Karan, Naina & Meghna: When Worst Nightmares Come True

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Tamihna

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Posted: 8 years ago

#61

Originally posted by: adhyakumarijha

If you are expecting that I will give you lecture s on how to behave or would agree with you then you are wrong because I m not going to do either

Me being in meghna s place would have reached in the same manner may be I would have uttered the same words but that certainly doesn't make it right just because I or u or anybody else does it

The topic is about if it. Was justified or not and to me it was not justified at all

Even if 100 people does the same thing then also wrong will not become right

Anger is a person's biggest enemy and meghna needs to understand that

I didn't think you'd give a lecture, I was just asking how you'd approach the question. That's all.

Your answer contradicted your entire point. You'd do what Meghna did but it's still wrong? So you'd do the wrong thing? And you'd expect everyone to say it's not justified? Youre telling me that, what you said is very wrong and there's no reason in the world that it would and can be justified? Why would you do that, I mean why would you do something that has no justification to it? I fail to understand. I hope you can clarify.

Also, I think lying is much worse than anger. Much worse.

Ok now listen carefully very carefully read each and every word and think about it is

I would have done that because I m angry and in our anger we always make mistakes

Which meghna darling had proved many times

Right now I m in calm and composed and above everything I m rational and hence can very much differentiate right and wrong I can analyse the situation in a better way

Plus u see I m from those people who believes in stating wrong as wrong even if I myself have committed it and if I have done something wrong in fit of anger then I don't shy away from saying sorry

Sorry I couldn't listen to what you were saying.

I did read what you said though. 😊

Now you can read my words very clearly, that way there is no miscommunication.

So you still think what Meghna did was wrong?

Meghna had every right to get angry and then what she said was valid. It was right. Meghnas anger IS the justification to what she said.

Out of anger I think more people do what is right and what is needed.

Meghna hasn't spoken to Karan yet, today we'll all see what Meghna says, what Karan says and what will be done. There will be a Meghna and Karan conversation I'm sure so we'll have to wait impatiently.

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malikakas

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Posted: 8 years ago

#62

Originally posted by: adhyakumarijha

Ok now listen carefully very carefully read each and every word and think about it is
I would have done that because I m angry and in our anger we always make mistakes
Which meghna darling had proved many times

Right now I m in calm and composed and above everything I m rational and hence can very much differentiate right and wrong I can analyse the situation in a better way

Plus u see I m from those people who believes in stating wrong as wrong even if I myself have committed it and if I have done something wrong in fit of anger then I don't shy away from saying sorry

Fair point. I think we all can do wrong things in anger and what not. And I agree with the principle that just because most people in a circumstance would react the same way doesn't necessarily make it right.

I guess I just didn't see the anger here being overwhelming. Meghna's first choice was to tell Sharda. That to me shows that her first concern wasn't revenge or anger... it was concern for her sister. Of how they were going to approach this situation to get her sister out of this mess. A mess that she feels responsible for. The main emotion here was hurt and fear.

I think the word justifiable means you can understand how someone in that situation can react that way. If you'd think most people would react that way then it is justifiable.

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Adhya

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Posted: 8 years ago

#63

Originally posted by: malikakas

Fair point. I think we all can do wrong things in anger and what not. And I agree with the principle that just because most people in a circumstance would react the same way doesn't necessarily make it right.

I guess I just didn't see the anger here being overwhelming. Meghna's first choice was to tell Sharda. That to me shows that her first concern wasn't revenge or anger... it was concern for her sister. Of how they were going to approach this situation to get her sister out of this mess. A mess that she feels responsible for. The main emotion here was hurt and fear.

I think the word justifiable means you can understand how someone in that situation can react that way. If you'd think most people would react that way then it is justifiable.

Nope justifiable mean something which is reasonable.and I didn't find meghna s words against karan to be reasonable

You know I have problem only with those words just those specific words against karan just that nothing else

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Adhya

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Posted: 8 years ago

#64

From the debate one thing is very clear that everybody here likes to speak of their mind still we don't get into ugly fight s because somewhere we all respect each other's opinion

I think it's great kudos to that 👏

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malikakas

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Posted: 8 years ago

#65

Originally posted by: adhyakumarijha

Nope justifiable mean something which is reasonable.and I didn't find meghna s words against karan to be reasonable
You know I have problem only with those words just those specific words against karan just that nothing else

But reasonable means that most people in that situation would react the same way. It doesn't mean right or wrong.. it just means that its a legitimate reaction to the situation.

As for the words.. I don't see how her words were wrong?

She wasn't telling Karan he is a "bemaar". She pointing out that reality to Naina who felt that Karan being a nice person was good enough to sacrifice her life. Lets be honest... Naina is being his nurse. Is that being mean or harsh.. or is that just speaking the truth? Or maybe it both.

Even with a cool head though... I don't think Meghna should have said anything differently. Because Naina needed to hear those words. Naina so far has been taking her mother's words about making her marriage work. She's never allowed herself to think that the situation she is in, IS unfair to her. She never allowed herself to consider another alternative. Karan being a nice person doesn't make her marriage worthwhile. Being someone's caregiver for life is a recipe for disaster... eventually caregiver burnout will set in and both people get hurt.

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Tamihna

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Posted: 8 years ago

#66

Originally posted by: malikakas

But reasonable means that most people in that situation would react the same way. It doesn't mean right or wrong.. it just means that its a legitimate reaction to the situation.

As for the words.. I don't see how her words were wrong?

She wasn't telling Karan he is a "bemaar". She pointing out that reality to Naina who felt that Karan being a nice person was good enough to sacrifice her life. Lets be honest... Naina is being his nurse. Is that being mean or harsh.. or is that just speaking the truth? Or maybe it both.

Even with a cool head though... I don't think Meghna should have said anything differently. Because Naina needed to hear those words. Naina so far has been taking her mother's words about making her marriage work. She's never allowed herself to think that the situation she is in, IS unfair to her. She never allowed herself to consider another alternative. Karan being a nice person doesn't make her marriage worthwhile. Being someone's caregiver for life is a recipe for disaster... eventually caregiver burnout will set in and both people get hurt.

Exactly! If an ill person is ill what are we meant to say? Borderline the truth hurts!