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Posted: 7 years ago
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For me...though being a meghnal and meghna fan i feel sorry for naina. In this current scenario, she is actually confused as to what to do. She has agreed to a point that by following nk's orders, whether wrong or right is the real meaning of bahu dharam. Plus, she has been burdened with he resposibilities of the whole chauhan house, and even nirmala left her to take care of everything. There's no one to even guide her and pave her the right path. Even sharda doesn't look interested to call her and ask her whereabouts. Yesterday, nirmala figured out the real reason behind this mu. She knows that neiher of the two girls are wrong, only situation drifts them apart.
Also, its stupid to show karan arriving at the place only to see naina in the bad light. Karan should use his conscience and past experiences to determine wheher naina is really wrong or he is just misunderstanding the whole situation. Gosh...i need some monologues for him which projects his real state of mind.
At the end, i admit that naina should really speak at some situation to avoid confusion instead of just shedding tears all the time.

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: adhyakumarijha


When sawari accused karan of rape naina didnt required any explanation from his behalf to trust him i am sure if something of this sort happenes with meghna naina will stand by her without any explanation because she loves and trust both meghna and karan she would rather try to understand their plight

So in return if she expects the same from them where is she wrong

And who ever knows her will never ever doubt her no matter what

Me being and eldest cannot even imagine to doubt my brothers intention you know why because I love and know him well


I am the youngest and have a lot of times taken decisions which have hurt my sister a lot and yes, I did the same mistake Naina did of staying quiet and not telling her the truth, so trust me, I know what Naina and Meghna are going through. It isn't about trusting each other, it's about doubting intentions because the situations are so. Naina needs to understand that blind faith and trust are different. She trusted Karan because she knew how he was with girls. Karan knows she isn't a gold digger but her silence, is contradicting her behaviour, and that is pissing him off. Karan has been shown someone who doesn't understand a lot of things, and this, is beyond his understanding and Naina is not helping him this time.

Meghna is upset on Kunal's behalf, which makes sense because her husband cried in front of her like a baby, and Naina's blind following of NK is worsening that sadness. Expecting support and understanding is one thing, but just assuming that everyone would think she is never wrong, that is wrong. I am not bashing her character, rather I am pointing out that she needs to be the strong loving girl who made her sister see she loved Kunal. That's it. Being a bahu, a sister, a wife doesn't mean you lose you!
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: Siya2202

For me...though being a meghnal and meghna fan i feel sorry for naina. In this current scenario, she is actually confused as to what to do. She has agreed to a point that by following nk's orders, whether wrong or right is the real meaning of bahu dharam. Plus, she has been burdened with he resposibilities of the whole chauhan house, and even nirmala left her to take care of everything. There's no one to even guide her and pave her the right path. Even sharda doesn't look interested to call her and ask her whereabouts. Yesterday, nirmala figured out the real reason behind this mu. She knows that neiher of the two girls are wrong, only situation drifts them apart.

Also, its stupid to show karan arriving at the place only to see naina in the bad light. Karan should use his conscience and past experiences to determine wheher naina is really wrong or he is just misunderstanding the whole situation. Gosh...i need some monologues for him which projects his real state of mind.
At the end, i admit that naina should really speak at some situation to avoid confusion instead of just shedding tears all the time.


I agree. I do feel sorry for Naina, honestly I agree with you that she is left without guidance and that's confusing her. But she isn't left without family, she has her mom, if nobody else and even if Sharda doesn't call her, she can call her and seek her guidance. I am not saying complain or tell everything, but rather tell her she is confused and not able to handle.

I think they are showing Karan this ways because Karan needs to look at Naina beyond the "friend" he had given a place in his heart. The fights, the problems, these would probably make him stop comparing Naina to Meghna in a way and fall for the soft girl, not the super strong one she became for Karan, because the soft, emotional, bubbly girl was Naina.

The only thing I am not liking, to be honest, is everyone making a martyr and victim out of Naina. She is in a bad position, no doubt, but she isn't doing anything to sort it, that's what makes her not-a-victim in my eyes. She was a topper too right? So has brains, even if not street smart for some reason, but she isn't using them, only focusing on pleasing NK for some reason.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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^Perfect! And sisters have this problem of secrets
It isn't trust but moreover anger that how can she not tell me, out of everyone. Its there, you know of it or not. And rightly said, Naina is in a mess due her own fault so not a victim for me too. And yea, Karan is actually going wild cause he doesn't know what to do. Naina is unjustified for him and his bhai, bhabhi and mom arent with him and moreover NK's weird random behaviour has him going crazy. What I like about this is unlike Naina, he refuses to cooperate with NK, so great going there! :)
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: cutepigs


I agree. I do feel sorry for Naina, honestly I agree with you that she is left without guidance and that's confusing her. But she isn't left without family, she has her mom, if nobody else and even if Sharda doesn't call her, she can call her and seek her guidance. I am not saying complain or tell everything, but rather tell her she is confused and not able to handle.

I think they are showing Karan this ways because Karan needs to look at Naina beyond the "friend" he had given a place in his heart. The fights, the problems, these would probably make him stop comparing Naina to Meghna in a way and fall for the soft girl, not the super strong one she became for Karan, because the soft, emotional, bubbly girl was Naina.

The only thing I am not liking, to be honest, is everyone making a martyr and victim out of Naina. She is in a bad position, no doubt, but she isn't doing anything to sort it, that's what makes her not-a-victim in my eyes. She was a topper too right? So has brains, even if not street smart for some reason, but she isn't using them, only focusing on pleasing NK for some reason.


Karan never compared meghna and naina and naina is very muchva strong girl so karan loves the right person

Karan is very much aware of all of naina s trait and loves her for who she is
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Here is my take. Naina kept quiet about the keys and I think she was right. Hear me out before trying to lynch me...😆
NK can't stand the sight of Nirmala right now. He is pissed off, all egoed out. More so than usual.
Naina knows that Sandy is not the sister who she claims to be. So, what do you do in that situation.
You take the keys. Better with her than Sandy! At least when things are better, she can give i back to Nirmala.
NK is angry right now. Contradicting him isn't going to get the family united. As the saying goes you catch more flies with honey than vinegar.
Sometimes, you have to do things that may appear wrong to others. But you know your intentions are good.
If Naina went against NK now, there is no hope in hell that things would get better. Right now, Naina has NK's ear. NK counts on Naina. Yes, Naina his bahu and not Sandy. That is a good thing.
Hope I made sense.

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Namita-

Here is my take. Naina kept quiet about the keys and I think she was right. Hear me out before trying to lynch me...😆

NK can't stand the sight of Nirmala right now. He is pissed off, all egoed out. More so than usual.
Naina knows that Sandy is not the sister who she claims to be. So, what do you do in that situation.
You take the keys. Better with her than Sandy! At least when things are better, she can give i back to Nirmala.
NK is angry right now. Contradicting him isn't going to get the family united. As the saying goes you catch more flies with honey than vinegar.
Sometimes, you have to do things that may appear wrong to others. But you know your intentions are good.
If Naina went against NK now, there is no hope in hell that things would get better. Right now, Naina has NK's ear. NK counts on Naina. Yes, Naina his bahu and not Sandy. That is a good thing.
Hope I made sense.


This isn't about lynching anyone, I am sorry if it came off that ways. I actually do agree with you. I am not questioning what Naina is doing, but rather why she is remaining quiet. Ok, Karan isn't listening to her, Meghna is freezing her out post the keys, but Nirmala and Kunal? Why not take one of them at least in her confidence? Or even Dadaji. He is elder, and smart, I am sure he would be an asset to her. I get why not Sharda, she is her mom and she doesn't wanna burden her with sasural problems as she sees it, but what about the others?

Yes NK is unreasonable and yes, he needs to be babied right now, but by remaining shut, she would just keep on digging this hole so deep, that she would never get out. Trust me when I say this, intentions have value till only some degree, post that, words matter a lot. I have made that mistake, so I know.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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@Cutepigs, that was a joke. See the Laughing emoticon!!!
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Posted: 7 years ago
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I would like to retain faith with the PH that they would never go that far that a character can't be redeemed.
This is after all Rajshri, I believe they are going the route I think they are. It will all get solved.
She can't take anyone in confidence. Kunal and Nirmala have their own set of problems. It's just a matter of a little faith. That's what I believe anyway.
What bothers me the most is that with all this fighting amid themselves that Savri and Sandy are going to win!
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Namita-

I would like to retain faith with the PH that they would never go that far that a character can't be redeemed.

This is after all Rajshri, I believe they are going the route I think they are. It will all get solved.
She can't take anyone in confidence. Kunal and Nirmala have their own set of problems. It's just a matter of a little faith. That's what I believe anyway.
What bothers me the most is that with all this fighting amid themselves that Savri and Sandy are going to win!


Oops!! My bad... 😳.. Sorry... Didn't read that, just thought maybe I offended somebody without meaning too so felt guilty.

I think Savri and Sandy won't win because no matter how much sisters or brothers might fight, they remain siblings at the end of the day, in every bad situation, they are each other's pillars, no matter the resentment, so they won't win..

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