how kunal is so sure?? - Page 3

Originally posted by: FruitToasty

Kunal was surrounded by strong women all his life, they never had to rely on him for anything, they loved him. When he married Mauli he married perhaps say a reflection of his mother, the same strong woman (its just a guess that she was a single mother considering we do not know what happened with his father), so they never needed him physically and that's the case with most women in India, believe it or not we do not run to men for help, every woman is self sufficient in her own way. When Nandini came, she activated that chauvinist part of Kunal, which needed to be superior than his wife, not his equal. He wants to make decision of their life, he orders Nandini around to look pretty for him, wear his favorite clothes with Mauli, it was shown he likes women in Saree but Mauli didn't like wearing Saree. Nandini lives to please Kunal and Mauli had a life of her own. Now he feels like a man, now he can drag women, he can yell at them, he can manhandle them and suffice to say he's enjoying it. I have seen men getting jealous when their wives earn more than them, no matter how they show that they respect women but the fact is that none wants to relinquish or share the power.

Originally posted by: Feynmann

Sorry bt it varies from person to person.i don't think every married man has a painful past or so.what I am saying is it varies from person to person.nd whatever wl happen in future episode s I can't predict.

what painful past kunal had?Did i miss something?

I don't know about true love or anything but if Kunal fell for Nandini after seeing her pain, I don't see him being even a little considerate towards the pain Mauli is going through, she ran broken and crying in front of him and he does not even do anything to help her instead he praises his girlfriend in front of her, increasing her pain ten folds, so Kunal is a sensitive man who fell for a woman in pain is a joke.

He hasn't changed, in their lunch date Kunal did everything for Nandini that he used to do for Mauli. Mauli's friends were teasing her that this guy is just like Kunal, so his approach or his top of his lungs promises haven't changed, he just fell for a submissive woman who makes him feel superior

@fenymann - lol this is a public forum and here we are supposed to ask fellow people only.. if i had access to writers and they were interested to reply back then i would have asked them only..

Originally posted by: Anahi

fruity i understand whatever u said. we have discussed this earlier also.. i agree to all this. but makers are not showing it this way. this is what we as viewers are seeing and interpreting. it will be wonderful to see that at the end kunal realises all this. he accepts that she fell for her bcz she was a weak woman and he wanted to feel like a man..

he wanted his wife to depend on him.. but i am sure even if they touch this topic then they will make mauli look like a dominanting wife and nandini a docile one. whereas i see mauli equally docile.. its just that she has a conscience and she can not bend in front of wrong people.

What makers are showing is that one day Mauli rotated the Pooja ki thali anti clockwise and Nandini has always rotated the thali clockwise, so God was mad at Mauli for this mistake and he decided that kunal, who rotates Pooja ki thali in clockwise direction deserves Nandini.

@sammy - word to whatever u said in previous post of yours..

Originally posted by: FruitToasty

I don't know about true love or anything but if Kunal fell for Nandini after seeing her pain, I don't see him being even a little considerate towards the pain Mauli is going through, she ran broken and crying in front of him and he does not even do anything to help her instead he praises his girlfriend in front of her, increasing her pain ten folds, so Kunal is a sensitive man who fell for a woman in pain is a joke.

He hasn't changed, in their lunch date Kunal did everything for Nandini that he used to do for Mauli. Mauli's friends were teasing her that this guy is just like Kunal, so his approach or his top of his lungs promises haven't changed, he just fell for a submissive woman who makes him feel superior

Cheating husbands will always try to justify the affair by making all sorts of excuses like...they fell in love with the new woman, she is their soulmate, there's a problem in the marriage And sometimes they will even say that the wife is faulty and she hasn't been a good wife...they will make all these excuses rather than own up to the truth ...that they are immoral, they committed adultery, they did not keep their marriage vows are they are at fault. So the writers have just shown Kunal to behave exactly how cheating husbands behave in real life. And they showed that until Nandini came on the scene, he was happy with Mauli, they had a proper marriage with intimacy and their lives were absolutely normal..they were no problems ..the issue about her working long hours etc, happens in many marriages. And the truth is that everyone has minor issues and arguments in their marriages..it's absolutely normal and all marriages like everything else in life has to be nurtured, treasured and worked at. Couples who value their marriage don't go start affairs after an argument ...and if there a big issue ..there's marriage counseling. Kunal basically did not honor his marriage vows like cheating husbands do in real life. As for Nandhini she may play the victim but she's immoral . I haven't been watching the full episodes ..so I didn't know that Kunal and Nandini had a sexual relationship. If they have gone to that extent before either one of them have got divorced ...it's basic adultery ..there's no redemption for Kunal and Nandini. The writers should show Mauli taking a stand, divorcing Kunal and moving on as there's no justification for what he and Nandini have done to her.

Its a very interesting post.

Originally posted by: Indira1211

Cheating husbands will always try to justify the affair by making all sorts of excuses like...they fell in love with the new woman, she is their soulmate, there's a problem in the marriage And sometimes they will even say that the wife is faulty and she hasn't been a good wife...they will make all these excuses rather than own up to the truth ...that they are immoral, they committed adultery, they did not keep their marriage vows are they are at fault. So the writers have just shown Kunal to behave exactly how cheating husbands behave in real life. And they showed that until Nandini came on the scene, he was happy with Mauli, they had a proper marriage with intimacy and their lives were absolutely normal..they were no problems ..the issue about her working long hours etc, happens in many marriages. And the truth is that everyone has minor issues and arguments in their marriages..it's absolutely normal and all marriages like everything else in life has to be nurtured, treasured and worked at. Couples who value their marriage don't go start affairs after an argument ...and if there a big issue ..there's marriage counseling. Kunal basically did not honor his marriage vows like cheating husbands do in real life. As for Nandhini she may play the victim but she's immoral . I haven't been watching the full episodes ..so I didn't know that Kunal and Nandini had a sexual relationship. If they have gone to that extent before either one of them have got divorced ...it's basic adultery ..there's no redemption for Kunal and Nandini. The writers should show Mauli taking a stand, divorcing Kunal and moving on as there's no justification for what he and Nandini have done to her.