Originally posted by: .Sarcasmazing.
Shona, I agree completely. Swara did blabber a lot yesterday but Sanskaar knows her enough to know what she actually wanted to say. Even today when he msged her saying he's taken the right decision, hope flared on her face that he might have chosen her, understood what she wanted him to choose selfishly & wants to give a chance to their relationship. Exactly Swara told him to ultimately do what HE wants & not what she or Kavita wants so why are we even blaming Swara here? Yesterday I thought he completely understood how she too wants the same what he wants & he did give indications that he understood what he really wants.
I didn't see today's episode but as you said, even I thought he knew what he wanted. See I understand Sanskaar's POV as well. She was still his first love and she now cares a lot for her and is scared to hurt her.
But the reality is, you would be causing that person unimaginable amount of pain later in the relationship because you wouldn't be able to give that love and support the person in the same way. And that would have left the deepest scar. Worse than the initial rejection would cause.
I can still understand him being upset at Swara for not letting him tell what he wanted at that time. But why say yes to Kavita? Only if he had said he wanted some time to think, AP, DP and RP would have made sure he did get that.