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Posted: 14 years ago
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Hi everyone...

I need a little help or more like an advice..
There's a guys in my college whom I've been seeing around campus on a daily basis for the last 3 years!!!! (I'm not in a relationship with him)

But here's the thing...
He always keeps looking at me, or I should say 'notices' me everytime.
If I'm sitting in the study area in the campus then he will keep passing by several times near me!!!
I mean not only he passes by, but he will keep looking at me. And if I unknowingly look around and see him, he will turn his head away...

This has been happening for the last THREE years...
For the first two years I was in a community college where he would sit around where I would always pass by to go to my class. This happened almost on a daily basis...
Then he was in my English class for a semester.. And he chose to sit right behind me...
I was kinda nervous and little uncomfy... But I never really talked to him ever, as I'm a shy type of person and don't interact with anyone easily...

OH!!!! I forgot to mention the most important thing... He always wears the same cologne which I could smell to the other end!!!!

Only then I transferred to a university..
I was sitting in the campus and studying where I smelled the same cologne and looked up, just to find him passing by!!!!!!!!!!
And all this became very frequent and it still is!?!?!

If I'm sitting around he will come and talk to another person near me and notice if im looking...

I am not sure sure what to do??
Should I make some excuse and go talk to him or allow it to be the way it's going???

Can u give me some suggestions if u think I should go talk to him?
Or any other suggestions???


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Posted: 14 years ago
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Three years?? hey Bhagwanji its sooo long!!! You guys are still in the first stage😆 You like him?? I mean you find him attractive?? If yes than go talk to him. You can take the first step, dont worry!!
But ussey yeh mat puchna ki woh aapko 3 sal se kyu dekh raha hain ya follow kar raha hain, it could be just a coincidence or he is secretly in love with you, thats why he is following you around. And that cologne thing is very romantic.😃
GUD LUCK!!
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Oh THANK YOU sooo much for replying!!!!
O feel so much relaxed and confident

He is cute though, but I had controlled my feelings and I was a bit scared to approach him anytime..As I am not sure about this whole thing...


MagnificientM... I probably won't call it a 'coincidence'!!!!! Cuz once or twice is ok, but on regular basis and for 3 years!!!! Is a bit too much...

To be honest, his cologne smells really good!!!
😳
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Go for it girl. I wish you luck.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Thanks... I'll try.
I hope it turns out good...
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I'm Sooo scared to even approach him...
I don't know what to do...

Any advice on how I should do it????

Or should I just forget about this whole thingy???????

So confused right now..
Need help guys...
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Oh man! I exactly know that feeling, I have been thru it already, Just take some deep breath and prepare yourself for the meeting, Just go talk to him, Say hi and start talking about general things like study, college, weather, Girl there is alot of things to talk about😉
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I know there are lots of things to talk about...
But I don't wanna go to him and directly say hi.. He may think I'm stupid...
I don't want to make it awkward for both of us...

Any excuse to talk to him???? I mean the first approach?
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Excuse ummm?? You can talk about seeing him in community college or about the classes, What classes he is taking??
Okay dont talk just start smiling at him and later start waving at him.😉 Samajhdar ko ishara hi kafi hain.😃
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Hmmm... Seems like a good excuse..
Thanks for ur help 😊

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