Hamare Paas Rahe Hamare Sath Rahe (Reminder Note pg. 11) - Page 14

Originally posted by: vidhi.universe

Bold...

So what if she got her popsie. That time she was kid. Everyone saying in forum she always wanted only her popsie and got that.

But dude as time progress everyone bcoms muture , our understanding level increases same happens in Misti case.

There is so many times it happens with us ,we don't understand the things at 1st time BT after sometime, months, years we understands what was the meaning of that .

Same...

When Mishti knows that till 3 yrs her mom was only person to who was with her . Since pregnancy to 1st 5-7 yrs of life of a woman how critical that time she was not aware.

BT now she understands all this.

Yes , she loved her popsie most.

BT at the same time it's so painful think when you know that your biological father never wanted u...

Don't know why some forum members are not ready to accept this true . For them rejection by parents is normal. Like really?? U will definitely understand this when your parents abandon you for no reason.(which should never happen with anyone)

Originally posted by: chicksoup

Mishti was, is and will forever be considered the villain in Maunal love story. It is only human psychology to root for the person who supported your favorite couple and feel betrayed by the character who was against that couple. Many times we don't even realise how our understanding gets blinded by certain notions.

There was that point in Mauhaan love story where I felt too that Mishti betrayed me and Mauhaan big time when she agreed to Dida's idea of Maunal. Even her ' Popsie will be hurt'statement didn't make me happy.

If Maunal had happened, I wouldn't have forgiven Mishti- I would feel she betrayed Ishaan though he was great about it.

If Mishti had rooted for Maunal, we would definitely not be seeing these opinions.

It is really a subconscious thing.

If Maunal had happened with Mishti's

blessings, Mauhaan fans would be the one sitting and judging every minute action of Mishti's . It is a natural reaction, I guess.

Originally posted by: surabhi01

but how did mauli come to know that kunal become weak due to rain dance. I don't think mauli have any idea that kunal memerzed seeing drench and dancing nandini

Originally posted by: Angelicdiya

U r right. I made post on this . But don't you think it's wrong?

Even I hate Kunan but never hated Pari. Yes I used to dislike Kid pari bcoz she used to behave like Dadi ( which was not her fault, writers should be blamed). But now I don't dislike her. Yes I like Misti more bcoz I can connect with her more, but that doesn't mean I will bash Pari in every post. I love MisRi bond .

Originally posted by: chicksoup

True.

Pari is okay for me too, especially the grown up Pari, even though she us quite immature and insecure. There is a charm to her as much as there is to Mishti. Both have their pluses and minuses, they are just normal human beings. I love the sibling bond. That is also probably because things went the way I wanted it- Mauhaan with Mishti and Kunal with Pari. I don't have any complaints at all. It is not the same situation when you are on the other side of the fence...

For that matter, even Radhika was a big Mauhaan fan, I wonder if she gets bashed too.

Nothing can change the fact that Kunal loved Nandini and even shouted at Mauli in his ML phase when he thought Mauli played a pregnancy drama to keep him away from his one and only true love...this was when he was still thinking he was happily married to Mauli and was accusing her of EMA. Even then, his feelings for Nandini came crystal clear, though his memory was not at its best. Which self respecting woman would want to go back to a guy like that?

Mishti made the right choice for her mother unknowingly, and she didn't even demand towards the end. It was the natural culmination of an EMA.

Originally posted by: FruitToasty

I don't understand one thing.

When everyone tries to explain Mishti's side of the story, they write about Kunal's EMA and Mauli's pain. I can understand this and I agree with this.

But why none is explaining the real question, why doesn't Mishti dislike Kunal for it? Kunal abandoned Mishti and her mother when she was pregnant with her, then why Mishti calls him papa or dad even though she had a perfectly good popsie, that's my point. Just observe reaction of people towards Kunal in this forum only, people who are writing this about Kunal to explain Mishti's pain, are not explaining why isn't Mishti feeling what they are trying to say? Mishti's reaction towards Kunal and her words about Mauli's pain are contradictory.

The problem here is that people discard different opinions on Mishti, thinking that we are saying this because Mishti chose Ishaan, which is incorrect because I vaguely remember Mishti was willing to live with Kunal, it was Mauli who chose Ishaan not Mishti and I also remember Mauhan fans calling Mishti snake after that particular scene, you won't see us doing that.

Originally posted by: chicksoup

What is so confusing about that?

Look at Boney Kapoor's family. Up till the time the Sreedevi died, his first wife's children weren't close to him

They felt betrayed. They saw their dad in pain and reconciled. That doesn't mean they have forgotten the pain their mother went through. They are one big happy family now, but they will always remember their mother's trauma and not accuse the half siblings. It is a fact from real life.

Mishti loves and respects the human being and father Kunal was, but detests the husband he was. It is as simple as that.