Suhani's denial & Soumya's denial

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Posted: 10 years ago
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The differences between Suhani and Soumya is very much the size of the Atlantic ocean, we all know that. Suhani is a sweet girl that values relationships and the importance of them, whilst Soumya cares about relationships as much as she cares about her childhood best friend. But if there is one thing they both have in common, it's denial.

Suhani's denial:

Recently, Suhani has been acting like a little kid who just broke their favourite toy, and yet keep playing with that same toy because they don't want to admit it is broken and move on, because they just love that toy too much. This is literally what Suhani is doing with Soumya. Although it is proven that her "best friend" tried to basically kill her, she doesn't want to admit that, she doesn't want to see her flaws, so she keeps pretending that Soumya isn't broken and continues on keeping the facade of friendship with her, even though she just needs to move on. She just can't because she loves Soumya too much. To the point where she'd rather believe her husband is instigating Soumya into cheating, rather than believe it is her dear friend who might be doing the instigating.

Soumya's denial:

Hers is simple. Her mindset goes as follows: "I am a queen, I most be adored, I must get the best things in life. I am the one who deserves good things in life, therefore I refuse to believe that my friend, who is not as pretty as me deserves a lavish life too." That is literally Soumya summed up. And that is where her denials come in. It's not even the case of her believing Yuvraj loves her, I mean sometimes I don't blame her when Yuvraj acts like he's endeared by her half the time. But it's the case of the fact that she CANNOT accept that someone she believe is inferior to her deserves the life she is meant to have. That is why she is willing to overlook Suhani's feelings, to prove to herself that she deserves Yuvraj; because she can't accept it within herself to lose to someone she feels is inferior to her.

What's your views guys?
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Posted: 10 years ago
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You summed up Saumya brilliantly!👏
Yuvraj's love is not an important factor for her, as she cannot honestly truly believe he loves her. I know everyone in the Birla house is slightly mentally challenged when it comes to the truth but, come one...

She has to know.

She doesn't love Yuvraj as much as she loves his wealth, his status, his family name... All the things she believes she deserves. She is a horrible person... No-one, save God himself, should be able to make someone treat ANYONE the way Saumya is treating Suhani! It's disgusting!

Not that drag hag Dadi.

Not Nagini Ragini.

No one.

Suhani's problem is she loves too fiercely. Yuvraj is constantly pulling that stupid, confused, horse face expression at her. And Saumya is still (in Suhani's eyes) behaving the same.
Is Suhani wrong? Of course she is. But love makes people believe lies, because they want them to be true.😕
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Agree with your post... you've analysed them aptly.
Suhani has grown up with Soumya believing they are two bodies but one soul. Soumya used to reciprocate the same feeling too...but since her life turned bitter she turned a sour person. Now when Suhani is shown a different side of her friend...she's finding it difficult to comprehend...like you said she's in denial mode...If she believes this cruel side of her friend then she'll feel all her childhood and youth with her friend was an illusion...it was unreal and superficial. This is finding difficult to accept and believe in. Her 15+ yrs of life will be just a facade...


And Soumya...she's in her own world. Rejection is something she cannot accept...so also failure. She's grown up believing she's the best and deserves nothing but the best. Hence in the process of getting the best...she has overlooked many things and hurt her closed ones many a times. As a person she is shallow and insincere.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: samcek

You summed up Saumya brilliantly!👏

Yuvraj's love is not an important factor for her, as she cannot honestly truly believe he loves her. I know everyone in the Birla house is slightly mentally challenged when it comes to the truth but, come one...

She has to know.

She doesn't love Yuvraj as much as she loves his wealth, his status, his family name... All the things she believes she deserves. She is a horrible person... No-one, save God himself, should be able to make someone treat ANYONE the way Saumya is treating Suhani! It's disgusting!

Not that drag hag Dadi.

Not Nagini Ragini.

No one.

Suhani's problem is she loves too fiercely. Yuvraj is constantly pulling that stupid, confused, horse face expression at her. And Saumya is still (in Suhani's eyes) behaving the same.
Is Suhani wrong? Of course she is. But love makes people believe lies, because they want them to be true.😕


You're completely right. The way soumya is behaving at the moment is purely due to herself and her desire to achieve what she thinks she deserves in life. Fueled by the fact that she believes yuvraj loves her, she therfore doesn't understand why it's wrong to be going after him. As she feels it's her right. And more importantly she can't let suhani win. Because if she does it'll finally be proven to her that the person who she feels is inferior to her is actually not as inferior as she thought.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Elita

Agree with your post... you've analysed them aptly.

Suhani has grown up with Soumya believing they are two bodies but one soul. Soumya used to reciprocate the same feeling too...but since her life turned bitter she turned a sour person. Now when Suhani is shown a different side of her friend...she's finding it difficult to comprehend...like you said she's in denial mode...If she believes this cruel side of her friend then she'll feel all her childhood and youth with her friend was an illusion...it was unreal and superficial. This is finding difficult to accept and believe in. Her 15+ yrs of life will be just a facade...


And Soumya...she's in her own world. Rejection is something she cannot accept...so also failure. She's grown up believing she's the best and deserves nothing but the best. Hence in the process of getting the best...she has overlooked many things and hurt her closed ones many a times. As a person she is shallow and insincere.


You're completely right. Suhani loves fiercely and she expects others to love her as fiercely too. Therefore she just can't accept that her best friend isn't whom she thought she knew, because then if she did, she would start to question the times she had with soumya.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Absolutely! 👏👏👏

You got both girls' personalities down to the tee. ⭐️

Suhani- I believe her main personality flaw is that she likes to pedestalise and glorify her loved ones to the point where they're not even human and are angels. 🤔 She refuses to have a balanced, realistic view of who they are and believes they are actually faultless. This is why she can't stand anyone pointing fingers at them and sought to put those security personnel at the FOTY even in place. More than SnakeRaj, Suhani didn't want the illusion she has about them in her mind to be vanquished. 😲 She thinks they're perfect, which means there is a Grand Canyon-wide margin of error for them. Any misstep and this ideal Yuvraj, ideal Soumya disappear with a POOF! and Suhani is left with heartbreak.

She has to learn to acknowledge and accept her loved ones' faults. She is aware of them, but chooses to act like she doesn't exist.

Soumya- She is an A-grade narcissist who believes that her beauty entitles her to anything she wants in the world. 🤢 As you said, she has a clear class of people she considers inferior to her and thinks that there is NO WAY anyone could prefer them to her. She actually can't fathom the idea that Yuvraj might just like Suhani and not her. Who can blame her really? Society has time and again told her that her beauty makes her a unicorn and this treatment has led to this raging sense of entitlement!!
Edited by clarity - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: clarity

Absolutely! 👏👏👏

You got both girls' personalities down to the tee. ⭐️

Suhani- I believe her main personality flaw is that she likes to pedestalise and glorify her loved ones to the point where they're not even human and are angels. 🤔 She refuses to have a balanced, realistic view of who they are and believes they are actually faultless. This is why she can't stand anyone pointing fingers at them and sought to put those security personnel at the FOTY even in place. More than SnakeRaj, Suhani didn't want the illusion she has about them in her mind to be vanquished. 😲 She thinks they're perfect, which means there is a Grand Canyon-wide margin of error for them. Any misstep and this ideal Yuvraj, ideal Soumya disappear with a POOF! and Suhani is left with heartbreak.

She has to learn to acknowledge and accept her loved ones' faults. She is aware of them, but chooses to act like she doesn't exist.

Soumya- She is an A-grade narcissist who believes that her beauty entitles her to anything she wants in the world. 🤢 As you said, she has a clear class of people she considers inferior to her and thinks that there is NO WAY anyone could prefer them to her. She actually can't fathom the idea that Yuvraj might just like Suhani and not her. Who can blame her really? Society has time and again told her that her beauty makes her a unicorn and this treatment has led to this raging sense of entitlement!!


Completely spot on. Like you said, Suhani values relationships to the point where she places people she loves above some sort of pedestal. In fact, they become her sun and she revolves around them.

As for soumya, she wants to be the sun and to have people revolve around her. She honestly considers herself a queen.

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