I am with Eesha and Sadhli here. Nobody asked him to marry her. Dislike is not the reason to disrespect anybody. What did he think when he got married? he was not even ready to give his marriage a chance. so what if she is illiterate? the person who he should be upset is his mother and not Gopi. He just shows his anger to her because he knows that he can get away with that. I call that cowardice. How can we respect a person who doesnt meet his life head on and deal with it but hides behind his mother? Gopi is far better that way - she had made a choice and deals with what life throws at her everyday albeit in her own way and rules.
Originally posted by: -tellyaddict-
I'l reply in detail bt for nw i'l say
as much aham is in enforced marriage gopi is also in same situation. Just coz she is 'nt so called modern, entertaining, eye soothing comodity for few' she lost al rights to show her disagreement or anger on it.
She does nt, she cn shout out as loud as aham did even more than that too, bt she dint do coz 'she is a selfless character' whom some people say stupid.
Ahem wasn't forced to do anything. No one put a gun to his head and said marry this girl. He wanted to keep his mother happy. Sorry but I won't sympathize with a person who didn't have the balls to stand up for himself and tell his mother no I don't want to marry this girl. He made the decision to listen to his mother so he needs to stick with it. No matter what Gopi is or isn't like, he has no right to ruin the girls life. If he thought she wasn't good enough for him then he should have acted like a man and said no I don't want to marry her. But the fact remains he didn't do that. He married her. Now live with it.
I am with Eesha and Sadhli here. Nobody asked him to marry her. Dislike is not the reason to disrespect anybody. What did he think when he got married? he was not even ready to give his marriage a chance. so what if she is illiterate? the person who he should be upset is his mother and not Gopi. He just shows his anger to her because he knows that he can get away with that. I call that cowardice. How can we respect a person who doesnt meet his life head on and deal with it but hides behind his mother? Gopi is far better that way - she had made a choice and deals with what life throws at her everyday albeit in her own way and rules.
Originally posted by: WintersBloom
Bee his a bully, ask her to help to marry off the sister, when she does him that favour okay go back to your Maika. But the only good thing is he moved out of the room and didn't touch her. But the constant yelling and shouting at her, even if he changes his attitude towards her, when he falls in love with her, a leopard never changes it's spots he will revert back to his nature afterwards and who wants Gopi with him, I hate him, I want to get into the screen and punch him for Gopi, let them divorce lots of other fish in the sea.
Originally posted by: Laila2009
Rubbish. The woman got a good deal and the reason she does not complain or speaks up is because she is wimp on top of it. She is of the mind set that she will win her husband over. She's running his life by insisting on staying with him.
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