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Posted: 19 years ago
#51

Originally posted by: bollywoodcrazed

She was forced into marriage, her mother knew she loved Rahul yet got her married to Ant anyways. She did it because she loved her sister, she then found out Rahul was using her.

Niharika agreed to marry Ant AT FIRST - her mother didn't want her to go back on her word.

Even though she was married, Niharika continued to see Rahul. She CHOSE to form an intimate relationship with him WHILST MARRIED. You reap what you sew. She got what she deserved and yet she didn't realize this and made sure that Rahul was killed. How DARE anyone go against Niharika, right?

Originally posted by: bollywoodcrazed

Ant raped her, he got off. Ant killed her husband, he is walking around problem free while his brother got the blame, his mother died and his family was put out the house!

Ant raped her as a result of her behaviour towards him. Although he eventually didn't go DOWN for it, he DID spend some time in jail and faced a court case and humiliation. (In the form of facing his family and the press, ETC.)

It is hardly HIS fault that his mother died and his family were kicked out of the house. The latter was Niharika's fault, actually. SHE chose to do that.

Originally posted by: bollywoodcrazed

At least when Niharika, seeked revenge it was because of what the family did to her. They still stood by Ant, even though he raped Niharika and when she announces her husband's death. No one believed her, not even her own sister, who chose to insult her Niharika by applying sindoor.

Um, whatever Ant has done to Niharika is a result of what SHE has done to HIM. Does that justify some of his awful actions? NO, right? The same goes for Niharika.

It is NOT up to THEM to punish someone.

Actually, Ant's family DIDN'T stand by him during the whole 'rape gate.' His mother wouldn't even look at him and his father was very angry and disappointed. Dhruv was in shock too and Vedika actually testified AGAINST him. The only person who sided with Ant through all of this was SUNDARI and for obvious reasons as we later found out. Remember Ant almost committing suicide because his whole family had turned against him?

Niharika announcing Rudra's death was a classic case of the 'boy who cried wolf' from the family's POV. Her past finally caught up with her and can you really blame them for not believing her? (The amount of LIES she has spun!) No body was found, Rudra (with Niharika's help) was running away from the police (being guilty of Parth's 'initial' kidnap) and they simply thought that she was trying to protect her husband. Would they have been singing the same tune had Rudra's body been found at that time?

Vedika applied sinndoor on Niharika because she felt that lying about your husband's death (of all things) is a disgraceful thing for a wife to do. She didn't mean it as an 'insult' because she thought that Rudra was still alive. Their family values indicate that it is 'horrific' to not apply sinndoor when your husband is still 'alive.'

Originally posted by: bollywoodcrazed

Now, Ant being the cold jerk he is decides to mock Rudra's death with an imposter, further adding salt to Niharika's wounds and inflicting pain and anger in her already broken heart.

That sounds like something Niharika would do/has done.

Edited by passi0n - 19 years ago
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Posted: 19 years ago
#52

Originally posted by: zairasyeda

but ant got no love 4 his family
i am not sure even he had true feeling 4 his wife and daughter

Care to elaborate?

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Posted: 19 years ago
#53

Originally posted by: rose25

It was ant wish to have the most beautiful girl in the world and his mom and found niharika and agreed to have dhruv marry ved IF niharikha will marry ant...what would u do?... the same thing niharikha did protect ur sister and to get her a jeevan saathi(soulmate)

Sorry, how is Niharika having an affair helping to 'protect' Vedika?

I'm sure if most of us found ourselves in Niharika's position, we would give our husband a chance.

Originally posted by: rose25

no mater what niharika did she always protected her sister and loved her sister)

Does that include kicking her out of the house with not a single penny? They also had a feud when Niharika returned to the house with Rudra and Sundari.

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Posted: 19 years ago
#54

Originally posted by: jiankshom

nih has been punished 4 all of her evil things

I really don't think she has. She gained forgiveness and will, no doubt, gain it again.

Ant HAS been punished, but, like Niharika, it wasn't a long-term thing.

Originally posted by: jiankshom

nih will definately take revenge on ant 4 what he did, and I think that he asked 4 it and deserves it

Who is she to decide how Ant is punished, though? It's a case of the pot calling the kettle black, because Niharika has ALSO killed someone's husband and I don't see HER being punished for it. She was actually FORGIVEN.

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Posted: 19 years ago
#55

Originally posted by: rose25

Ant. kicked sundari out when he realise all the wrong things she was doing He didn't want neone to know what she did.

How does that make him wrong?

Originally posted by: rose25

He married kajol because he and his mother was to be blamed for her mother death. He was never punished for that either

He told Kajal the truth though, which is credible. He also felt really guilty about it. True, he wasn't punished for it, but Niharika hasn't been punished for many of her actions, either. They are BOTH only given 'short-term punishment.'

Originally posted by: rose25

He offered to give ved his child but yet sundari stepped in and created conflict. Yeah doesn't take much to twist his arm.

She's his MOTHER; of course he's going to listen to her. He thought she had turned over a new leaf.

Originally posted by: rose25

Ant. tends to act then think, in anger he killed Rudra, (he was never repentant about killing him)

I'm sure he is... he commented that he did it in anger.

Originally posted by: rose25

a woman would care about a woman, but nih. just left them there because they would not agree to her terms, thats pure evil, a woman going throught labour. (leaving a woman in labour is not ok but raping a woman is. Killing a husband is ok as well I guess)

As I have consistently said, Ant raped Niharika as a result of HER behaviour towards HIM. I still don't think that that justifies it, but many people over here do, since they seem to think that Niharika is right in her vendetta against the family. (Post them not believing Rudra's death.)

Niharika has ALSO killed someone's husband and wasn't repentant about it, either.

Originally posted by: rose25

as a married woman i think Nih is righteous in her anger.

Niharika is righteous in her anger, but not in her actions.

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Posted: 19 years ago
#56

Originally posted by: rose25

I meant i am married woman and if someone was to kill my suhaag i would do the same thing.

...You would steal all of your in-laws' money/property and then kick them out? Even though your 'suhaag' loved his family very much?

Wow.

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Posted: 19 years ago
#57

Originally posted by: Yuvika_15

ok nih gt punished, she wz raped n lost her hubby...but ant? wt abt him?? has he eva gt punished 4 his deeds?? no!!!

Ant HAS been punished in the short term.

Niharika hasn't COMPLETELY been punished, either.

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Posted: 19 years ago
#58

Originally posted by: zairasyeda

nih got her punishement. wat about ant. he should get wat he deserve. jail for life

I'm so tired of repeating this!

Ant HAS been punished in the short-term and I don't believe that Niharika has been punished FULLY, either. They BOTH deserve to be put in jail for life.

...But, then, how will Sinndoor be watch-able? 😉

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Posted: 19 years ago
#59

Originally posted by: rose25

Rudra's family should have done something for his funeral. They disrespected him and she took revenge not for herself but for her husband who did everything for that family,

They didn't believe that he was dead and their 'hatred' wasn't them being disrespectful; they simply didn't agree to Parth being kidnapped for the 'better.' (Parth is STILL missing thanks to Rudra, BTW.)

Rudra loved his family and I don't think that he would have wanted Niharika to react in this way.

Originally posted by: rose25

but no matter how much happiness Ant got he was never satisfied.

Maybe that's because his happiness was always destroyed? (Mostly by Niharika.) I don't recall him NOT being happy otherwise.

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Posted: 19 years ago
#60

Originally posted by: rose25

but to not even search for him...cuz ant had told the police to call off the search. All that she did was a long time ago. It's human to make mistakes and some of us are more human than others.

Ant called off the search because HE killed Rudra and knew that the body would be found. How is that the family's fault? They thought that Rudra was still in hiding and Niharika was protecting him. (AS ANY WIFE WOULD!)

I'd hardly call her mistakes 'human.' Only the affair with Rahul, maybe. I don't see 'NORMAL' people do half of the things SHE has done. (In RL.)

And why do you not apply the last 2 sentences to Ant?

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