Need a Mature and Honest approach towards Misthi - Page 2

Kunal is handling Pari's demands for chocolates and junk food.. How's that even remotely similar to handling Mishti, who got to know that she was living a lie?

Mishti had accepted Ishaan as her father, the situation is very complicated for her, I don't think she even knows what she should think, her first reaction is anger...

When a child of Mishti's age is angry about such a huge thing, Mauli should give her some time, some time to understand her own feelings, if I think about it from a child's perspective, her whole world has changed, it's not as small as a child demanding chocolate...

Even Mauli and Kunal's condition is different..

Kunal was in a happy marriage, his wife died loving him and their daughter, they were happy, he can handle Pari better because there is no turnpike of emotions. Nandini didn't die in a day, so he came to a point where he understood that he can't do anything about it..

Mauli was in a happy marriage, Kunal left her when she was 3 months pregnant, that tells you they never had any problems in their relationship, it was a sexually active relationship and out of the blue Kunal slept with Nandini within month of meeting her, how is that Mauli's fault?

The thing is that she herself doesn't know the reason Kunal left her, Kunal never gave her a closure, what can she tell Mishti, when she does not know anything?


Why should she tell Mishti the truth where "Kunal loves her"?
But we have to understand Mishti's mental condition right now..there are two possibilities

1 Mishti fearing that Ishaan will leave her - If we are understanding that kunal loves Pari more than Mishti and it's natural then why don't we understand that Mishti loves Ishaan too? She has spent years of her life with him, she is connected to him as much as she is connected to anyone in her family or more, he has been there for her.
So telling her that kunal loves her will increase her fear of losing Ishaan

2 Mishti is feeling rejected - In this situation, it won't be wrong to tell her that Kunal loves her but how will Mauli explain his absence?

Are we really expecting Mauli to put her relationship with Mishti in jeopardy for Kunal's sake?

Chalo, they tell Mishti that kunal loves her and Mauli takes the blame of separating her from Kunal, so now Mishti does not like Mauli and she can't live with her father because for his father Kunal Pari is a priority and Pari can't share her buddy.. One more rejection for Mishti..

What exactly can Mauli tell her in this situation?
I feel Mishti should be given the time, I don't think Mauli should lie, just tell her the truth.. But all in good time

I agree with people here mauli is just getting on the nerves with her nataunki with pari and kunal.
Her first priority is mishti not giving love to pari. Hugging and kissing pari lady you did the same thing with her mom result you were kicked arguement May be what has to happen will happen but you should learn your lesson. Now her mahanta towards pari will harm her daughter but no she has to do mahanta.
If she really loves kunal let her go and beg him to marry her leave ishan. Mauli needs another kick by father and daughter to learn her lesson. She should learn from kunal to set priorities he can do anything hurt abuse anyone for Nandini and pari. Paris dictate no siblings kunal is no way near mishti.
On the other hand kunal has to teach pari to stay within limits and stop being decision taker
Oh mauli aunty is mama s friend chalo unke pass mujhe mauli aunty de Milan hein audacity is too
Much if I would have been mauli aunty I would have given a jhapar and send her back. Kunal never tells pari that it is wrong to burge into peoples house. He can say that as pari does not want to share buddy mishti also does not want to share mama keep away from her. Or kunal thinks whatever her daughter wants is her right.
Both parents have to stand up for their kids or very soon pari will have priority of mauli and kunal than mishti. This girl is too pushy she can do acts to get all of mauli aunty being innocent the genes are there in the blood. She had been living without mishti she can.

Originally posted by: IDO20

I agree with people here mauli is just getting on the nerves with her nataunki with pari and kunal.
Her first priority is mishti not giving love to pari. Hugging and kissing pari lady you did the same thing with her mom result you were kicked arguement May be what has to happen will happen but you should learn your lesson. Now her mahanta towards pari will harm her daughter but no she has to do mahanta.
If she really loves kunal let her go and beg him to marry her leave ishan. Mauli needs another kick by father and daughter to learn her lesson. She should learn from kunal to set priorities he can do anything hurt abuse anyone for Nandini and pari. Paris dictate no siblings kunal is no way near mishti.
On the other hand kunal has to teach pari to stay within limits and stop being decision taker
Oh mauli aunty is mama s friend chalo unke pass mujhe mauli aunty de Milan hein audacity is too
Much if I would have been mauli aunty I would have given a jhapar and send her back. Kunal never tells pari that it is wrong to burge into peoples house. He can say that as pari does not want to share buddy mishti also does not want to share mama keep away from her. Or kunal thinks whatever her daughter wants is her right.
Both parents have to stand up for their kids or very soon pari will have priority of mauli and kunal than mishti. This girl is too pushy she can do acts to get all of mauli aunty being innocent the genes are there in the blood. She had been living without mishti she can.

Mauli is a compassionate woman, her priority is Mishti only that's the reason even after knowing about content of pagal aurat's CD, she is suggesting that they don't meet, that clearly states that her priority is Mishti..
She hugged Pari in an emotional moment, Pari's mother is dead, the child is crying for a her mother, even if Mauli cannot give her mother's love for a lifetime, she can at least hug her..thats what she did.

But I don't want Mauli to love Pari

Originally posted by: FruitToasty

Mauli is a compassionate woman, her priority is Mishti only that's the reason even after knowing about content of pagal aurat's CD, she is suggesting that they don't meet, that clearly states that her priority is Mishti..
She hugged Pari in an emotional moment, Pari's mother is dead, the child is crying for a her mother, even if Mauli cannot give her mother's love for a lifetime, she can at least hug her..thats what she did.

But I don't want Mauli to love Pari

Let's see but why ishan has to suggest why can't she take this call herself. Hope she keeps her stand. Looking at dr cheaters expression it felt oh my god how can I stop pari from coming to you guys and upbringing pari is quite adamant and selfish child I do not have a problem with that each child is different

Originally posted by: IDO20

I agree with people here mauli is just getting on the nerves with her nataunki with pari and kunal.
Her first priority is mishti not giving love to pari. Hugging and kissing pari lady you did the same thing with her mom result you were kicked arguement May be what has to happen will happen but you should learn your lesson. Now her mahanta towards pari will harm her daughter but no she has to do mahanta.
If she really loves kunal let her go and beg him to marry her leave ishan. Mauli needs another kick by father and daughter to learn her lesson. She should learn from kunal to set priorities he can do anything hurt abuse anyone for Nandini and pari. Paris dictate no siblings kunal is no way near mishti.
On the other hand kunal has to teach pari to stay within limits and stop being decision taker
Oh mauli aunty is mama s friend chalo unke pass mujhe mauli aunty de Milan hein audacity is too
Much if I would have been mauli aunty I would have given a jhapar and send her back. Kunal never tells pari that it is wrong to burge into peoples house. He can say that as pari does not want to share buddy mishti also does not want to share mama keep away from her. Or kunal thinks whatever her daughter wants is her right.
Both parents have to stand up for their kids or very soon pari will have priority of mauli and kunal than mishti. This girl is too pushy she can do acts to get all of mauli aunty being innocent the genes are there in the blood. She had been living without mishti she can.