Thendral Wed Sept 1st written update-T&T married - Page 4

Originally posted by: ~*Thamizhan*~

Thanks for the wonderful update, gudgal.

Wow! Enakku intha T*2+C track end ukku vanththathil thaan romba santhosham and I'm happy Thamizh and Thulasi got married, but how it happened is something which I agree to disagree.😉

1. That was before she was publicly insulted by TA's mum. TA's mum had used vulgar words to degrade her moral values and even said that her dad was doing the "mamma" vellai as she was after money - its like pot calling the kettle black....who is actually after who's money and wealth?? She even said that Thulsi has lived as TA's wife and would not hesitate to entertain other men who happen to cross her path.😡
   What Thuls did was right....by marrying TA that old brainless woman is taught a good lesson.- and this would make her eat her own words..!!
   Even before getting to know Tamil better....Charu seems to have fallen in love with TA like as though she has know him for years. Its her fault to have got emotionally entangled....its TA's mum who shd be blamed for encouraging her and not Thulsi. 😡
   I would say its better to nib the bud now then later - there is no guarantee that Charu's marriage will run smoothly when TA has another woman in his heart. 😕 Besides... Thulasi is the heroine and Charu is only a second heroine....thus priority is definitely given to our simple beauty and our mischievious hero..!!...
   Thulasi shd not let any unpleasant incident/s past, present or future to haunt her....I think TA, her dad and super patti will be there throughout to give her full support.....not forgetting us too..!!😳

Originally posted by: eljay

I agree completely, except - this is possible only if the husband has a job! If he doesn't have a job, and the wife has to go out and work to support the family as well as go to college and study, this marriage is not going to be a happy one, no matter how supportive he is. Sooner or later, his lack of a job will enter into their arguments, and after that, everything will be down the drain.

Incidentally, what do you mean by supportive? Is it saying, Oh, I will make sure my wife goes to work, or to college, or whatever? Anyone with half a brain can do that. Will he also take care of the children in a pinch, making sure they are ready for school while she is taking care of the kitchen, taking care of their homework while she makes dinner, helping her to clean up the kitchen after dinner, helping her with shopping, helping take care of the children while she is resting, or will he, in the true Indian tradition, be the kind who will still expect his coffee brought to him while he reads the newspaper, expect his water to be brought to him while he sits and listens to music, expect hot coffee and tiffin waiting for him when he returns home from work even if she has just returned from an equally long day? TA is a spoilt guy who wipes his hand on his mother's sari after washing, and tells her "Amma, pasikudhu, edhavadhu saapida kudu," instead of going to the kitchen and getting something for himself. Yes, I also want to see if this marriage between two immature people is going to work.

Originally posted by: khpriya

@ Eljay aunty

I completely agree with what you said. But right now, they have to make it work.. no other choice since both of them wanted this life! Its true TA is spoilt but aren't most men like that? solla ponna men are like kids as well... they require more maintenance than kids actually. 😆😆 All he needs is a masaal vadai and tea.. and he has the edhayum thaangum vayiru that will receive anything even if it sucks.. like he told Thuls "nee kutti potta poonai maadhiri dosai suttu kuduthaalum naa aasaya saapduven" 🤣 TA is spoilt but Thulasi is the evergreen thyaagi and she's accustomed to doing household chores from morning till night at home so it wouldnt be too hard on her anyway.. she has had good training for post marriage chores.. 😆 so she'll prolly do everything for TA from making morning tea, waking him up and sending him off to work (if he has one) and gg to college and coming back and doing household chores, with a wide smile on her face hopefully 😃

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After reading all of the comments, one and each us have got a point😛 I understand we are happy but cant be happy cause of the way wedding was proceed:(

Regs the love, marriage and education. If someone want to pursue carrier and education, financial support is not only required alone, a good planing is needed to achieve that. I agree without financial support, it will be hard but moreover..one need a heart to support their wife wholeheartedly which I think TA already has done and will do in the future too. I don't think he will send away his wife to work as he belongs to the old type who doesn't want woman to work when the man is there..thats what I understood from Lavs scene😕 There is many men today who still believe their wife, sister should not face any difficulties and want them to stay at home as they believe its their duty to take care of the family..its not coz they want woman to be their adimai or something like that🤓 While some men to that, they cant see woman coming up in life over them🤢

Okay back to TnTs case, I dont think they will decide to get kids n the whole package and Thuls doesn't know to cook so its gonna be fun😆 I am looking forward to how two "immature" people faces the difficulties of the life and grows up to become two adults with each others support😛

Having saying that, I will also like to point out one thing..if we get to know how the hard life will be beforehand on the path we have choosed, then whats the point to walk on it🤔..one need to fall to know it hurts...thats what TnT have choosed...unknown path and I wish them all the best cause they need a lot of it

^Mels, that's no excuse not to let her work. Lavanya can make her own decision and what Thamizh thinks/ believes is secondary and unnecessary. Thamizh can advise Lavanya , but he shouldn't decide for her. This is very similar to keeping them as adimai.😃