A Discussion:Nih and Ant - Page 7

Originally posted by: zhasan2

Niharika is the ONLY realistic person in the show...she stands up for her rights..she has a good side and a bad side...nobody would act how Vedika is always being good....Niharika cares a lot about her sister and husband...when she found out about her husbands death and lost support from everyone, including her sister who she always supported...obviously she would do all that she had done..i feel very sorry for Niharika because nobody ever gives her support for anything even if what she says or does is right...Antariksh had done a LOT....he raped NIharika...and if i were her id have killed him by now.😡

I REALLY don't think that half of the things she's done is 'realistic.' I don't see everyday daughter-in-laws plotting, and carrying out, some of the stuff SHE has.

I don't remember her caring where/how her sister would end up when she kicked her out of the house. (With her nephew.)

Niharika has ALSO done a lot. I'm surprised that SHE hasn't been killed by now.

Originally posted by: zairasyeda

the question isn't that nih is bad or not
the question is that in ur opinion does ant deserve some punishment yes or no and
wat his punishement should be
by looking at nih faults. u guys are justifying ant sins which i think are unforgiveable 😡

I think that BOTH of them haven't yet been punished and should be.

A lot of people are also looking at Ant's faults to justify Niharika's. (Even though, ironically, SHE started the rivalry.)

Originally posted by: zhasan2

Niharika does have the right, though, to take revenge on them...for all the times nobody has supported her...how can the family not believe that Rudra is dead😕 Who would lie about their own husband dying...thats something Niharika wouldnt even do😕

The family hates Niharika no matter what...and even if Niharika did the same amount of wrong as Antariksh did, then why is the family behaving with Niharika so harshly and not with Antariksh

I don't think she has the right to take revenge; like I said, she isn't God. An eye for an eye even if the whole world goes blind?

As for the family not believing her, whose fault is that? It's not THEIR fault that Niharika has a track record of lying and being deceitful. Like I've said in a previous comment; had Rudra's body been discovered at that time, I'm sure the family would have supported Niharika. They felt that she was providing Rudra with the perfect hiding place; a coffin!

I don't think that the family HATE her; c'mon, would she have been in that house otherwise? She was actually forgiven for everything she put the family through in the past.

Ant WAS 'turned against' at some point, but his bad deeds were soon forgotten AS NIHARIKA'S WERE. They're behaving 'so harshly' towards her now, because she threw them out and is the cause of their new-found poverty! (They can hardly afford to take care of the babies.)

Originally posted by: rose25

I beleive rape is a lot worse than the murder cause the victim relives it over and over again. whereas if the person is murdered - they are gone.

What about the murder victim's family?

Originally posted by: rags123

I was forced to write today, coz I noticed really disturbing comments. People, all the fiction apart, please be sensible and do not justify a crime like rape. No matter what the circumstances, or actions, no one gets the right to rape a woman to teach her a lesson.

As far as I am aware, no one has suggested such a thing. Could you quote?

Originally posted by: ghetto_qtiee

i feel niharika is betta dan ant. n they r plenty of reason behind dis.. though she betrayed ant in da beginnin but it wasnt her fault.. she didnt marry ant by her own will. she was forced to dis fer her sis.. n later wen nih. tried to b loyal to ant.. (i aint shure wen)he threw her out of da house..

She agreed to marry Ant AT FIRST, though. She wasn't majorly 'forced' to; her mother simply wanted her to stay true to her word.

Even though she married Ant because of her sister, does that make it OK for her to have an affair? She didn't even give Ant a chance... she only did when Rahul's true colours were revealed and she was carrying his illegitimate child. She tried to get close to Ant, so that she could pass the child off as HIS. OF COURSE he was going to throw her out when the truth surfaced... do you really think he'd stand by her and accept? He must be a saint to. The foundation of a marriage is TRUST and Niharika broke that. She crossed her limits.

Originally posted by: ghetto_qtiee

n den he raped her jus cuz she was teasin him..

She wasn't just 'teasing' him; she was out to ruin his life.

Originally posted by: ghetto_qtiee

n den he killed rudra.. datz da biggest evil thing a person cud ever do..

I'm guessing you feel the same way about Niharika and Rudra killing Rahul?

Originally posted by: ghetto_qtiee

rudra got his kid kidnapped for da well being of his family.. n ant.

His intentions were good, but not his action. I mean, look where Parth is NOW!

Originally posted by: ghetto_qtiee

he did many other evil things.. like gettin deir parents divorced so dat viren cud marry sundari n den seein dhruv in jail even though knwin dat its nt his fault. n den insultin nih. in frnt of da family n tryin to prove dat she was liein abt rudra's death

And how is that any worse than the 'evil things' NIHARIKA has done?

He tried getting his parents divorced, because he was brainwashed by Sundari. He later realized his mistake, though.

Niharika has also, as you put it, 'teased' Ant before in front of EVERYONE, so why is HIS 'teasing' of her any worse than HER 'teasing' of him?

Originally posted by: rose25

they did the same amount of bad deeds but niharika is treated more harshly than Ant...Why??? And Rudra and Nih did tell the rudra sister that they killed rahul...so everyone is aware of their crimes...but the same can't be said about ant...

Maybe she is being treated more harshly because she causes more problems? I mean, she involves more people (who are mostly innocent and have been good to her) in her HUGE vendettas. She is also a classic case of the boy who cried wolf. Ant HAS been punished in small doses, but they BOTH haven't been punished enough. They deserve to be jailed.

Admitting your crime doesn't make it any less of a crime. And no, 'everyone' ISN'T aware that they killed Rahul. As for the other crimes, they have been forgiven. How is THAT harsh treatment? Niharika has got away with (roughly) as much as ANT has! And, BTW, Ant has admitted to KAJAL that he killed Rudra.

Originally posted by: rose25

ppl keep on bringing up that vedika was kicked out along with her kid...well she did give her the option to stay

But she didn't stop them when Ved declined her offer and she DID make smug comments to Vedika and attempted to throw them ALL out of their NEW home as well.

Originally posted by: rose25

And when kajol was in labour if the situations were reversed u think ant would have taken nih. to the hospital...? no

So that makes it alright for Niharika to drive away, does it?

Originally posted by: rose25

How can she prove someone is dead if the police don't search for the body and the family tells the cops to not bother... it was a rainy night and all the evidence was washed away...and he was probaly washed away in the river or whatever he fell in...

Just because the family told the police not to bother doesn't mean that a search couldn't take place AT ALL.

His death was a hard thing to prove, but I'm not surprised that the family didn't believe her given her track record and the circumstances. Niharika is a VERY cunning woman; I'm sure she would have found a way.

Originally posted by: zhasan2

yeah...i agree niharika and antariksh both had faults...but niharika actually did most of her mistakes FOR vedika's bhalai....she wanted vedika to be happy, which was why while having a love, she married antariksh....niharika's mistake was a sacrifice for her sister

Was having an affair for Vedika's bhalai? Was seeking revenge on her ex-in law's for Vedika's bhalai? Was killing Rahul for Vedika's bhalai? Was causing friction between Rudra and Ant for Vedika's bhalai? Was throwing her in-laws out of their OWN house for Vedika's bhalai? I could go on and on and on and on... you'll find that most of Niharika's mistakes are NOT because of her love for her sister. That certainly started all of this, but, in a way, it didn't; Niharika should have severed ties with Rahul and gave her husband a chance. That was the sensible thing to do.

Originally posted by: passi0n

Was having an affair for Vedika's bhalai? Was seeking revenge on her ex-in law's for Vedika's bhalai? Was killing Rahul for Vedika's bhalai? Was causing friction between Rudra and Ant for Vedika's bhalai? Was throwing her in-laws out of their OWN house for Vedika's bhalai? I could go on and on and on and on... you'll find that most of Niharika's mistakes are NOT because of her love for her sister. That certainly started all of this, but, in a way, it didn't; Niharika should have severed ties with Rahul and gave her husband a chance. That was the sensible thing to do.

But she was in love with Rahul first...but FOR Vedika, she married Antariksh even though she was in love....and i know keeping her relationship with Rahul after marriage was a mistake of hers but its not really her fault that she couldnt forget him...although i admit it was her mistake..and Niharika did try giving Antariksh a chance but at that time he decided he would not forgive her and he decided to throw her out...i agree Niharika did take some wrong steps but her husband was killed by his brother, and nobody would even believe his death, she has a reason to seek revenge on the family..and Vedika, who Niharika always supported, she's not even believing her

Originally posted by: zhasan2

But she was in love with Rahul first...but FOR Vedika, she married Antariksh even though she was in love....and i know keeping her relationship with Rahul after marriage was a mistake of hers but its not really her fault that she couldnt forget him...although i admit it was her mistake..and Niharika did try giving Antariksh a chance but at that time he decided he would not forgive her and he decided to throw her out...i agree Niharika did take some wrong steps but her husband was killed by his brother, and nobody would even believe his death, she has a reason to seek revenge on the family..and Vedika, who Niharika always supported, she's not even believing her

I don't know what part of the show you are watching. but after getting pregnant by sleeping with her X-Boyfriend while married to another person hardly allows her to be in a position to give ant a chance. it should be the other way around - that is whether ant gives her a chance after finding out her relation with rahul (and ant didn't give her a chance which in my opinion was the correct decision)

moreover, actually why are you even saying that nih was giving ant a chance before she was thrown out? she was frieking pregnant with rahul's kid and simply wanted to cover that up by sleeping with ant so that when every1 found out that she was pregnant, they would assume that it was ant's kid and not some1 else's kid, (let me know if I'm wrong on this because this is what I remember from watching that part of the show). That is one hell of a DECEIT and you call that giving a chance to ant? what has the world come down to? 😆