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Posted: 9 years ago
#21

Originally posted by: shruthiravi

Kshiti another beautiful take. I enjoy reading your top 5. Nice to read your experience. I am also an elder child so I know how it is to be the elder one. The most important dialogue to me yesterday was what mantra says. Don't look into rams eyes they will captivate you with the love residing in them. It's a very true statement. If you have to understand a person you need to look into that persons eyes. Eyes speak the language of the heart. Maybe I as a person looks first the eyes of a person. Eyes are the first feature I look when I meet a person. Learn to read eyes. They will tell you a tale which no words can tell. And if you can't meet a person eye to eye understand you are guilty of some action. A clear conscience will always ensure your eyes sparkling with love.


Thanks Shruthi.😊

Yes you are right. Your conscience always knows when you are in the wrong.

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Posted: 9 years ago
#22

Originally posted by: Muggle_Diaries


Thanks a lot Aparna.😊

Yes, Arshi's posts are always good. I like sense of humor.

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Kshithi


Mugambo khush hua😆
Why this forum is teeming with elder siblings - me too being one

I used to babysit my brother and then my baby cousins and now I baby sit their children - - still look out for them...
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Posted: 9 years ago
#23

Originally posted by: RUQAIYA10

Hey Kshiti😊

Missed your take on Epi 10. What stood out for me in this epi was the comparison between Bharat and Ram. Often times parents make the mistake of wishing their child was more like their older or younger sibling or like someone else. This comparison is extremely detrimental to a child's self esteem and self worth. Kaikeyi did not realize that as soon as she mouthed the words '' Why can't you be more like Ram'' she unknowingly undermined her son's value. Ram noticed it too. What' needs to be understood is that like our fingers no siblings are alike. Each carry their own distinct print and together they are capable of accomplishing great things


That is very sweet of you Ruqaiya...😊

You are so right. Comparing between two kids, whether they are siblings, friends, peers is wrong. We are no one to judge which kid is better and there is no need to judge anyone!!!! What is important is that the kid is a good human being.

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Posted: 9 years ago
#24

Originally posted by: NEIRAlover

Hello Kshithi🤗

So good to see back with your Take Five. Missed it a lot yesterday.
I am at loss of words after reading your take especially your take on Responsibility is too good.

I too have seen the movie an awesome movie. Loved it<3

Yesterday finally mother's wait ended. Such a beautiful scene it was.

Keep posting!!!!


Thanks Aayushi...🤗

So, you are from Karnataka or have you learnt Kannada?

It was beautiful a scene between Kaushalya and Ram...

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Posted: 9 years ago
#25

Originally posted by: Arshics

First of thanks Khshiti for your sweet feelings

And also thanks for adding relevance to your take 5 by sharing your own experience with us!

Today's take 5 again proves why no one else except you can do take 5!

I specially loved your analogy of a drop of lemon souring things, today kekeyi is all sweet and loving and Manthara is constantly trying to poison her mind!


Wow...Arshi...don't know what to say but thanks...you guys are being so sweet...😳

Right now she compares Ram with Bharat and finds Bharat lacking. Her first son always has been Ram. But for a person like Manthara, it is very easy for them to find your weakness and then use that to influence your mind. From yesterday's episode I felt that Manthara will use Kaikeyi's guilt to change her love for Ram. i.e. Kaikeyi's guilt of treating Bharat like that.

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Posted: 9 years ago
#26

Originally posted by: ayushimehra

nice post,

My post today deleted



show is going good,or putting verious ques also in our mind.

First i liked, Janak how bringing up girls, Girls learing Good +responsibile qualites.

Child also imp part of family,or if problems comes, they want to do own contribution, or want to help parents,;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;its shows Child learning +responsibile nature.

Liked sita want to go for war for caring, wounds person.so kindness developing for own soliders +enemies soliders,

liked sita sisters, when says they jointely can help,in war, liked sita concoles Mandvi, when she was feeling upset her father is not coming from war place.

so sita these qualites by child hood coming,


i think Bharat +kakayi secene so presented, connecting child of this era to Ramyan or showing this era problem.

comparsion in friends +siblings not a good way, every child have its own qualites. Even parents should talk to child if child behaving like he or she fearing.

liked Ram adopting values or he touches Manthra feet.

one more point about Ram he not only learns what his father mother guru is teaching, but he own find to know about what meaning behind their words.

when he says kooshalya, you learned me , we should think first for others, or really parents feel proud if kids full learn values, liked kooshalya huged to all brothers.

But Manthra started to reep, seeds in lemon in kakayi mind when we start to listen others advice without using own brain,;;;;;;;;;;;;;then which effects comes, some time tough to bear.





Aww... sorry about that post..😊
Lovely analysis again Ayushi.

So far Janak has been the only balanced parent in all these episodes. He knows when to give freedom and responsibility to his daughters, and when to hold them back. He knows how to let them be their own person. All this without raising his voice.

And you are right about comparison between kids. It is wrong.

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Posted: 9 years ago
#27

Originally posted by: aditi97

Wonderful take
Loved all your points specially the sibling one
Same pinch I am also an elder sibling :))
I do take care of my brothers in my parents ' absence or sometimes help them our with there homework..
But as an elder sibling the responsibility is much more..
Just loved the cute scene of Sita and her sisters, and Ram taking the blame of his brothers, and how he thought about his brothers' before himself and went to meet Sumitra and Kaykey before he went to meet his own mother


Thanks Aditi...

Ha ha... only we elders know better...😉😆

Of course we take care them. But we also take advantage of our 'Elder-ness'. 😃 I still do...

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Posted: 9 years ago
#28

Originally posted by: Arshics


Mugambo khush hua😆
Why this forum is teeming with elder siblings - me too being one

I used to babysit my brother and then my baby cousins and now I baby sit their children - - still look out for them...


Yeh toh bahut khushi ki baat hai...😆

But tell me truthfully, didn't you take advantage of being the elder sibling???😃
I used to ask my sister to work for me. for free...😃

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Kshithi
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Posted: 9 years ago
#29

Originally posted by: Muggle_Diaries


Yeh toh bahut khushi ki baat hai...😆

But tell me truthfully, didn't you take advantage of being the elder sibling???😃
I used to ask my sister to work for me. for free...😃

Love
Kshithi


I didn't have a sister I had a bratty brother. So growing up I couldn't make him do anything for me but now he really pampers me and my sis in law is my best friend so now I take full advantage of being the badi didi
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Posted: 9 years ago
#30

Originally posted by: Arshics


I didn't have a sister I had a bratty brother. So growing up I couldn't make him do anything for me but now he really pampers me and my sis in law is my best friend so now I take full advantage of being the badi didi


Good for you...😃
Does you brother know you considered him bratty?

Love
Kshithi
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