Sanskaar commands respect! - Page 6

Originally posted by: hasinig89

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Nikk...hoshiyar logon ko isharaa hi kaafi hai...

Originally posted by: MusicAddict

Kavya baby chill! Teri post ek dum solid hai ye main keh rahi hun, Okayy?? U know, ekdum jhakkaas!! Chill, and guys, kets celebrate in SwaSan AT na??

Originally posted by: .Sarcasmazing.

@BOLD: Hey there, I would really appreciate if you could please elaborate at the bold point. Was this really needed? What exactly did you mean by this? & before you backtrack, yes I do think of it as a personal attack & I am seriously offended because I DO NOT ENTERTAIN IT! When I am being courteous enough to put MY point across in MY post respectfully, I expect the same in return. If you cannot do that, please do not comment. I have low tolerance for people who cannot stay on topic, speak about it & instead comment whether the TM is capable of hoshiyaari or not! If you think of me & others who agree with me, of less hoshiyaari than you & the others who agree with you, well you can take that hoshiyaari with you & keep it with yourself rather than commenting if others are not much hoshiyaar or insensible as compared to you. Once again, I don't entertain personal attacks so keep that in mind next time.

Originally posted by: SwaSanFanGirl

Kavya,
Chod yaar. Kyun mood kharab karti hai. Chod
Let's enjoy the upcoming moments. Stress mat le aur BP toh bilkul mat badha

Originally posted by: .Sarcasmazing.

Tum sab meri itni chinta kyun kar rahe ho? Guys I am NOT stressed, I am seriously NOT trust me 😆

Jaanemann, did you see those BLISSFUL pics? Tujhe lagta hai woh dekhne ke baad I would be in sane mind to be STRESSED? 😆

Hamare acche din aa gaye 😆

Originally posted by: hasinig89

@Bold...Dear i Highly disagree with what you had said , what i mean ...i.e., what my sentence mean to say is ..i didn't write any reply To Nikk in words & tried to say that i'm agreeing with her comment ..,with my emotions for that i clearly mentioned her Name too. Sometimes what happens is , the words from others appear to be as same words which we feel to express from our side .For me here I thought Nikk said all the words which i would like to say ...that's it .Coming to personal attack , i don't think that my comments or emotions had portrayed any signs of personal attack .TBH i really wait for your KDR's after the episode finishes.Now please let me know is there any sign of personal attack in my comment ?? i really want to know if i sounded in that way ...

Originally posted by: .Sarcasmazing.

Yes it did come across as a personal attack to me. Read the line again, Samajhdar ko Ishara kaafi hota hain, what do I make of this one single line? It definitely did come across like taunting us as less hoshiyaar as compared to you. I just wanted you to know about my views regarding personal attacks still if you say that you did not write it for me, I take your word for it & let it go. Peace.

Thank you for waiting for my KDR's (:

Originally posted by: _Payalj_

100% agree that Sanskar is behaving like a true gentleman. He is doing everything a fiance should do (even though his heart is screaming otherwise) and I respect him for that. He is being kind to Kavita

But that is not my grouse here. My problem is that Swara and Sanskar while believing that they are acting very mature and sensible are in fact taking a very immature decision and that is hurting at least Sanskar's image in my eyes. Swara I longago accepted as an emotional idiot.

You cannot love someone out of kindness or pity. Yes Sanskar is able to show kindness to Kavita today. May be for the next 2-3 years also. But one cannot keep up an act beyond a point. Ultimately his disinterest will begin to show and he unwillingly will cause Kavita more sufferring and pain than he can imagine.

Further, how is he planning to perform in the marriage bed? Very tough to do when you are mentally committed to someone else. Somethings cannot be done for duty. The disinterest makes a huge impact there. Believe me, nothing hurts a woman more than being given a cold shoulder in bed. Her entire self respect and self confidence goes for a toss. It is the quickest way to send her into depression.

Then he is considering that poor Kavita is lonely. Is he even realsing that it will literally be impossible for Swara to marry after this. This is India. Maximum she is going to get is a divorcee or widower with children. So out of the compassion Sanskar is showing for Kavita, some he can also reserve for Swara.

If Swara is acting stupid then its Sanskar's duty to take tough decisions and simply not do what Swara has asked him to. A couple is supposed to complement each others weaknesses not add to them.

The better course of action would have been to delay the engagement, donot allow Kavita to act like a road roller, get her a job and slowly break the news to her.

Because of the aforesaid reasons, I am not able to appreciate Swasan in the current scenario. The only saving grace is that they are ending this farce soon enough.