Restraining Order on IF? Read pg12 - Page 2

Agreed. Swati was also responsible for the TEMPORARY calm that I experienced when we were both restricted from entering each other's threads, coz you know...that's what it means to AVOID/IGNORE a member. It includes their THREADS.

Originally posted by: -Radhe-

MODS Please listen to this request...

Make a Rule for or whatever suitable way for this problem posted by Desu, Warna the time will come as people will loose temper n abuses will be normal language in BS.

Please do something about this matter.

There should be a restraining order for the both parties. It is a constant torture to see two people argue on same topics. Other member has been part of Bollywood forum for more than 2 years and does the same attack on desu's topic and how long can one person stay calm for all the time. It's one thing to have a constructive criticism but repeating the same "I hate" chants and "agree" under all the negative comments is quite inciting to the other fans. Both the parties should avoid reading each other's topic and have a more peaceful forum..

i know this won't work...

Originally posted by: desigal90

She wont. She claims she's powerless, which frankly I dont understand. She, along with the other mods on the section, have all seen the drama and constant fights. They keep asking me to just ignore, which is ridiculous. How effectively can you ignore a fly buzzing around your face? Please tell me the trick, coz that's what its like as the member in question posts multiple times in my topics, inciting response.

Why cant mods help? I'm getting sick and tired of this and I dont know who to turn to. Can you please refer me to someone with a bit more power around here?

You are absolutely right DG...but I even managed to ignore the fly buzzing around my face...I didn't ever enter her topics, i didn't quote her...but if I opened a topic she would be there immediately to mock the topic and me...I even ignored her in my own topics...so what does she do...she makes an MID and I fall for it by posting in her topic and then she gets a chance to abuse me with the filthiest of the abuses...the MID was banned but she is still there..🤢..the coward doesn't have the guts to come at me with her original ID🤢...I think restraining order is a good idea...👍🏼...it is going to save big fights...as a result the Mods will get spare time for constructive things rather than just tackling two warring members...this suggestion will benefit both the Mods and the members...😛

Originally posted by: _Aanchal_

In that case you PM *Shruti*, she is our global mod and has more power than Bolly Forum Mod... she may take a bit of time to reply but she will surely sort out this issue if that other person is genuinely creating rifts in the forum! 😃

Why are u INSISTING that she PM this idea?...is this not the suggestions forum...she did the right thing by opening this thread here instead of just PMing it to a Mod...atleast the Mods will now know that there are other members who are concerned about this matter and they can listen to the suggestions from other members as well...If everything is supposed to be PMed to the Mods...then what is the purpose of this section?😛

Yup, I agree with everyone.

It's very clear the concerned two members in question do not see eye to eye, and haven't since the last two years from what i've heard, I had no idea that both members were told way earlier to avoid posting in each others threads, I always thought they were only supposed to avoid each other's posts , but from DG's post on the first page Mandy cleared that misconception out.

Members here have different levels of threshold for tolerance some don't give a toss and are least bothered other's flare up quick, while for some it's a just a matter of time. DG belongs to the latter. I can vouch for the fact that she hardly ventures outside her own topics she keeps herself bound to Kareena/Saif related matters. And when both have been told to avoid each others topics then why is it not happening? Why the laxation? A "no" means "no" rules are meant to be upheld.
Members are more than welcome to open topics themselves about someone they dislike & the same rule will apply to DG as well she will not enter such topics by her "foe" to defend Kareena or Saif it'll work both ways. They need to be implemented ASAP.

U guys have great ideas about the "e-restraining"..but how will it be implemented? Whats to keep two people away from each other UNLESS they make the effort to do so? So far, it hasnt worked.

I really appreciate everyone who came in and dropped a suggestion. I think its obvious that I'm not the only one who feels disappointed with the mods on the bolly section.