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poiu123

@poiu123

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Posted: 6 years ago

#11

Her mother gives a damn about her. Dida and Radhika love her and she loves them. Their son has abandoned them for another woman. Mauli is not so selfish that she will abandon them too.dida will continue loving her pota for sure. But they are her and her daughters well wishers.

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441597

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Posted: 6 years ago

#12

Originally posted by: Anahi
i never hated dida and radhika.. i know they have gone overboard with things but they never wished bad for mauli.. and that was a phase when mauli-kaunal's togetherness was more important for dida than them as individuals.. but thats probably over..
mauli and her kid need a family. a happy family .. i am glad she is staying with dida and radhika..
i know its odd but then she loves them. they are dadi and pardadi of her kid so why should she leave them..
leaving them will not lessen her pain and for starting afresh she doesnt need to avoid them rather she should face the reality and accept it and then move on.

They're first her husband's relatives, and then her child's grandmothers. They have every right to live with their own blood. In my opinion, they should try to reconcile with Kunal rather than following Mauli around.

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441597

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Posted: 6 years ago

#13

Not to mention the fact that it's extremely unhealthy for someone to continue living with their ex-husbands' family. The family of someone's ex-husband can be a support for a woman, but she should not continue to live with them in my opinion. That's extremely weird and unhealthy.

Mauli should move ahead in life and live with her daughter separately. She can visit her ex in-laws on some days, but she should live alone.

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prettywomaniya

@prettywomaniya

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Posted: 6 years ago

#14

Originally posted by: krystal_watz

They're first her husband's relatives, and then her child's grandmothers. They have every right to live with their own blood. In my opinion, they should try to reconcile with Kunal rather than following Mauli around.

where did i say they dont have the right to live with their own blood..?? is mauli stopping them from reconciling with kunal?? do they even want that cheater son back in their lives?? does he even deserves to be welcomed by this family? and the most important thing is why they SHOULD try to reconcile with kunal and not follow mauli around???

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raaya

@raaya

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Posted: 6 years ago

#15

I have seen one or 2 cases where hubby is bad so in laws pushed their son out of their lives and supported their Dil or told their Dil to move on and leave their good for nothing son. Radhika and dida aren't bad persons , but anyone in their situation would try to reconcile their son and Dil. They were worried for their future grand kid. But now they have realized that kunal is hopeless.

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prettywomaniya

@prettywomaniya

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Posted: 6 years ago

#16

Originally posted by: krystal_watz
Not to mention the fact that it's extremely unhealthy for someone to continue living with their ex-husbands' family. The family of someone's ex-husband can be a support for a woman, but she should not continue to live with them in my opinion. That's extremely weird and unhealthy.

Mauli should move ahead in life and live with her daughter separately. She can visit her ex in-laws on some days, but she should live alone.

well it is a show.. mauli can find peace and happiness in her inlaws house if they really want to show that.. i know in real life its weird and may look unreal as i am sure most of us havent seen such scenario in real life. but this show may set a good example for such scenario.. if they can show weird ema/love then why not weird family relations.

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Posted: 6 years ago

#17

Originally posted by: raaya
I have seen one or 2 cases where hubby is bad so in laws pushed their son out of their lives and supported their Dil or told their Dil to move on and leave their good for nothing son. Radhika and dida aren't bad persons , but anyone in their situation would try to reconcile their son and Dil. They were worried for their future grand kid. But now they have realized that kunal is hopeless.

Its not only the in laws who would try to reconcile their son and daughter in law in such situation, even in real life, in Indian society, the girls parents do the same too unfortunately. I have seen myself how the girl's parents advice their daughter to comprpmise and save their marriage, even when they know that their son in law is at fault. That is the sad reality of Indian society, even in 21sr century

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nimitha12

@nimitha12

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Posted: 6 years ago

#18

Baggage? How? Just becz they are related to kunal wont make them a baggage to mauli. And moving on doesnt mean cutting all ties. Moving on meabs accepting reality and live accordingly.

As fars as the 3 ladies (dida, radika and parmila) are concerned, from first episode, its mouli who always take care of them and these 3love her like a daughter not DIL. Their relation has grown above the connection thread "kunal" long back. Thats why they supported mauli in EMA issue even from start. Yes dida tried to force mauli in between but its undeestandable if we look from her generations pov who consider marriage as pure bond for 7 life.

And yesterday when they finaly saw the reality and the depth of maulis pain, the chose mauli and stayed with her. Why should mauli leave these ladies for a loser like kunal or her past? Just like the maunal's baby is maulis baby only now.. radika is maulis mother and dida is maulis dida now.

Last part about kunal knowing about baby through ma and dida.. this guy cant see anyone beyond nandini. When he left home first time, i dont remember him calling them or asking how they are. Even in this 1 month notice period, kunal was busy in arranging date and surprise for nandini always. I think like radika indicated, they might hav cut all relation with kunal and he is too busy with divine lob to even get sad about it.

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Indira

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Posted: 6 years ago

#19

Originally posted by: Yezabel
After watching segments of Maulis new life I was little bit surprised to see this 2 old witches in her life. As a neutral viewer Ive always wished that she gives an a**kick to whole Malhotra family from her life and goes her own way. But seems like it doesnt happens. So my question is now: How can she build a new life with her ex sasuma and ex?dida as baggage? What kind of strange situation is that also for the new guy? What did she told him: Hi, nice to meet you btw I live with my ex in-laws under same roof but its ok. 😲 And if news are true they say that Kunal doesnt knows about his daughter. How is that possible when Mauli is still living with them? Yes he was upset and leaved their house but I dont think that he didnt check what his ma and dadi are doing...?

they were not baggage rather they were her support structure so she could start living again. Remember radhika said you are now my daughter and she said she doesn't have a son anymore. So radhika and Dida have given Mauli the emotional support ..remember she was pregnant, she had a baby , you can't Be Alone you need support when going thriough all that . So they were her family support system.

Edited by Indira1211 - 6 years ago

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nimitha12

@nimitha12

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Posted: 6 years ago

#20

By the way it happns in real life too. Didnt kapoor family supported mona over sridevi? If in laws hav any ethics they will do the same when their DIL is completely innocent

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