Karan, Naina & Meghna: When Worst Nightmares Come True - Page 5

Created

Last reply

Replies

67

Views

4.6k

Users

15

Likes

192

Frequent Posters

malikakas thumbnail
19th Anniversary Thumbnail Rocker Thumbnail Visit Streak 30 Thumbnail
Posted: 8 years ago
#41

Originally posted by: .Sona.


I see your point. But i don't know if I believe that. There are so many different people in the world and so many different kinds of relationships that I don't know if I can conclusively say that it won't work. So many times we hear of things that surprise us. I genuinely believe that the quote "Truth is stranger than fiction" is true. So while they can show whatever they want to in the serial obviously, who knows, it might just work in real life as well. The marvels of human relationships are plenty! :)

This is only for discussion sake in the serial at least because we know that Karan disease, if he has, is not contagious but if it were, who knows what could have happened? :)


I agree with you here. People do have all sorts of relationships. What about people who have illnesses that prevent them from having physical intimacy. There are people who choose to stay with their partners even when they can't consummate the marriage. In Karan's case it would be really hard to not even have hugging or cuddling. But we can't say what people will or not accept.

In Naina's case what bothers me is that she wasn't given a choice beforehand. She found after the fact when she had already tied the success of this marriage to her mother's swabihman. That's why, I feel, she needs to be freed from that sense of obligation to be able to make her own decisions.
Sona1121 thumbnail
13th Anniversary Thumbnail Navigator Thumbnail
Posted: 8 years ago
#42

Originally posted by: malikakas

[

I agree with you here. People do have all sorts of relationships. What about people who have illnesses that prevent them from having physical intimacy. There are people who choose to stay with their partners even when they can't consummate the marriage. In Karan's case it would be really hard to not even have hugging or cuddling. But we can't say what people will or not accept.

In Naina's case what bothers me is that she wasn't given a choice beforehand. She found after the fact when she had already tied the success of this marriage to her mother's swabihman. That's why, I feel, she needs to be freed from that sense of obligation to be able to make her own decisions.


I agree. That is what adds a lot more complexity to their equation also. Karan and Meghna will both find it very hard to believe that she wants to chose this. That is why she will first have to conclusively choose herself and then go about the task of convincing others. She will be freed from the obligation sometime in the process. Or she may choose to do it herself so as to prove that she wants this. So many possibilities though.
Edited by .Sona. - 8 years ago
Agni_Jytsona thumbnail
Posted: 8 years ago
#43
Nice post sona
Nairan scene was so intense Anridh did a wonderful job especially samridh he is brilliant actor best amongst the four leads

I liked the sisters convo till meghna started insulting karan i didn't like what she said about him meghna doesn't know much about karan s disease So i didn't find it right on her part to makes such comments caring about your siblings is nice but then hurting others in the process is not

Reason for her behavior is anger and impulsive nature meghna really needs to concentrate on these aspect pr else oneday she will loose all her relationships because not everybody can be as patient as naina

Lastly naina being with karan is not "mahaan" its actually kidness and sensitivity something which sadly has become rare in this world

Plus the concept of marriage atleast for me goes beyond physical relationship i find love, care and respect is enough to sustain a relationship

I actually love naina because even after finding out truth she was rational she didn't let anger cloud her vision and the best part is that naina still decided to stand by her decision and didn't blamed everything on karan

Its very sad actually that in today s world being insensitive or aloof to people like karan is called "prarical" but to me these attitude is not pratical but extremely insensitive
Edited by adhyakumarijha - 8 years ago
Agni_Jytsona thumbnail
Posted: 8 years ago
#44

Originally posted by: -Namita-

I honestly don't think Naina has realized what she has foregone. She might think she is happy but in the future, she is going to want kids and than she will realize what's missing in her relationship.


But then nairan can adopt a child na that way a baby s life will get better
--Amulya-- thumbnail
13th Anniversary Thumbnail Dazzler Thumbnail + 2
Posted: 8 years ago
#45
Nice post sona
Nairan scene was so intense Anridh did a wonderful job especially samridh he is brilliant actor best amongst the four leads

I liked the sisters convo till meghna started insulting karan i didn't like what she said about him meghna doesn't know much about karan s disease So i didn't find it right on her part to makes such comments caring about your siblings is nice but then hurting others in the process is not
Meghna has no idea that Karan was listening all that, his act can be counted as eavesdropping on the sister's convo

Reason for her behavior is anger and impulsive nature meghna really needs to concentrate on these aspect pr else oneday she will loose all her relationships because not everybody can be as patient as naina
No, I don't think a person who fights for a loved one like her will ever lose any relationship in her life, she's a fierce lover who'll only be loved in return

Lastly naina being with karan is not "mahaan" its actually kidness and sensitivity something which sadly has become rare in this world
Kindness is feeding a beggar or working at an NGO for which we spare our resources but its sacrifice when a person devotes his entire life for a cause, Naina can easily get a good life partner in someone else but if she'll still choose Karan then it'll only look as sacrifice to the world and she'll get tagged as mahaan

Plus the concept of marriage atleast for me goes beyond physical relationship i find love, care and respect is enough to sustain a relationship
Yes, I agree marriage is beyond physical intimacy but it can't be ignored too. Just look at nairan as what stage they're at now, they both know that Karan has a contagious disease but they're uncontrollably being attracted towards each other and when they'll realise its love they'll no longer be able to stay apart. You've to understand that physical attraction and intimacy is also a part of love, actually psychologists term it as a vital role player in healthy relationships.

I actually love naina because even after finding out truth she was rational she didn't let anger cloud her vision and the best part is that naina still decided to stand by her decision and didn't blamed everything on karan
Naina can't really blame Karan as she's fully aware that he was as helpless as her during their wedding and she also saw that nothing works against NK's decisions. I respect her for perceiving Karan as himself rather than someone with a disease.

Its very sad actually that in today s world being insensitive or aloof to people like karan is called "prarical" but to me these attitude is not pratical but extremely insensitive
People aren't as insensitive as you're thinking, most people are ready to help others but it can be in their own way...
Agni_Jytsona thumbnail
Posted: 8 years ago
#46

Originally posted by: --Amulya--

Nice post sona

Nairan scene was so intense Anridh did a wonderful job especially samridh he is brilliant actor best amongst the four leads

I liked the sisters convo till meghna started insulting karan i didn't like what she said about him meghna doesn't know much about karan s disease So i didn't find it right on her part to makes such comments caring about your siblings is nice but then hurting others in the process is not
Meghna has no idea that Karan was listening all that, his act can be counted as eavesdropping on the sister's convo




Reason for her behavior is anger and impulsive nature meghna really needs to concentrate on these aspect pr else oneday she will loose all her relationships because not everybody can be as patient as naina
No, I don't think a person who fights for a loved one like her will ever lose any relationship in her life, she's a fierce lover who'll only be loved in return

Lastly naina being with karan is not "mahaan" its actually kidness and sensitivity something which sadly has become rare in this world
Kindness is feeding a beggar or working at an NGO for which we spare our resources but its sacrifice when a person devotes his entire life for a cause, Naina can easily get a good life partner in someone else but if she'll still choose Karan then it'll only look as sacrifice to the world and she'll get tagged as mahaan

Plus the concept of marriage atleast for me goes beyond physical relationship i find love, care and respect is enough to sustain a relationship
Yes, I agree marriage is beyond physical intimacy but it can't be ignored too. Just look at nairan as what stage they're at now, they both know that Karan has a contagious disease but they're uncontrollably being attracted towards each other and when they'll realise its love they'll no longer be able to stay apart. You've to understand that physical attraction and intimacy is also a part of love, actually psychologists term it as a vital role player in healthy relationships.

I actually love naina because even after finding out truth she was rational she didn't let anger cloud her vision and the best part is that naina still decided to stand by her decision and didn't blamed everything on karan
Naina can't really blame Karan as she's fully aware that he was as helpless as her during their wedding and she also saw that nothing works against NK's decisions. I respect her for perceiving Karan as himself rather than someone with a disease.

Its very sad actually that in today s world being insensitive or aloof to people like karan is called "prarical" but to me these attitude is not pratical but extremely insensitive
People aren't as insensitive as you're thinking, most people are ready to help others but it can be in their own way...


Well by meghna losing loved ones what i mean is that in anger meghna hardly know what she is doing or saying she most of the ends up hurting people who are close to her and people will forgive one two time threw ttimea but after that no afterall every human has a capacity to tolerate she really needs to concentrate on this aspect of her life meghna is great girl but then she doea messes up at times



Nairan a relationship goes beyond words they connect at a very deeper level if naina wants to let go of certain caspects of a "normal"life to be with karan then its her love him and not her "mahanta"
Plus if One scarificea for one s loved ones is it really "mahaan" thing? Isn't it quite a himan character??

About physical intimacy i dont know yaar i m actually a very sensitive person (or so people say) hence for me love , marriage and relationship concept is quiet different physical attraction is of least importance maybe with time and maturity i might see things in a different way

About naina not blaming karan, whar u said is exaxtly my point naina knew that even kaean had been forced for this alliance, her finding out about karan s disease didn't changed her pov she didn't blamed everything on him

The world has become a bit cruel as a whole people today are way too practical
Edited by adhyakumarijha - 8 years ago
Anushya93 thumbnail
12th Anniversary Thumbnail Voyager Thumbnail
Posted: 8 years ago
#47
As always wonderful analysis Sona👏you have beautifully captured every emotions portrayed today!!!
Coming to sisters' confrontation,I must say I am not disappointed at all!!wonderfully enacted by Sangeita and Ankita👏we all were looking forward to Meghna's reaction when Karan's truth comes out..and she didn't disappoint us!!she was fiercefully protective of her baby sister and that her Chiku is hurt and hence nothing or no one else matters to her!!and I love her for that!!
Karan's heartbroken expressions💔Samridh nailed it with his performance👏that look while overhearing Meghna was on point..He was the show stealer yesterday!
Naina pointed out that she is happy with Karan and that he is a good person!!atleast she is no longer seeing this as her duty!!
Precap was awesome!!Eagerly waiting for today's episode!!
Riya_madhav thumbnail
Posted: 8 years ago
#48
Oh come on in which generation we are ... Colours airs Shakti where kinnar can have family and Dil say Dil thak for srurogecy for having kids for me marriage is not physicay intimacy or sexual there are so many living in this world without that. And happily
Megha consern was gud but calling person bimari is not justified.she have to come to senses .

Sona nice post the way described nairan pain was so gud
--Amulya-- thumbnail
13th Anniversary Thumbnail Dazzler Thumbnail + 2
Posted: 8 years ago
#49

Originally posted by: Riya_madhav

Oh come on in which generation we are ... Colours airs Shakti where kinnar can have family and Dil say Dil thak for srurogecy for having kids for me marriage is not physicay intimacy or sexual there are so many living in this world without that. And happily

Megha consern was gud but calling person bimari is not justified.she have to come to senses .

Sona nice post the way described nairan pain was so gud


A story of a transgender or a person being incompetent are totally different as they can still have a proper sexual life while a person with a contagious disease can't in the fear of spreading the disease, its similar to a person with HIV. Speaking about those things which we aren't experiencing is much easier than experiencing it for even a single day, You aren't thinking enough, what many of us want from life are very simple things like holding the hand while having a walk and having a good sleep while cuddling our loved ones, being unable to touch a loved one will seem a curse in no time. The simple fact is CV's too know that such of platonic love stories won't work and so they resorted to a skin disease which is curable and for which mental stress is the largest trigger.
parboni thumbnail
11th Anniversary Thumbnail Voyager Thumbnail
Posted: 8 years ago
#50
Can I be honest? I actually HATED Meghna in this epi bcoz of the words she used for Karan and the way she threw the umbrella away.Maybe,she's right from her P.O.V but her timing was really wrong.

Related Topics

Top

Stay Connected with IndiaForums!

Be the first to know about the latest news, updates, and exclusive content.

Add to Home Screen!

Install this web app on your iPhone for the best experience. It's easy, just tap and then "Add to Home Screen".