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Disclaimer: This is NOT a bashing post. So bashers stay out of it. I am just stating my opinion and want to hear other opinion as well. By this post, I just want to have some healthy discussion with everyone and contribute in forum rankings. I have already posted my stand but reposting it here as well.
I still dont think fake pregnancy was the right step taken by RagLak to do something right. No it wasnt.
1) Is it ok for the child to grow up with a lie about its own identity? One day the kid will come to know about its identity. One day everyone will know. Do you know what heart break or mental trauma the child would suffer then realizing how the world never wanted the kid to be alive and how his/her parents/sibliings/family never had the strength to fight for its rights?
2) I honestly dont care about AP and Sujjata coz they are hypocrites and have double standards in their own way. I was damn infuriated when they had asked Shomi to have an abortion. So I dont care for the feelings. But it is still a lie you shouldn't be saying. No matter how much you like or dislike them, it is still playing with their emotions. And its not like Ragini didn't have a support. If I remember clearly, DP had clearly asked the ladies of MM household to back out and not interfere. And that he will support Shek Shomi decision, if that decision was to have the baby. All Ragini had to go was talk to DP and he would have made sure the ladies of the house dont do anything against and let Shek Shomi have the kid.
3) I have hated Shek-Shomi in this entire track. A mother cares for her child the most. I just dont get it. Shomi, being a single mother, didnt care about the samaj and its pressure when she had Swara. And now all of a sudden she does. Shekhar was always a spineless father. So I have no comments on that. Instead of agreeing to Ragini's plan, he could have gotten angry at her for coming out with such an idea. I just dont get it. How the hell Shek Shomi were ready to give away their child like that, without thinking what the child will feel when he/she grows up and knows the truth? Parents fight for the kid. Even if they have to fight with their own family, they do. And fighting doesn't mean go insult the elders and thrash them however you want or leave them alone. Its just called speaking up for the right. And I think in this Shek-Shomi turned out to be a big time cowards
4) CVs messed with Ragini's character big time here. Ragini, when she was negative, when she was fighting for her love, did every evil thing possible, without thinking about the family, samaj and the reputation. So once Ragini is positive, she will lose that strength? All of a sudden she is scared for the reputation? What would have made more sense was Ragini taking DP and AP into her confidence and rest would have automatically fallen into place. And DP would have handled dadi somehow too. The girl who fought for her parents relationship with her sibling and was ready to break off the engagement with the ONLY love of her life was now scared for the same? Even when her husband would have supported her? When she would have gotten the support from her father in law too? Doesn't make sense to me. My only thing is if Ragini was shown taking this step before she turned negative, her helplessness and worry about the 'reputation' of the family would have still been understood by me. But right now, I just dont get it.
5) Dadi, I hate the most. Everyone is putting the blame on halaat and how dadi tried to kill the child and everything. My question is, didn't dadi try to kill Shomi as well (more than once) when she was against Shek-Shomi wedding? Didn't she fake to accept Shomi and then tried killing her? What did Shek do then? Did he hide somewhere? Or did he fake to marry some marwari woman but was married to Shomi? Did the girls lie about that? No they didn't. They fought for Shomi. And the condition then was worse then what the condition (halaat) was right now (the one Ragini referred too). They were removed from their samaj, their faces were blackened and what not. But still, Shek got married to Shomi then (one good thing this man ever did). He fought for her. And that time entire society was against them. And still they fought and got accepted. Was she able to harm Shomi after? No right. How hard would it have been to fight for your own child? Especially when you would have had full support from not only your kids and their husbands but also people like DP, RP and Adarsh would have supported too.
6) My last and final point. For every battle that you start with society, you have to make sure first the family accepts it. If the family doesn't, society is not going to accept it too. And thats what they showed us earlier during the Shek-Shomi marriage and Swara's birth truth. As soon as everyone came to know about that, they were humiliated. DP made sure they were thrown out of the so called samaj. But still the girls and Shek-Shomi fought. They got married, stayed together, made sure their family accepts them. DP slowly realized how wrong he was and accepted and then society had NO RIGHT to oppose and accepted them. Every thing begins from the family. My point is all RagLak had to do was convince few members of the family and they would have joined hands and that would have saved them to not to put the facade of fake pregnancy.
Again, this is not a bashing post. So bashers, stay away.
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