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Posted: 14 years ago
#31

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

Women like Archana should never get married is my opinion . They shud be permanent NANNIES to sisters .


she has mothered her sisters , she has mothered sachu , she has even mothered punni ...
given them her absolute and unconditional love ... she is completely capable of picking a "filthy" kid from the street and and raising it as her own ...

but when it comes to her own blood .. woh aisi kyun hai ? .. i just don't understand her ...
loving your sister so much that you give your kid away indefinitely ... without bothering to stop and think how your husband and the father of your child would feel about it (the person she claims to love so much)... without stopping to think how the child's aaji would feel about it ...

I wonder , if thats the reason , savita is so irritable with archu these days .. bcuz she gave up her grandson...
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Posted: 14 years ago
#32
mandy , archu is itching to give back soham to varsha ... look at archu's face in the precap ...

has she even thought about manav ? archu can't see varsha's unhappy face so she gave up her kid ... manav can't say no to archana so he went along unhappily ( but geez .. she doesn't notice her hubby's unhappy face) ... savita went along because she is outvoted three-to-one ( damo will toe archu's line) ...
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Posted: 14 years ago
#33
Manav needs to put his foot down, same with Satish. They shouldn't have to tolerate this nonsense anymore, if Archana doesn't want to be Soham's mother that is her problem but Manav shouldn't have to give up his right as a father to please her.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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My concern with this "baby sharing" track or whatever they're calling it is, if Soham returns to Archana and Varsha goes into depression/severs relations with Archana as a consequence, will Archana offer Soham to Varsha again? And the cycle begins again? Varsha already shows symptoms of depression and she won't hesitate or feel remorseful if she never sees Archana again. Will Archana be able to bear that? From what I've seen so far, Archana cannot even bear her sisters anger as witnessed during the first pregnancy when Archana couldn't let Varsha be wrongfully angry at her and she was ready to do anything even offer her unborn baby to placate her. That love for her sisters and her attempts to keep them happy and content at all costs has not changed even now. So my question is, if Soham returns to D family, will Archana be able to keep him without caring about Varsha's unhappiness? Don't think so...

P.S. Though Manav and even Archana seemed to care about Soham in today's flashback scenes, right now they dont seem so interested. Archana is more worried for Varsha's imminent and self-brought depression and her unique methods of curing her; and Manav is more concerned about Archana's taqleef in staying away from Soham. Nothing about his own taqleef in being separated from his baby. They just seem disinterested in Soham right now; like they've got used to it. And they behave like relatives who suddenly see children and remark on how they've suddenly grown up. Varsha is at fault for this, but so are ARchana and Manav. Varsha seems so much more attached to Soham than anybody else so far. And it doesnt seem like it's just for show-off to Archana that he is happier with her. Varsha seems to genuinely love Soham; everytime I've seen Soham and Vrasha so far, she has been carrying him around not even letting him walk. Even when she met Vaishali alone.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I am hoping that Manav, Satish and the rest of the Deshmukh family just say enough is enough. Why should they be silent and allow this to continue? Someone needs to snap Archana into reality and remind her she is Soham's mother not Varsha's, stop treating Varsha like a baby and giving into her tantrums. It is time for both Archana and Varsha to grow up. I am tired of seeing Archana's character be destroyed by the writers.
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Posted: 14 years ago
#36

Originally posted by: sowmya_jairam



P.S. Though Manav and even Archana seemed to care about Soham in today's flashback scenes, right now they dont seem so interested. Archana is more worried for Varsha's imminent and self-brought depression and her unique methods of curing her; and Manav is more concerned about Archana's taqleef in staying away from Soham. Nothing about his own taqleef in being separated from his baby. They just seem disinterested in Soham right now; like they've got used to it. And they behave like relatives who suddenly see children and remark on how they've suddenly grown up. Varsha is at fault for this, but so are ARchana and Manav. Varsha seems so much more attached to Soham than anybody else so far. And it doesnt seem like it's just for show-off to Archana that he is happier with her. Varsha seems to genuinely love Soham; everytime I've seen Soham and Vrasha so far, she has been carrying him around not even letting him walk. Even when she met Vaishali alone.



really crappy direction ... to actually show the parents being so disinterested in their kid .. through such detached expressions and body language ...
i have actually become used to archu's weird behavior so not much to comment there ... but manav's detachment is something i am not able to comprehend .. i heard in the first post-leap epi .. manav didnt even look at his kid ?
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Posted: 14 years ago
#37
@sowmya and lunza:

The reason why Manav and Archana appear extremely detached from their kids is bcos the CV's initially wanted to show that they gave away their kid and hence showed that Archana Manav are disinterested in them (proof: In one episode, Satish was teaching Soham to call him pappa) but now they have suddenly turned round the story to show it the other way. Hence the inconsistency. I would choose not to judge on the basis of this.

Will comment in detail later. Bye!
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Posted: 14 years ago
#38
Actually , i want varsha to talk to archana about adopting soham ...and archu agreeing ...
I want to see manav's reaction to it ... if he still doesn't put his foot down.. then .. sorry dude .. you deserve it .. for being so spineless in front of archana ...
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Posted: 14 years ago
#39

Originally posted by: lunza

Actually , i want varsha to talk to archana about adopting soham ...and archu agreeing ...
I want to see manav's reaction to it ... if he still doesn't put his foot down.. then .. sorry dude .. you deserve it .. for being so spineless in front of archana ...


I hope this doesn't happen
I really want Manav to slap Archana HARD.
She is just useless... I dont know her anymore. :-/
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Posted: 14 years ago
#40
dew , i didnt mean i wanted the adoption process to go through ...
i meant a scene where varsha broaches the subject and archana agreeing as usual without asking manav ..
And manav snaps ... at least it might shake him a bit ... I am fed up of watching him this way .. not doing anything at all ...
And it is ridiculous how archana , varsha , and satish have got proper individual scenes with soham .. but the baby's daddy , doesnt get even one scene .. apart from making him sit in his lap for a few seconds..

If not a slap , I demand a long 15 minute ArMan scene where manav is yelling at archana at the top of his voice .

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