Maaraige alliance should fixed after proper info and checking!! - Page 2

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Posted: 9 years ago
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I agree... Dharaa's family should have checked about Mihir thoroughly. But then again, I wonder whether they could have found out what type of person Mihir is in his personal life. He lives alone in Mumbai and unless he does something that becomes a big issue, no one would know anything about his true personality because on the outside, he comes across as a nice guy.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: anasuya43

GOOgD POS

good post ....mannu100


Recent times it is very much to discuss on this subject😛

has also taken first step to move out the

house...


Dhara taken a bold step to come out of .

instead of quarreling...




...waiting for come out of

suffocated environment



...Mihir is a possessive man




continue





Good post and description
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Posted: 9 years ago
#13

Originally posted by: mannu100

⭐️wow so much creativity about mihir to be possesive no he is a jerk and psycic possesiveness is only for dharas Body...😡


Which means that it is his lust. He does not love her inner beauty. It is only her outer beauty.
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Posted: 9 years ago
#14

Originally posted by: mannu100


The point is here the Parrots society mentality...parrots society only known once the parrot is grown...just fixed it...with someone...rather with crow too no matter what...and rather thanks to the. present law that Child maaraige is banned...warna baa would have maaried dhara in age 0f 12 herself...🤢

This is what the condition of pur pathetic so called parrot society is and who said this prevail in village 😆almost 67 percent of this type of case all moves aroun so called cities...


Yes, it is a parrot society. No second thoughts about it. But people are worried about what the society will think if they don't get the girl married. Baa is one of them. It was Deepak who stood by her. Now Dhara has to fight her own battle.

There are people who don't care for the society and do things as per their wish. Deepak never cared for the society but Mihir does not have his own mind.

If Dhara's family knew that Mihir behaved violently with that candy man, they wouldn't have given the girl to him and Deepak would have been the first person to reject the proposal
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: katrinasalman


Yes, it is a parrot society. No second thoughts about it. But people are worried about what the society will think if they don't get the girl married. Baa is one of them. It was Deepak who stood by her. Now Dhara has to fight her own battle.

There are people who don't care for the society and do things as per their wish. Deepak never cared for the society but Mihir does not have his own mind.

If Dhara's family knew that Mihir behaved violently with that candy man, they wouldn't have given the girl to him and Deepak would have been the first person to reject the proposal


yup exactly thats why i said dharas family are too inocent to be blamed..and yes it was deepak who advices dhara that he has no problem if she run from the mandap and he wholeheartedly ...supports dhara in every ste of her life witohut caring for society and thats why i love Deepak the most but alash that time it was too late for dhara to trigger Mihirs...True image...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: mannu100


yup exactly thats why i said dharas family are too inocent to be blamed..and yes it was deepak who advices dhara that he has no problem if she run from the mandap and he wholeheartedly ...supports dhara in every ste of her life witohut caring for society and thats why i love Deepak the most but alash that time it was too late for dhara to trigger Mihirs...True image...



I don't blame Deepak in any way. He has been very supportive to Dhara. I loved him the way he said that Mihir is asking dowry from dhara & it is the cricket bat & ball. Saroj supports baa more than her husband. It is also Dhara's fault as she didn't tell the family about Mihir's behavior with the candy man incident. She was so much attracted to him that she didn't see these indications.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I know. Parents arrange the marriage of their daugters only taking care of the norms dictated by society like, cast, gotra , good family back ground and the job of a groom . Looks are not important. Age difference is not important. Enquiring about the groom is termed as a big offense. Though some close relatives of the groom know about the minus points of the groom, they are afraid of spoiling an alliance because it is not okay to do so.
So ultimately the girl suffers.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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And that is a sad thing.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Sometimes even after background check the girls family are kept in dark of the guy.
I heard abt a guy who was mentally unstable got married three times. I had met his second wife. She said the people from the place were scared to tell anything against him since he belonged to an influential family. He had threatened to kill her. But she got a divorced. She heard she had married again.
Such stuff happen in real life as well
Sometimes it's because of someone hiding the truth otherwise it's cos of lack of proper back ground information.
In the end the girl suffer the most
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Dilsha

Sometimes even after background check the girls family are kept in dark of the guy.
I heard abt a guy who was mentally unstable got married three times. I had met his second wife. She said the people from the place were scared to tell anything against him since he belonged to an influential family. He had threatened to kill her. But she got a divorced. She heard she had married again.
Such stuff happen in real life as well
Sometimes it's because of someone hiding the truth otherwise it's cos of lack of proper back ground information.
In the end the girl suffer the most



Agree with you. It is a reality. Marriage is a gamble.

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