Calling all SwaSanians : Let's keep the faith, guys :) :) - Page 9

Originally posted by: sarra0

This is where my issue comes in...if she had trust issues i cud accept it because i cud relate to it after everything she has been thru its natural...but she doesnt appera tovhave trust issues with ragani..she still believes ragani..she still believes laksh...her father v havnt needed to c...so the doubtvseems to b on sanskaar and not on others..

Her having doubt i have no issue with..i have issue with the same thing u do that how cud she think he wud leave her to takr the blame?? And not step forward to protect her if it was in his power do so...and then twlling ragani and wud have told the police without reflection...lets hope she is shown to think he wudnt do that to her..

Originally posted by: butteru

A lack of trust in a relationship is a destructive force. without trust, it's hard to feel secure and you may be wondering all the time whether the other person is being faithful, truthful or genuine

and i agree with u .. i can completely understand her situation .. i knw she suffered alot .. and she needs time to think abt her relationship with Sanskaar .. n i'm sure they will end up together 😊

Originally posted by: Michellekc18

Hi Viji, (I hope you don't mind random people addressing you by your name. My name is Michelle)

So I hate being the devil's advocate for a character I don't particularly care for especially when pitted against my favorite character, but what to do I am a sucker for underdogs and after last night's episode swara wins the underdog title on swaragini IF 😊

So you and I as viewers know that sanskaar will never let anyone raise a finger at swara for anything let alone for something which he is responsible.. But that is because we were privy to the mat jaa expressions of sanskaar, his dreams of swara, his innermost feelings about swara and his abject misery when he thought swara was going back to lakshya. We as viewers know that sanskaar's love is much deeper than lakshya's ever can be. We know that because we are omniscient and get to see everyone's motives, behaviours and dreams. So we know sanskaar is the better man.

But by that same omniscience we also know that swara considers sanskaar like anyone else.. She delivered that line without even flinching and as a justification without realizing that she was making it worse for sanskaar and the million sanskaar fans. I swear that "koi aur hota tab bhi main yahi poochti" made me want to break her bones. I had such an ouch expression on my face for sanskaar that my 3 year old son actually asked me quite worriedly "Mamma, what happened?".

So swara has miles to go before she gets to know what a gem sanskaar is.. By then sanskaar might pull a Rhett Butler and swara will start pining.. Their relationship is very unequal now. Swara pulls all the shots. Just not fair. Of course they will end up together, but if they ended up together without any long drawn out pining from swara's side, it wouldn't be a hindi serial a lot of us are sshamelessly addicted to

Originally posted by: CogitoErgoSum

Leave everything else, this one thing is what made me feel very upset with Swara's stand yesterday.

Originally posted by: naran1986

I can see where you are coming from.Maybe she still has some hangover from her maa baba jaap and ragini jaap😛

Originally posted by: CogitoErgoSum

Hey Michelle. ...no problem at all...pls call me Viji. 😊

I was grinning when I read your omniscience of viewers hypothesis. 😆 I do agree to a large extent, with the proviso that had Swara been a real person, she still would have realized by now, the depth of Sanskaar's emotions for her. Her STILL not understanding that he would never, ever let blame fall on her, had he been the perpetrator, is rather unbelievable. I hope they show this scene in a forthcoming episode, even as a flashback, with Swara's thoughts running in this direction.

Yeah, that dialogue, that she would have asked the same questions of anyone else, made me wince too. Its high time Swara realized that Sanskaar is far more than just "anyone else" to her. She would have, by now, if she devoted some time to introspection, rather than being on a perpetual mission drive!! 😆

I am looking forward to a lot of pining from Swara. 😉 Would love to see how she woos Sanskaar! !