especially Aquiline. Of course, why did I not use my brain, Khushi never intended to really commit suicide, she was just resting her brain until she could come up with a new plan to defeat ASR. What a relief, did not like track with mixing comedy and suicide. Thank you all for input. 👏👏👏

Thanks Punkin, I was wondering for a moment if I'd gone OTT with my thoughts!! You just saved the day!!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I can write volumes on khushi's character, but you wrote it even better.
The Khushi I know is a warrior, but she is wonunded now.
The Khushi I know is an optimist, but she has lost hopes now.
The Khushi I know had a mad zest for life, but she has little of it now.
The Khushi I know lived for others, but they seem to be getting on fine without her. Payal has akash. The Gupta family has each other.
And whom does she have? Her husband who is not her husband?
That is the tragedy which has taken her to the extreme.
I would still not justify sucide or the extreme decision. But all I would ay is that this girl is in the 'no way out' trap and in reality too people often resort to this. What I hate is the comical treatment of it though
Edited by rima - 13 years ago

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