Originally posted by: NiVu-mjht1
yaar if u dont like them.... then dont watch them ...... nobody is forcing u..... if u have a problem with either gopi or ahem and and like the other person.... then it is understandable for u watching it n complaining about it....u got a problem with both..... then dont watch it yaar..... we ppl here watch the show bcoz we like both of them..... some at least one of them...so please .....one more thing.....not everyone is born as an ultra modern person n not everyone can be sophisticasted wearing minis and dresses...and not only person like whom u describe are said be a personality.... personality is made from the person's character....... she is quiet, she is humble.....etc.... but when have u seen her whine on d show....???..n wat d u mean she cant stand up for anything....... she has stood up for kinjal when she faced the wrath of the whole family.......n whenever some ppl do any mistakes she always covers up for them ...she saved the whole family's reputation quite a no of times....the dandiya dance....the paint changing problem n recently she saved it again by covering up for kinal running away etc etc ..she is quick thinker too it's not her fault she is illiterate..... even though she wanted 2 learn things.... her mami didn't let her to do so..... if ahem has a problem with her being illiterate...... he can very well teach her how 2 read n write...send her 2 personality development classes if he has a problem with her confidence n all .....the problem is dat she is too traditional.... but dat's how most f the mother in laws in india like the girl 2 be..... traditional..... bcoz they consider dat if a girl is very much worldly n too outspoken n modern then she may even try 2 break up the family...... or cause their reputation 2 be damaged.... n we dont even need 2 consider someone else for example......we have rashi n kinjal here.... haven't they caused enough damage 2 the whole family.....again n again...n ahem married his mother's choice without even saying a word... if he was man enough he should have taken a stand against the family against the marriage..... like kinjal did(even though she was wronged....she did take a stand...) ahem is a perosn who is a self confident educated individual isnt it.... then he should have left the whole family and went with anita if he only wanted 2 marry her n live with her.....but he did not do it.... sh ewent by his mother's choice.... so he has 2 live with her.... this stry is about gopi n how she copes up with her life....n how her husband who once didnt like her comes 2 love her........ so if u dont like it then dont watch it......n u know wat kokila making kinjal get married 2 dhawal by force was right.....at first the girl should have atleast said 2 the guy dat she was in love with someone else....she let the whole drama go till her marriage..... she chose 2 take the wrong path instead of the right one..... her family's entire reputation came down.... again the girl was too blinded in love dat the family's reputation came down further....... dawal accepted her with another guy's child.... the family wanted 2 give the girl 2 someone who would take of her n her child too.... dhawal came as a savior for them...so they had no other choice.... n again the girl could have told dat she wasnt pregnant at the wrong time..... the girl wants 2 stay with the family n yet wants 2 b so selfish dat she will only want things 2 happen in her way...... dat is expecting too much from life.... so kokila forcing kinjal 2 marry dhawal was right in every way... the girl needs 2 live her life for others too....she spoiled her brother's life by making her SIL look bad in front of him all the time...she needs 2 become selfless to a lil bit too......
n one more thing nobody asked u to marry a person like gopi....one thing i would like 2 say is educaton is not all dat is needed in life and being too confident modern n worldly is not everything in life...... ..... being humble n traditional too is important....
sorry if i was rude.....but i wanted 2 get thro 2 u.... so i told it straightforwardly.....
Gopi and Ahem are NOT what this whole show is about. Telling someone not to watch a show because there are problems with a story line is a very immature response. Again read my post - why should he like Gopi? She did a few "nice" things - great but that does not make a wonderful person. She herself does not want to educate herself (and of course her mother-in-law is to blame as well). And yes, Gopi's personality says she is BORING.
She whines all the time - her voice is annoying. Also to be outspoke is not equivalent with being rude, disprespectful or respnosible for destroying a family. Neither Ahem nor Kinjal can speak up against their authoratative mother. NEITHER has a right and the whole family works as a team to push them to marry even if they do speak up. Kinjal is begging her mother and the family - do you see them relinquish?
Dhawal accepted her because that annoying pressured him into it and he is such a dunce he does not know any better. Just because he agreed to accept her does not mean you have to MARRY that person. Goodness. And NO-ONE, no matter how bad is required to live their life for someone else. You have to learn to live your life for yourself WITHOUT hurting others intentionally what kind of 19th century views are pushing on this forum?
Education and confidence are not important? REALLY - talk about putting yourself and others, including your own children, at a disadvantage.
