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Posted: 6 years ago
#31

Originally posted by: maha786

Also, the reason for him attacking us is because we never liked Shilpa Shinde, I personally never liked Shilpa and supported Hina.

Even on twitter, if you write something positive for Hina, you get abused and get demeaned.

So, he is taking revenge from me for supporting Hina and he said that once as well in the PM.

I have the right to have an opinion about contestants, why is this member getting so offended that, he has started to call me and other people names, we all have the liberty to like or dislike any contestant.

Thank you Maha for your support.
You are one of the few people who has always stood by us regarding this issue of harrasment, and that is why u also became a target like all others that stood by us.
It's not just me and Rukhi, but none of the members got personal with him and abused him first. He has always been the one to harrass and abuse first.
And he had this pattern on BB forums of targeting those that are not supporting the contestants that are his faves. Like this season he targeted all that were Anti Sreesanth/Dipika(mostly anti-Sree)

Forums are for discussion and there are going to be clashes of difference of opinion and it doesn't give anyone the right to hurl abuse and stalk members just cus they do not hold the same perception as you.

And now that BB is over he's still stalking us on every part of the forum we go to, just to harrass and abuse us some more.

With me and Rukhi it wasn't even about difference of opinion, for some strange reason he's targeted us for no good reason at all right from the word go,Which makes me wonder what this person's real agenda is. Could it be vengeance for maybe a past feud/s?

And I don't really recall any such feud that was big enough to warrant such abuse and harrasment. Infact nothing online or offline can be that big that it calls for resorting to such extreme measures.

What this person is doing is a criminal offence and the site aims responsibility should be to try safeguard their users to some extent atleast or to the best of their ability.

This case needs to be handed over to the police. I've already lodged a complaint with Mumbai Police but it would be of no use if Vijay doesn't comply and take this matter to them himself.

My only request to Vijay now is that he gets in touch with Mumbai police over this matter to help stop any further harrasment, abuse, threats and stalking of members.




Edited by KunwaariDaayan - 6 years ago
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Posted: 6 years ago
#32
This extreme level of harassment on India forum I am seeing for the first time. I've seen the trolling and stalking that happens on BWF and the threats and abuse people get, but this is like on a whole new level. This is continuous, this is endless.He follows us everywhere, and I mean 'EVERYWHERE'. And this is no exaggeration whatsoever. There's just no stopping for this person probably until we leave the site for good. But I do not see why we have to leave when we haven't done anything wrong. We are not stalking and harrasing members behind a factory load of MIDs.
This person has even mentioned that he has FB details and stuff of members, and who knows how long till he starts posting personal pics.

If he can stalk on here and make endless accounts under MIDs and manage to even hunt down members other SM accounts and still not be caught, then only God knows what else this person can and will do further down the line.

This guy is dangerous,this guy is a menace to all.
He needs to be stopped and caught before he does cause any real harm.


Edited by KunwaariDaayan - 6 years ago
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Posted: 6 years ago
#33
What VIjay and IF is doing must be appreciated. Thanks from Hippo as well.

However those measures are for regular MIDs and trolls.

This person is a nut case on another level. He is violent and has threatened rape as well. This is a police case

I hope Vijay and his IF team will join Miss KD and Rukhi in their effort with the police and work with them to identify this person and put him behind bars.

I spoke to him few times and tried to put sense into him but it did not work out

I want to thank Miss KD, Miss Rukhi, Miss Maha and Mr Nathu for their continued efforts and all the members involved.

Thanks
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Posted: 6 years ago
#34
This is where a parent is being abused for no damn reason and we are allowing this kind of vile behaviour and told to remain silent.
I for one felt as though my parent was being abused and felt my stomach churn. Its not about being sensitive its to do with why is parents being name called here and dragged in all this for no reason at all. Instead the member who was the victim got a WL instead as he could not take that abuse and spoke out. Where is the justice ??

What is the level of this trolling and why do we have to tolerate all this



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Posted: 6 years ago
#35
Parents getting involved is really disgusting, I am pretty sure they have not called him lifeless and faceless which he uses against me to justify harassing me.

I will not spare this person for abusing parents over here, he has also abused mothers over here, this person ahs stooped to the level of dirt.

He is getting personal on people's family now, this is shameless behavior, the trolling has expanded form the family members now, no one will tolerate anything against their family, please do something and make India Forums a safe place, why is there no justice in real life, even in real life, victims are always shamed, they never receive any help, no one does anything.

What did his mother do to be involved in this????????

He cannot tolerate a small criticism of being called faceless, but he can abuse others by making excuse of being targeted, no one ahs targeted him, he is just playing victim card and even if he is targeted, there is a certain boundary you cannot cross and he is making personal comments now,why is he nto getting serious consequences for this, he is calling other people third class and cheap, this is nto fair, we all are nto here to listen to such insults.

Edited by maha786 - 6 years ago
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Posted: 6 years ago
#36

Originally posted by: Dr.Hippopotamus

What VIjay and IF is doing must be appreciated. Thanks from Hippo as well.

However those measures are for regular MIDs and trolls.

This person is a nut case on another level. He is violent and has threatened rape as well. This is a police case

I hope Vijay and his IF team will join Miss KD and Rukhi in their effort with the police and work with them to identify this person and put him behind bars.

I spoke to him few times and tried to put sense into him but it did not work out

I want to thank Miss KD, Miss Rukhi, Miss Maha and Mr Nathu for their continued efforts and all the members involved.

Thanks

And Thank you Doc for your continued support on this issue as well. And yes, this isn't just a run of the mill case of MIDs or online trolling. This person has made rape threats and much more which can only logically lead to the conclusion that this person could possibly be highly dangerous if the correct measures are not taken to permanently put a stop to this mass harrasment.

You did try your best to talk to him in a very civil manner just so that you could knock some sense into him but it was of no avail. Even us and others tried to give him the benefit of doubt, and even let him participate on our AT threads and stuff in the beginning, but it always ended with him hurling abuse and harrasing for no reason whatsoever.

Now i really do think it's high time admins/MODs all work with us in unison and assist the higher authorities with the much needed data that could actually help track this person down for good.



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Posted: 6 years ago
#37
Thank you so much Hippo for cooperating and you have tried a lot in making him understand in your polite way, we all appreciate you for that 👏 👏 👏

We all will keep trying till the end and you are doing this without any benefit which is rare in today's world, no one does anything unless they gain something from it, but you always help people generously
Edited by maha786 - 6 years ago
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Posted: 6 years ago
#38

Originally posted by: maha786

Where are all of the other forum members who used to target me all of the time, why are they not raising their voice for this now,they had all the time to mock me all of the time, ,but rape threats is not even being discussed here???

Maha I'm afraid this is how the world goes around and the virtual world of Internet too.

Pusedo stands can be taken in the name of feminism, human rights, liberation etc etc, but when it comes to taking a stand for an actual cause, and one that affects and involves us common people than it becomes wise to just turn a blind eye. Heck most times even so called friends wash their hands off of you and pretend you don't even exist when it comes to talking such stands cus nobody wants to get their hands dirty for real in the fear that they might end up in some more problems themselves.

People can sit online and tweet for their favourite celeb/star for just as much as them getting a new hairdo, or even trend by the millions #IamWithU for BB housemates, but for a an actual real cause like this that's happening to us common people who are very much human and real just like these so called celebs.
Not many can unite and say a simple #IamWithU then.

I've learnt to accept the world for its harsh realities. There is just no love left anymore for one human to another and this is the online world after all where we happen to be just an ID to one another.

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Posted: 6 years ago
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I agree with you KD, I have experienced isolation in real life as well, in the end , only your family is with you.I have lost trust in people after the kind of people I have had in my personal life.

My family especially my parents are my true support and I can only rely on them to receive support.

In this forum, kind people like me were easily made fun of , but now everyone is scared to confront this monster.

I also want the trolling on the forum to be reduced and no member has to ever feel isolated, I will not go on the Bigg Boss Forum, but anyone who experiences any isolation in that forum next year should not go through what I did this year, there should be strict rules for MID's well as any regular member.


But, the kind of abusive language Rukhi and you experienced today was beyond inappropriate.

This is character shaming and should nto be allowed in this forum at all, members are to be treated with respect, but all limits are being crossed over here.

The IP address needs to be identified form where this person is making all of the comments and that address needs to get banned.
Edited by maha786 - 6 years ago
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Posted: 6 years ago
#40


Like most girls here, I have also been a victim of bullying/abuse by some newbies/MIDs.

I normally choose to ignore these troll/fake accounts as I feel they're not worthy of my attention,

but I am SHOCKED and DISGUSTED by those snapshots shared by Rukhi.😲🤢 (Thank you for bringing this thread to my notice hun😊).

This is a serious issue, and these pricks need to be HIGHLIGHTED and taught a lesson.
They cannot cross the boundaries of morality, just because they are on social media.

They mustn't get away with this.😔

My support to all the girls/guys out there who have gone through (or are going through) this.

This is HARASSMENT!

Edited by diasingh2 - 6 years ago

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