Not sure how to feel about Mauli

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Posted: 6 years ago
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I loved Mauli for not telling Kunal all these years that he has a daughter. He didn't deserve to know he had a daughter. It's great to watch him want his daughter now and not have her. But after yesterday's episode I feel like she should handle this situation slightly differently. As much as I want Kunal to suffer, Mishti is suffering more.
In all the years since their breakup Mauli hasn't healed from Kunal's rejection. Ishaan is available, Ishaan can be everything Kunal was and more but she still can't just forget the rejection. How is Mishti, a little child supposed to move on or heal after finding out that her father didn't want her. Mauli was right until the reveal. I feel she was right in hiding the fact that Kunal didn't want Mishti. But I think Mauli knows in present time Kunal does want his daughter and he does love his daughter. Even if she doesn't believe him she suspects it. So when Mishti specifically says that her father doesn't love her, Mauli shouldn't try to keep her away from Kunal and make the misunderstanding worse. Right now Mishti's emotional being, her emotional security should be more important than punishing Kunal. Keeping them apart won't fix things. She won't forget her father abandoned her just because he is not in front of her and she has a replacement Papa. Mauli should let Mishti and Kunal bond so Mishti can feel that she is indeed loved and wanted. She should clear her daughter's misunderstanding, not deepen it by letting her believe even after finding out her father still easily walked away from her. Mishti's anger won't die just because she no longer sees Pari or Kunal. The truth will always haunt her and hurt her unless it turns into something good. Even if Mauli is not sure about anything and she is too scared to make any real move because of what it would mean for Mishti, she should at least tell her daughter that her father does claim to love her and that her father does want her.


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FruitToasty thumbnail
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Gajra is messing with Mauli now
She is practically trying to erase the EMA part and the part where Kunal accused Mauli of lying. The whole blame is shifting to Mauli so Kunal can become a positive character.
She does not understand that to make Kunal positive she doesn't have to erase his past, it's not possible, she has to correct it.
Kunal and Nandini never apologize, not once for cheating on Mauli, not once Kunal has apologized to Mauli for doubting her pregnancy because this writer thinks apology makes Kunal wrong. I am really not understanding anything that is going on in the show
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Posted: 6 years ago
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thats what i have been saying too..let the father-daughter bond...let the MU to be cleared so that mishti's childhood is not affected...the kid thinks her father hates her but thats not the truth...kunal loves her...the love needs to be felt snd express...let them bond thsn stay apart...

everyone demands a apology from kunal..that will not happen till he falls in love with mauli...there is more to the story...someday he will apologise
Edited by Mages - 6 years ago
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: Mages

thats what i have been saying too..let the father-daughter bond...let the MU to be cleared so that mishti's childhood is not affected...the kid thinks her father hates her but thats not the truth...kunal loves her...the love needs to be felt snd express...let them bond thsn stay apart...


everyone demands a apology from kunal..that will not happen till he falls in love with mauli...there is more to the story...someday he will apologise



You don't have to love people to apologize for your mistakes, I apologize to n numbers of people when I am wrong.
Today Radhika said - Kunal bichare ki kya galti thi?

It means they are trying to erase the part where he accused Mauli from the story, the story is moving forward from a point where Kunal genuinely asked Mauli and Mauli lied for no apparent reason, this is whitewashing that I dislike.
Writer is showing Mauli as an extremely incompetent mother, mind you, Mauli is a character herself who doesn't hate Nandini or Kunal but she doesn't have problems with a little child hating people.

Kunal and Mishti bond but how? Again Mauli takes the blame? Kunal loves Mishti but he did leave them and now they are making it Mauli's fault as if Kunal was never wrong, but the fact is that kunal never wanted a child with Mauli.

And if you have noticed, Kunal doesn't love Mauli, if that was the case, CD would have been an amazing way to start this but no, divine love can't be wrong, Kunal can't love Mauli
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Posted: 6 years ago
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And how did Kunal suddenly become bechare Kunal'?? He is the root of all the problems. He never wanted that child. Radhika suddenly has this selective memory when it comes to the wrongs that Kunal has done
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Posted: 6 years ago
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last night we were discussing this topic in mauli AT
cut copy paste from there

i dont know if it is right..
as in, it was no misunderstanding u see.
what will he tell mishti?? what will be his answer to her questions like why did he left her mother? why did he left mishti??
can kunal really have the guts to face mishti??
i think he is right when he decided not to tell all this to mishti

coming back to ur post.. i genuinely feel bad for mishti. she feels rejected.. she must be wondering why her father doesnt love her.. is she any less adorable than pari? even if kunal tells her that he loves her then also she wont believe him.. for kids action speaks more than words..
if they really want to mend her broken heart then kunal has to won her heart by doing something special for her.. by special i dont mean gifting her toys or chocolates. but something that touches her heart and makes her believe that he doesnt love her any less than pari..

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: prettywomaniya

last night we were discussing this topic in mauli AT

cut copy paste from there

i dont know if it is right..
as in, it was no misunderstanding u see.
what will he tell mishti?? what will be his answer to her questions like why did he left her mother? why did he left mishti??
can kunal really have the guts to face mishti??
i think he is right when he decided not to tell all this to mishti

coming back to ur post.. i genuinely feel bad for mishti. she feels rejected.. she must be wondering why her father doesnt love her.. is she any less adorable than pari? even if kunal tells her that he loves her then also she wont believe him.. for kids action speaks more than words..
if they really want to mend her broken heart then kunal has to won her heart by doing something special for her.. by special i dont mean gifting her toys or chocolates. but something that touches her heart and makes her believe that he doesnt love her any less than pari..


@bold...thats what going to happen...some near life and death situation...
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Why shud mauli let mishti bond with kunal?
If I was Mauli, I did hv told Mishti - Beta aisa nahi hai ki Kunal aapse pyar nahi karte. Lekin jab aap mumma ke pet mein thay, tab kunal left me and married my best friend. Kunal aur pari ki mumma ne mere saath bhaut bura kiya lekin Isme pari ki koi galti nahi hai
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Posted: 6 years ago
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I do not quite agree. How will Mauli tell Mishti that now her father loves and wants her. Mishti s question remains why he left her mom and why Pari is with him and not her?
How will the child understand? She will be more confused. And if Mauli tells Mishti that her papa did wrong to his mom that's even worse for her to know. It's best they are away and Mauli tells Mishti the truth when she is at least 15/16.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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She doesn't need to explain everything. She can take it one step at a time. Right now they are handling Mishti wrong. Today's episode only goes to show it more. You can't make Kunal disappear from Mishti's mind now that she knows he exists. So these smart adults need to come up with ways make the turmoil in her heart better not worse. Keeping her from Kunal will deepen the rejection Mishti feels. It won't make it better.

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