Durgaprasad and Shekhar?...who's actually bad?

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Posted: 10 years ago
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well just a thought striked me...
two fathers today...DPM and shekhar...
though DPM till now is totally shown as evil and shekhar as a sensible and sorted out guy and a lovely human...
but who's actually good?

i was quite upset with the thing that lakshya is firm with his promise to DPM and sees no future for swarya but today...i felt it was totally worth it...his father trusts him a lot...DPM standing with him despite of that clip...he like everyone else saw that clip...even after knowing that his son madly loves swara and is not ready to forget her he believed in his son...he believes on what his son says and not what he was seeing...

on the other hand we have shekhar...always shown a good character...knowing swara quite well...he says he trust her lot...but yet he didn't uttered any word when his daughter was being targetted by all...if he really have accepted her and treat her same as ragini then why didn'e he showed any faith in swara even after when she told the kidnapping story?...

P.S. saying without any inclusion of precap...plz post ur thoughts too without keeping precap in mind,..
loved DPM today 👏
whenever i wanna hate him he do something which make me love him
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Posted: 10 years ago
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shekar is not bad hez worst
a worst husband and more worst dad
for him only daughter is ragini
i doubt does he rly think swara as his only blood he doesnt behave like shez his daughter
all this family are same dadi,dada,shekar,ragini they only use people to there benifit and throw them later
he never cares or defends or protects swara
he just uses her when he needs her help
i feel he dont even think/accept her whole heartedly as his own blood
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: muktha_cute

shekar is not bad hez worst

a worst husband and more worst dad
for him only daughter is ragini
i doubt does he rly think swara as his only blood he doesnt behave like shez his daughter
all this family are same dadi,dada,shekar,ragini they only use people to there benifit and throw them later
he never cares or defends or protects swara
he just uses her when he needs her help
i feel he dont even think/accept her whole heartedly as his own blood


very true
if both girls mean same to him as per him then he should trust swara just like he do ragini
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Posted: 10 years ago
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comparing DP and Shekhar is like comparing Obama with Monica Lewinsky- one who became the president of the US despite his follies and the other who failed as a white house intern due to her follies. DP is the patriarch of not just one but two families, he's been the father to not only Adarsh and Laksh but Uttara and Sanskaar and to some extent Ramprasad as well. His world view maybe skewed but its never stopped him from doing what needs to be done to give his children values and a good life, even if that meant tough love at times. he's an A1 totalitarian and an extremely narrowminded individual but he gets things done. Contrarily, Shekhar has never stopped being a worm holding his mother's pallu long enough to be anything else- not a good lover or husband or father. ragini was showered with affection by him but was told off about the wrong things by her fascist bigot dadi. shekhar is extremely indecisive, quick to doubt and clearly someone whose extremely new at taking decisions for himself. his soft and malleable nature is his biggest folly and it stops him from being strong, whilst his brain which has been gathering dust for so long finds it very difficult to work for itself without being dictated to process things in a certain way and thus he can't really judge ppl or situations very well or take decisions effectively for ppl. so you see folks, its not a matter of good or bad but rather a matter of whose more effectual in their given roles. shaker would probs b a better human if judged by his mentality and less radical worldview but as a father DP takes the cake.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: tejaswiniwenham

comparing DP and Shekhar is like comparing Obama with Monica Lewinsky- one who became the president of the US despite his follies and the other who failed as a white house intern due to her follies. DP is the patriarch of not just one but two families, he's been the father to not only Adarsh and Laksh but Uttara and Sanskaar and to some extent Ramprasad as well. His world view maybe skewed but its never stopped him from doing what needs to be done to give his children values and a good life, even if that meant tough love at times. he's an A1 totalitarian and an extremely narrowminded individual but he gets things done. Contrarily, Shekhar has never stopped being a worm holding his mother's pallu long enough to be anything else- not a good lover or husband or father. ragini was showered with affection by him but was told off about the wrong things by her fascist bigot dadi. shekhar is extremely indecisive, quick to doubt and clearly someone whose extremely new at taking decisions for himself. his soft and malleable nature is his biggest folly and it stops him from being strong, whilst his brain which has been gathering dust for so long finds it very difficult to work for itself without being dictated to process things in a certain way and thus he can't really judge ppl or situations very well or take decisions effectively for ppl. so you see folks, its not a matter of good or bad but rather a matter of whose more effectual in their given roles. shaker would probs b a better human if judged by his mentality and less radical worldview but as a father DP takes the cake.


omg di 👏
fabulous
i am speechless after this
how perfectly u bought out the two characters
wow...
hatts off
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Shekhar is the bad one I just hate him.🤢
DP sometime pisses me off but I don't actually hate him.😃
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Two things to point out in regards to this topic:
Durga Prasad: Not good at heart, not a good human being, but efficient in what he does.

Shekhar: Good at heart and a very good human being, but weak at handling things when they're left to him alone.


However, I wouldn't call DPM a better father than Shekhar. Somebody who upholds his dogmatism over and above his filial affection, can't be a "good father". Heck, he can't be "good" at ANY relationship. Its just that he's got a whole lot of brains and a clear, analytical mind which helps him judge people and situations better.

Shekhar, on the other hand, is a very good father in my opinion, in the sense that he never compromises with his children s' happiness, and for him they mean more than any flimsy societal norm. But since he's indecisive and slow-witted, he takes time to process things through. That doesn't take away from his suitability as father IMO.

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