Veer will just move on how - Page 6

Originally posted by: Sabhayata

Sweetz come on yaar forget about Veer and this serial if in real life some one has been in a relationship for a year and they have been engaged and are about to get married and then just one day without any warning that relationship ends , the person is supposed to get over it within 3 weeks. Is that expectation is real life as well? If yes then I would just say I have very different expectation from humans. For me it’s impossible for any one to get over a one year relationship that was about to get converted into marriage in 3 weeks. Absolutely impossible. A one year relationship will have so many so many memories, dreams , happy moments and sad moments , no one can get over it in 3 weeks. Memories are the things that hurt the most.I am going through a mini heartbreak if my own. Nothing compared to Veer as in my engagement didn’t break or sone thing like that but some other kind and it’s been 1 month and I still haven’t moved on. I try every day but every time some memory comes and I am back to square one. Yes one should move on , even I know I should move on and yes in context of the serial Veer should to but all this takes time . When something you love goes away from your life it takes time to heal and move on. So no 3 weeks are nothing. The only thing is Veer should deal with it on his own and not hurt or involve Mishti.

Hope you feel better soon, take all the time you need to heal! :)

Even an acquaintance was telling me about a previous incident in her life where her family was in talks with another for an arranged marriage setup. She had interacted with the guy and his family and they decided to get engaged. However, soon after this was decided the guy’s family decided to back out of it and the girl told me that ahe cried for weeks and weeks about it and was absolutely shattered at how they could they do it to her.

The situation here was elevated- they were in a relationship, were somewhat physically intimate, had gotten engaged and were due to marry in a month. Completely justified that it will take someone a while to get over that so expecting him to be all hunky-dory is not realistic.

I would like to reiterate that he is completely not justified for this revenge drama and Mishti is 1000% justified for breaking up with him. I have my own issues with Mishaan, but Mishti breaking up was the best decision she could have made.

Originally posted by: Sabhayata

People should not be judged for breaking engagements I agree. If they are not ready to get married better break up. I actually respect people who are honest enough to breakup. But that doesn’t mean that the person who got his heart broken should get judged. It’s like you can break the heart and you won’t be judged but if you cry for long for getting your heart broken then of you are judged. You have cried for 3 weeks now don’t cry any more.😆. What is this?

Silsila 2 is all about time schedules. Now it is time to celebrate our new found love, later on we will feel guilty and sad. Three weeks ho gaya, ab move on karo. This one quality even I want. Apne feelings on/off mode pe.

Originally posted by: nushy1995

The case is not as simple as it seems. I don’t know why people and more importantly TV writers have this misconception that by making one negative you can justify another’s wrongdoing.

Veer’s family is cheap – I completely agree with it.

The way Veer is handling his situation is wrong – I agree.

Arnav has been real mature about his heartbreak – No doubt about it.

Veer deserves a slap when he hurls abuse at Mishti (As per the promo) – Absolutely

But one thing some people conveniently forget is that MishAan aren’t really gems either.

Yes, the way Ruhann treats Mishti – every girl deserves it and Mishti had every right to choose what’s best for her.

But her engagement with Veer, it wasn’t an arranged one and she has practically wasted Veer’s one year to realize her feelings and that too when they were about to get married.

Women face the worst of it when a relation is broken but that doesn’t mean men don’t face anything. Veer comes from an upper class family and yet he had to listen to BS like there must have been some fault with him or whether he is gay or not – are these things really light?

Arnav’s heart has been broken but Pari had never led him to believe anything. She had always been vocal about her feelings that she respects him and loves him but only as a friend. In her over-enthusiasm she told him about Ruhaan and that was criticized, rightfully. Then leading someone to believe that I am so in love with you and then telling him that hamare beechmein kabhi kuch tha hi nahi – how justified is that???

One should remember, it wasn’t a casual breakup. They were about to get married and Veer really loved Mishti. So three weeks is more than enough for him to snap out of it?

In the long run it's best for MishVeer. But it's not as easy or trivial as many think because Veer had no clue about it, they didn't fight, Mishti showed no inclination toward anyone and then BAM!!! tumse shaadi nahi kar sakti. Which person in real world would take that easily????

Veer is wrong but that doesn’t make MishAan better. They are happy together, they understand each other and that’s great. But they have practically started their world on the destruction of someone else’s dream who used to be very close to them. The situation and gender is different but it’s same as Mauli crying alone at her room while her so call best friend consummating with her husband.

And one thing that I keep reading about that Veer is controlling and everything, isn’t Mishti the same? Even she is a control freak but when Ruhaan puts up with it, it is supposed to be cute but when Mishti is in the picture it is Veer’s chauvinism?

And even if he is, which the writer has been portraying lately, why did Mishti agree to it? On one hand it makes her a very poor judge of people’s character. And if she really planned to live her life with a pseudo-gentleman to avoid her heartache, then that would make her exactly what Veer is alleging her to be. Obviously she is not a gold-digger but definitely a planner who chose the perfect option for her irrespective of how it would affect others.

My purpose is not to throw mud at Mishti/Mishaan and defend Veer’s horrendous works.

Any crime that is committed against a woman will always be termed as criminal offense and if Veer really is the kidnapper, he deserves the strictest punishment.

But a sheep in disguise/hamara Mishtu bach gayi – Mishti herself isn’t as innocent as the writer/some fans want her to be.

You express your views very nicely.. So calmly and sensibly.. 👍 I try but fail to do that 😓

Off topic: 'Gem' and 'Misthu' though used initially with good intentions have been so overused, it makes me see red now.

Originally posted by: Sabhayata

Sweetz come on yaar forget about Veer and this serial if in real life some one has been in a relationship for a year and they have been engaged and are about to get married and then just one day without any warning that relationship ends , the person is supposed to get over it within 3 weeks. Is that expectation is real life as well? If yes then I would just say I have very different expectation from humans. For me it’s impossible for any one to get over a one year relationship that was about to get converted into marriage in 3 weeks. Absolutely impossible. A one year relationship will have so many so many memories, dreams , happy moments and sad moments , no one can get over it in 3 weeks. Memories are the things that hurt the most.I am going through a mini heartbreak if my own. Nothing compared to Veer as in my engagement didn’t break or sone thing like that but some other kind and it’s been 1 month and I still haven’t moved on. I try every day but every time some memory comes and I am back to square one. Yes one should move on , even I know I should move on and yes in context of the serial Veer should to but all this takes time . When something you love goes away from your life it takes time to heal and move on. So no 3 weeks are nothing. The only thing is Veer should deal with it on his own and not hurt or involve Mishti.

I hope you have all the strength to come over whatever happened with you. I'm sorry about that. For a few cases, 3 weeks is a very less time, but with the fast moving world, 3 weeks looks like a lot of time. I'll PM you about what i am talking about since i dont want to talk about it here. But then agree on the part that Veer should deal with it on his own and not hurt anyone, not only Mishti.

Originally posted by: PranPriye

You express your views very nicely.. So calmly and sensibly.. 👍 I try but fail to do that 😓

Off topic: 'Gem' and 'Misthu' though used initially with good intentions have been so overused, it makes me see red now.

Agree 1000 times over with your off topic point. 😅

Veer is hurt because his fiancé broke up with him. But is he heartbroken? I have been only hearing the word beizzati in the last few days from him.He thinks he and his family have been insulted because of the marriage breaking off.

Where is the broken heart exactly?

Originally posted by: Heisenberg23

Hope you feel better soon, take all the time you need to heal! :)

Even an acquaintance was telling me about a previous incident in her life where her family was in talks with another for an arranged marriage setup. She had interacted with the guy and his family and they decided to get engaged. However, soon after this was decided the guy’s family decided to back out of it and the girl told me that ahe cried for weeks and weeks about it and was absolutely shattered at how they could they do it to her.

The situation here was elevated- they were in a relationship, were somewhat physically intimate, had gotten engaged and were due to marry in a month. Completely justified that it will take someone a while to get over that so expecting him to be all hunky-dory is not realistic.

I would like to reiterate that he is completely not justified for this revenge drama and Mishti is 1000% justified for breaking up with him. I have my own issues with Mishaan, but Mishti breaking up was the best decision she could have made.

@bold, I agree with you. I agree everyone has their own pov. I also don't mind if someone doesn't like MisHaan like you have issues with them. It's perfectly alright.

Believe me, I would have really understood if veer would have done something out of anger when Mishti broke up with him. I would have understood if he insulted her, called her a gold digger or behaved quite rudely(Though, I don't like him) I really would have understood. Bcz, when someone breaks your heart, obviously it hurts. If I didn't understand him, it would be hypocritical of me(or biased just bcz I love MisHan)

The problem I have here is, I feel more than heart break, his ego is hurt and he is planning & plotting against Mishti for insulting him( I don't know how that was an insult) Even if he considered breakup as insult, it's fine by me. But, revenge bcz of that? In the spur of moment, I understand but not like this.

I don't expect him to get over Mishti just in few weeks. It takes years for some people to get over with...I only meant, there was no need of this planning & plotting.

He could be angry with Mishti or even rude. It's okay! Bcz, she broke his heart suddenly.

Also, instead of spying on her, he could have listened to her reasoning about the break up.

Originally posted by: PranPriye

You express your views very nicely.. So calmly and sensibly.. 👍 I try but fail to do that 😓

Off topic: 'Gem' and 'Misthu' though used initially with good intentions have been so overused, it makes me see red now.

Me too 🤗

Originally posted by: poiu123

Veer is hurt because his fiancé broke up with him. But is he heartbroken? I have been only hearing the word beizzati in the last few days from him.He thinks he and his family have been insulted because of the marriage breaking off.

Where is the broken heart exactly?

Whether he is feeling heartbroken or humiliated, the clear fact is that he is hurt and he is allowed to feel depressed/ angry about it. As I and many others on this thread mentioned, we don’t validate his petty revenge drama at all. However to question why he is hurt about the breakup and has not moved on yet is not justified, imo.

Originally posted by: poiu123

Veer is hurt because his fiancé broke up with him. But is he heartbroken? I have been only hearing the word beizzati in the last few days from him.He thinks he and his family have been insulted because of the marriage breaking off.

Where is the broken heart exactly?

And I dont get whats so wrong about him feeling humiliated. Anyone, including me, would feel pretty humiliated and would hate the person if someone broke off with them a month before their wedding. Weddings involve extended families and friends as well so to make that commitment and then suddenly break it so close to the wedding will no doubt be pretty humiliating. Can’t be compared to a normal breakup really.

Yet again (so people don’t jump on me), breaking up was the best decision Mishti could have made at that point- never agreeing to marry him would have been better. But that does not mean that the incident was not humiliating for Veer.