Brishti I agree...it takes a lot of strength to do wat Kunti did...which is y I believe in order to understand Kunti, one has to be in her place...She is one character who is judged easily n negatively...n yes, some of the things she did are really really unfair...but I guess she did those to keep herself n her sons safe...
I do feel bad for her at times...her conversation with Lord Krishna where she talks of her miseries is heart-wrenching... 😭
And it is true that half of the things in the epic happened because of her...But in a way, I feel she could do all this bcoz Pandu was dead...if he had been alive, then maybe we would have known a different Kunti...but nonetheless she made an impact...I wish the CVs showed this...
As for Draupadi...yes, she was very very very very very vocal about her problems but I guess it is easier to have dignity when in lesser troubles...When a woman gets assaulted again n again(n sometimes in front of her husbands)...being elegant n dignified becomes the least of her concerns...or so I feel. The best example of that is Gandhari...The woman who never spoke ill of anyone...n did not even bless her sons with victory, lost all control n self-restraint when her sons died...n started yelling n cursing...
And y is Draupadi glorified? I guess bcoz she is the wife of the 'heroes' n the assaulted one...
Like u said...people give a lot of importance to tragedy n tragic characters...n hence there is so much discussion on Draupadi...And ofcourse her polyandry...which most people still cant digest bcoz of her gender...
Anyway...let's focus on Kunti.
I just really wish they had shown the real Kunti...
Yes u are correct.. Like everyone else in the epic Kunti too made mistakes and did some unfair things. For instance, she supported division of Draupadi. I used to think it was justified from both Yudhi and Kunti's side but now I feel it is wrong..knowing a few other sides of the incident recently.
Pandu is useless according to me. Its not that he did some great mistake but I don't even consider him because for me he was just useless in the way that Kunti could marry him and become Kuru Kulavadhu 😆 Otherwise he has nothing to do in the whole story. I think if Pandu would have been alive he would very well be useless as he was, and Kunti wasn't a woman who would remain stopped by him. Even KRISHNA could not stop her from doing few things 😉😆
Now coming to Gandhari, Draupadi and Kunti.. I always will choose the last one because she was one woman who truely inspires me.. yes ofcourse..all of them were humans.. some made more mistakes, some made few.. Kunti had done many wrong things.. Like Lakshagriha, Drau division etc. But Gandhari totally lacked sense in the end. The reason I do not blame her that way is because she had reached the end of her tolerance as u rightly said.. you cannot expect sanity from her. As for Draupadi, I have said this millions of times.. Sympathetic characters are meant for gaining sympathy. i can never make them my favourite. But I cannot disagree Draupadi suffered a WHOLE LOT! And she does deserve the sympathy she gets today... What I do not agree with is she being very important in the epic..She was important, but not the heroine of epic for me.. that does nt mean she does not deserve the appreciation she gets.. I hope I dont sound like a Panchaali hater because I am not one..