Episode Discussion Thread 2 - Page 102

Cvs r answering my all those questions which I have ask what if mishty come to know that pari love ruhaan. Many days back .Will she talk to ruhaan ? Will she talk about marriage?

Now cvs giving answer to my question. Mishty is going to talk to ruhaan. Now waiting for ruhaan answer

Hope ruhaan straight refuse to mishty request

Originally posted by: poiu123

That’s not true actually. She is placing Pari’s feelings over and above Ruhaans . Even in today’s episode Mishti is guilty of hurting Ruhaan . One does not feel sorry or bad for toys right?

If Mishti had only backed out that would've proved her to be a good sister( I would have done the same if at her place) but here she's pushing her further into delusion and she not considering Ruhaan's feelings and saying she'll go for any length to give Pari her love, that indeed proves she's objectifying Ruhaan. But looking at precap things can change for good.

Originally posted by: Indira1211

yes she’s been crying for herself and ruhaan that they can’t have the life they planned together...but at the moment she’s putting her sisters happiness above everyone else’s....without comprehending that ruhaan can’t be forced to love pari nor that pari can be happy with ruhaan when he loves someone else..I think when her parents died she tended to look at pari and ansh with a mother’s eyes..so she just can’t see them sad and unhappy..so at the moment she’s blind to everything but trying to not let pari be unhappy.

So how will pari be happy with a guy who doesn't love her 🤔🤔

Again is he robot who can switch on and off his emotions ..?that is what she think of Ruhan that he can start loving pari ?

Originally posted by: Haalim

If Mishti had only backed out that would've proved her to be a good sister( I would have done the same if at her place) but here she's pushing her further into delusion and she not considering Ruhaan's feelings and saying she'll go for any length to give Pari her love, that indeed proves she's objectifying Ruhaan. But looking at precap things can change for good.

Agree noone is saying she should be happy ,she should have called off relationship...and not done what is she doing

Originally posted by: khatimeethi

If one give their fav toy or duppata they do feel bad so she is feeling same way for Ruhan ...

So yeah she is treating Ruhan as toy ...

U can feel otherwise so can other who feel he is being treated as toy and dirt ...

Yes off course people can feel the way they want to. I don’t have to agree to it. For me Mishti is being wrong by thinking she can create situations or influence Ruhaan to love Pari. Love cannot be forced and Mishti knows it too at the back of her mind. Hence she stopped Dadi from talking to Ruhaan about marriage. She stopped Pari from confessing her love . Today she had a monologue that Ruhaan will be angry when he gets to what she says. In all cases she knew Ruhaan would refuse. She is aware of Ruhaans feelings. People don’t consider so much about a dupatta or a toy.

At the same time she thinks she has a chance of giving Pari her love and since she prioritises Pari s feelings over Ruhaans , she is still giving it a try. Mishti herself knows she is wrong , so I don’t have to prove or deny anything. But she accepts she is wrong and is ready to be wrong if she can somehow manage to give Pari her happiness.

Originally posted by: poiu123

Yes off course people can feel the way they want to. I don’t have to agree to it. For me Mishti is being wrong by thinking she can create situations or influence Ruhaan to love Pari. Love cannot be forced and Mishti knows it too at the back of her mind. Hence she stopped Dadi from talking to Ruhaan about marriage. She stopped Pari from confessing her love . Today she had a monologue that Ruhaan will be angry when he gets to what she says. In all cases she knew Ruhaan would refuse. She is aware of Ruhaans feelings. People don’t consider so much about a dupatta or a toy.

At the same time she thinks she has a chance of giving Pari her love and since she prioritises Pari s feelings over Ruhaans , she is still giving it a try. Mishti herself knows she is wrong , so I don’t have to prove or deny anything. But she accepts she is wrong and is ready to be wrong if she can somehow manage to give Pari her happiness.

How can she give pari happiness ..by making her live a life of lie ?

By crushing Ruhan and his soul?

How is chance not gonna hurt and crush guy who loved her with all his heart ?..why is she not thinking if he is broken and hurt how will he love pari ...?

How does it prove her love for sister ? Whom she is pushing to delusional level of he loving her every day ?

Ek tarafaa pyar mein shaadi karane se kya fayada. Na ruhaan happy rahega pari se marriage karke aur na pari khush rahegi is marriage

Aise marriage mein to ruhaan aur pari ko suffocation hoga. Ki jabardasti shaadi ka rishta ka nibhana hai just to keep other happy

Mishty instantly taking decisions but this decision is neither good for pari nor for ruhaan

Mishty ji if u really care about pari that then take time and please explain to her nicely why u can't marry ruhaan if u will marry to ruhaan then neither u can be happy nor ruhaan can be happy . I don't want to c unhappy in loveless marriage that is why I don't want ruhaan to get marry with u

Originally posted by: khatimeethi

How can she give pari happiness ..by making her live a life of lie ?

By crushing Ruhan and his soul?

How is chance not gonna hurt and crush guy who loved her with all his heart ?..why is she not thinking if he is broken and hurt how will he love pari ...?

How does it prove her love for sister ? Whom she is pushing to delusional level of he loving her every day ?

The way other people in this world who are not in love before marriage get married. All don’t have love marriages in India. There are cases when the girl/ boy love someone else, but their parents are not in favour , some let go of their love and marry someone of their parents choice so as to not to hurt their parents , others elope and get married . So do all these marriages fail? No.Are all of them living a life of lie? No. I know many such successful marriages. Everything is not black and white in life.

Mishti wants Pari to be happy and is making an attempt to try if Pari can get her love. She is disregarding her own feelings for this. She is not trying to prove her own love for Pari. I don’t think she needs to do that.

Also as of now Mishti has not even spoken to Ruhaan about what she wants or what she is going to do.

What Mishti is doing is wrong for me, but she thinks it’s the only way for her.

Originally posted by: poiu123

The way other people in this world who are not in love before marriage get married. All don’t have love marriages in India. There are cases when the girl/ boy love someone else, but their parents are not in favour , some let go of their love and marry someone of their parents choice so as to not to hurt their parents , others elope and get married . So do all these marriages fail? No.Are all of them living a life of lie? No. I know many such successful marriages. Everything is not black and white in life.

Mishti wants Pari to be happy and is making an attempt to try if Pari can get her love. She is disregarding her own feelings for this. She is not trying to prove her own love for Pari. I don’t think she needs to do that.

Also as of now Mishti has not even spoken to Ruhaan about what she wants or what she is going to do.

What Mishti is doing is wrong for me, but she thinks it’s the only way for her.

No ppl dont get married in same family they were crushed and thrown under bus ..exactly same way what stop mishti from thinking that Ruhan might hate entire family and will go away..what stops her from.thinking that marriage might fail like her parents?

How can Ruhan love pari after he loved mishti .

What if marriage fail and ruhaan leaves just like how u are mentioning scenario there are gazzalion.other scenario..

So why did she not make attempt to show pari light ? And throw her in darkness ..it is same right she could have told her truth.

Oh she hasn't spoken but she has same idea to get pari her love ? How is it purchased from market ?

So she isnt trying to prove her love than what is she trying yo.do.?

Why is she being so.incosiderate to Ruhan who called her his world ,and reason why he lives ?..

Also so why did mishti break with veer she could have fallen in love with him too...she could have let Ruhan go then ..why did she stop him ,then ?

Why did u want her to break up.with veer shouldn't she and veer have had a happy life too.