Calling all SwaSanians : Let's keep the faith, guys :) :) - Page 4

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Posted: 9 years ago
#31

Originally posted by: sanju.b

i guess today i m the only one who is not upset..
really i find swara's behaviour weired. she didn't even try to understand what sanskaar is saying n leave saying i hav to told it to family. may b its her plan to find real kidnapper. i know i m hoping to much but still..
n if this is not case then she will definately trap by laksh and may b ragini to.. as per sanskaar dialogue today.
btw i loved all dialogue s of sanskaar today.. bt as usual swara k dimag ki batti nhi jali ..
n ya love swasan despite all this


I would love to believe that this is all Swara's plan to pretend to MU Sanskaar and then find the real culprit. But I don't think so unfortunately. She just goes by the proofs and thinks logically...she hasn't yet reached the stage of having that absolute trust on sanskaar, which he has for her.

I am upset with Swara, but in a sense, I can't blame her for having trust issues, after all she has been through. She will learn, in time, the depth of her own feelings for Sanskaar. He will always be there for her anyway. Just hope hey don't drag this much too long.

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Shreeswathy

Yup.. I am also disappointed today..

I am also annoyed with her.
But just think, he is showing so much trust for her because he loves her that much and can't think a wrong in her.
But on Swara's part, though she still have an unrealised love, it is not strong as Sanskar's..
It is in developing stage.
So, it will have to go through many tests..
To say testing time for Swara's love is not right now, as she herself not accepted she is in love..
So, testing time will come in future..
Then she will show the same level of love & trust over Sanskar.
Today she said, "she will ask the same question, if some one else was in his place"
That means she still haven't differentiated him from someone else"
That is it..
But she will be guilty, and will go hellbend to get back to him..
I want an angry Sanskar avoiding her, and she should be in pain as he is not listening to her..
I am waiting for tomorrow's episode..


Hey Swathy. ...

Yeah, I agree with you. Swara hasn't yet realized that she is already in love with Sanskaar (or at least, is falling in love with him ). For her, he is a very close friend, a best friend, and yes, she should have trusted him. But then she saw all these clues and her mind got influenced by that. She has not yet reached the stage where she has that unconditional trust on sanskaar, which he has on her.

But that will also come. We just need to wait. I also feel the same as you do, that Sanskaar needs to avoid her for a time. He will be there for her obviously, but I don't want him to be always next to her, giving his usual affection. Let him be a little withdrawn, ignoring her for a bit. Swara will not be able to bear that. šŸ˜‰

BTW, please tell me if I should address you as Swathy or Shree. Which do you prefer?

Cheers

Viji
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: manasie23

Just one epusode and people have started doubting swara... Thank you Viji for making this post... I totally agree with you... That sometimes we do fail to trust the person we should but does not mean we dont love them...

As we all know swara will soon realise her mistake and this can even be the start of realisation track...
Was sooo tired of negativity thanks for making a positive post


You're absolutely welcome Manu my dear. 😊. You're perfectly right, trust evolves, it's not something that reaches the same level at the same time, in different people. I'm confident Swara will realize her mistake, and also the true depth of her feelings for Sanskaar. It may take a bit of time, but hey, we SwaSanians are in this for the long haul, right? 😊

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Sakura24

Thank you for this Viji! I am majorly upset myself. Firstly Swara went with her stubborn opver logical-ness and hurt Sanskar. Then when I come to IF I saw this act of hers has gained so much bitter response.

You're right, in relationships trust slips sometimes. For not every person is same in their behavior. Sanskar is cool, calm and mature always. He trusts her no matter what. Swara is not. She still has her share of world to see and learn, (Which I hope will happen soon) and still she believes in proof put in front of her. For some reason I don't see this entirely wrong either. That is the dynamic of their relationship, one is un-moving strong while the other is logical.
I second your thoughts on her realization later. She has to run around him like a maniac then only will we feel some peace. to come to that this was much needed. Love becomes stronger with bitterness and tests of fire. Sanskar knows this hence he said he will be there when she comes back after knowing the truth. I just respect him more for this now.
She would do a major redemption, which I am sure by judging her actions in the earlier struggles. We'll have some sweet moments then. Hoping for that day, fingers crossed.
good night!


Hi Saku my dear...a lovely reply and I want to give you a detailed one in return. Will do so from my lappy in a bit, have some thoughts which I absolutely wanted to discuss with you, relevant to this post and your reply. 😊

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Wonderful post! This was much needed.

Totally agree with you. Hope everything becomes alright between SwaSan.

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: manisha.8148

sanskaar knows ki swara upne decesions dimag se leti h & sanskaar's love is mature love there is no place for kidish decesions.


True. Well let's just wait to see Swara's full realization come through. Am sure that day is not too far, and she will then completely adore and trust Sanskaar.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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i was also upset with swara's behaviour while watching SR. but after that i recalled from starting the serial & all are well said ki swara ko pyar ka matlab hi nhi pata. ki pyar kya hota h????
actually uski b galti nhi husse single mother ne pal pos kr bada kiya & uski life upni MA & dida tk hi thi. jb ragini k baare mein pata chala ki wo uski sister h & mission maa baba milao starts. & Lakshya k saath b usse pyar h ye feeling zabardasti se usse krayee gayee thi. uski najar mein lakshy shurur se hi ek ameer baap ki bigadi aulad tha. jo ghr pr lakshy & friends k beech lucky k naam se famous tha.

& wo kbi b ragini & laksh k relation ko lekr satisfy nhi thi. remember jb RAGLAK ki sagai hui thi tb b laksh ne swara ko warn kiya tha ki me ragini ki life hell bana doonga tum bcha sakti ho to bacha lo.

mujhe lgta h ki swra sanskaar pr doubt nhi kr rhi. as usual wo confuse h upne dil & dimag ki jung me. tabhi to jb wo sanskaar se sawal kr rhi thi to arrogant voice me nhi balki she was requesting.

but ek baat for sure ki ek baar swra ko ye ehsaas ho jaye ki what is true love to fir laksh to kya, laksha k bhoot ki b himat nhi h wo swasan ko alag kr sake.

kl wali nok jhonk khati wali thi. & relationship me to khatti meethi ka combination to chalta hi rahta h. tbi to pyar badta h.

bus ab dekhna ye h ki swara devi ko realisation kb hota h????


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Posted: 9 years ago
#38

Originally posted by: moonstonespirit

Hi Viji šŸ¤—

I'm annoyed at Swara's lack of trust. But then again Swara was never the one for reading between the lines. She takes people for their face value and believes what she sees. It is going to cost her a lot but she needs to undergo this phase to gain her hold.

But a little part of me is hoping to see a flip (I know, wishful thinking... but its them). Swara's character sketch has kind of deteriorated and CVs need to give her a victory to bring her upto the mark. I really hate it when the FL are turned dumb to sell some dramatic crap. How I wish they would construct the tracks keeping in mind the characterizations instead of tweaking with the characters to suit the plot.

Cheers to hoping!!


Hi Raksha. ...šŸ¤—

Loved your reply...am gonna revert on it in detail in just a bit, from my lappy. 😊
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Posted: 9 years ago
#39

Originally posted by: bloomnskyrules

Exactly! This post was much needed so thank you for this! I am angry at Swara but I was expecting this; after all what else can you expect from someone who forgave the sister that tried to kill her and an ex who called her characterless?

With regard to trust: our Swara has still not reached that stage of unconditional love yet and for her, right now, her sister and parents are the most important people in her life and everyone else goes to the wayside. This MU was much needed for her feelings to progress!


Hey Vyshu...šŸ¤—

Loved your reply, will revert in detail in a bit from lappy. 😊
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Viji, my dear...šŸ¤—
forum has erupted and how...šŸ˜†...am kinda loving it...šŸ˜‰
ok now on a serious note, am not mad at swara for not trusting sanskaar, but the way she went about doing things...am not a fan of " blind faith" concept as it mostly gets one in trouble...!!!
of course swara will doubt sanskaar as she chooses to believe what she saw...fair enough...one can't turn a blind eye...but what got me riled up was her way of questioning...she could have said that she's grilling him in private as she wants to hear his side of the story first, as he is important and her bestie...and if it would have been someone else she would not have extended the same courtesy...or anything along the same lines...I would have held my peace but no...the great goddess cannot do that as sanskaar is a bloody nobody for her...😔
she did not say anything to the police and its not because of her so called trust on sanskaar but on her behna's advise...🤢...swara does not understand the meaning of the word "trust"...for her its imperative that people trust her even in adverse situations even when the tide is against her, but she is not willing to extend the same courtesy to people except her immediate family by blood and most importantly her behna...bl***y hypocrite 😔...and am definite its gonna come back and her bite her and that day I would gloat...
I am furious by the way she treats sanskaar...takes him for granted...I really want her to fall in the pit, which she will, courtesy her misplaced trust and louu...and I want temporary swasan separation and this time it should be sanskaar's choice, not the other way round...!!!...or better still sanskaar cold shouldering her and asking for divorce from the great goddess ...swara needs to understand sanskaar's worth and for that a reality check is needed which only sanskaar can give but he is so very understanding and acquiescing that swara is not getting the message...😔
I said this on shruti's post as well and will say it here too...my ship is on a very unstable ground...I love swasan only because sanskaar wants swasan...one part of the ship I adore and the other try to like only because one part of my ship wishes for it...😭...it has never happened with me before...I just cannot conncect with swara and to put it mildly I kind of dislike her and it has got absolutely nothing tp do with her latest stunt...I don't understand her behaviour, her misplaced priorities, her pecking order...he version of love and trust and above all her hypocrisy...oh I can go on but I will stop...the way I envisaged swara, she's a poor replica of it...hopefully one day will come where I would love her as well...and I get to see the Swara I desperately want and then my ship will be complete...
hopefully havn't eaten your head with my rants...I believe you are from Chennai..(read somewhere...might be wrong..)..am hoping that things are ok at your end as due to this continuous downpour Chennai has come to a stand still...be careful and be safe...
cheers

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