when a woman is another's enemy - Page 3

Dida is definitely in the wrong to me as well. If she hadn't lied about the heart attack and emotionally black mailed them through that then it wouldn't have been as bad. In addition, she is not asking the right questions to Kunal. She is only going and pleading to Mauli to hold on and give some time (essentially the decision will be on Mauli) but she is not getting upset at Kunal. Yes she is two generation behind, however, you can't show her actions to be in congruence with the young adults of this generation and her thinking at the end of the day to expect women to be self-sacrificing as usual. I do understand that she wants to keep her family together, that's not something I'm angry about, however, her expecting that a couple of celebrations will do the job is a little ignorant on her part. There is marriage counseling, heck even a family meeting to discuss what is happening. If you're gonna make Kunal and Mauli uncomfortable might as well make it productive. Neither are speaking, talking about their feelings, and actually coming to a mutual decision to either stay together or divorce.

Originally posted by: Anahi

am i the only one who doesnt hate dida??? 😕

i dont like dida sending those pictures to nandini.. but i dont blame her for not seeing mauli's pain.. she is two generation older to mauli.. she will think like that only.. she knows right now mauli is hurt, but kunal and mauli's love was not that weak that they can easily fall apart.. thats why she is trying all this..

see, there are three generations of ladies in the house

one is mauli who is aaj ki naari and i love her for what she is doing to kunal..

second is radhika (yamini is not her name , i guess) she is a middle age lady who stood by her duaghter in law and had asked her son to leave the house.. it takes very much courage to do that. no normal mother can do that.. But after seeing mauli and kunal trying to give it a chance , she is also happy about it.. why would a mother want her son and daughter in law parting ways for a third person..

both dida and radhika do not know the extend of cheating and moreover they think that their children are trying to give their marriage another chance (which probably radhika/yamini had not given to her husband, if they show kunal's father a cheater )

coming to dida she is super old.. what matters for her is their children's happiness and togetherness.. and she is trying in every possible way to get them close . all this pooja and festival celebrating is her way of letting them spend time together which they probably dont want to..

according to dida kunal and mauli are rushing into things.. she wants them to spend more time together so that their old lost love can be rejuvenated and they can give a second thought to divorce thing..

i agree dida and radhika should ask kunal , scold him for being such dishonest person. but then, i feel dida think that right now kunal is trapped in nandini's jaal (i am assuming this) and he would not listen to them and may take wrong decision if asked what he wants and why he is doing all this. so dida is not even bothered to ask him things like that. she just want them to give another chance to each other bcz she has much faith in kunal and mauli's love and thats why she is doing all this..

i will be hurt if mauli is still unwilling to give kunal a chance and dida will be adamant about it.. i feel she wont blackmail her after that..

keeping my hopes high.. lets see what happens.

Agree, Dida's approach is wrong. As already mentioned she is acting according to her generation. N in this whole mess, Kunal has been behaving like a mute spectator. If he was bold enough to proceed with his feelings then he should also grow a spine n say what he wants. Know that he feels guilty but he has decided his path than however painful it is for his family n Mauli he has to tell them his truth. It will definitely save them further pain n he will be also free to live his life.

Originally posted by: pamk06

I am not against Dida's idea but with the approach. If you want to fix a marriage, there should be talk, there should be questions to the person who has done the wrong. Marriage is not a responsibility of one person, so why is only Mauli getting lectures. Kunal is wrong here, so he should be the one making amends. Even if she decides to move forward with Kunal, she needs confirmation that this will not be repeated again, she needs to know why he took the turn. He should be the one who should be getting the lectures, not her. DIda and his mother have still not asked him for clarification or his future intentions. As they supporting Mauli, shouldn't that be their first responsibility to ensure that she never ever gets hurt again due to this reason.

But apparently, they have put everything under the rug as if nothing happened and are expecting both of them to move forward by forgetting it ever happened.

Originally posted by: Anahi

i agree that both dida and radhika should talk to kunal . they should ask him questions, they should give him a lecture and should ask him to stay away from nandini and be loyal to mauli.. but what if kunal is not ready to listen or mauli is adamant to leave him.??

the matter according to dida is them rushing into divorce and not giving a second thought to their marriage.. i am sure she will not force them to stay in this relationship if they dont want to even after living together for one month..

radhika is happy to see him giving a try to his relationship.. so is dida.. they know both are still awkward and dida also know that nandini is still in kunal's life as she has seen nandini coming to pooja pandal today.. i am just assuming dida and radhika are trying to get things settle down first (only if mauli and kunal wish to stay together) and probably then preach kunal about marriage and trust and relationship..

@pamk - i understand what u are saying about dida and radhika.. even i agree that communication should be there.. but cvs know that if dida had asked kunal then they cant show kunal and mauli faking in front of dida.. this is not the first time creatives are using this no conversation card.. for kunal and nandini's relationship they had used this card only. there were no talks about their future , about mauli amd his future, nandini's fear of losing a friend like mauli, etc.

i think many of viewers here think that mauli is being forced into this relationship.

Originally posted by: Anahi

@pamk - i understand what u are saying about dida and radhika.. even i agree that communication should be there.. but cvs know that if dida had asked kunal then they cant show kunal and mauli faking in front of dida.. this is not the first time creatives are using this no conversation card.. for kunal and nandini's relationship they had used this card only. there were no talks about their future , about mauli amd his future, nandini's fear of losing a friend like mauli, etc.

that time if they had shown them discussing all this then it would have been clear what kunal thought of his and mauli's realtionship and was his relationship with nandini a getting-carried-away thing or some serious and mature decision.. but they want to let this confusion go on for ever so no talks..

same situation again.. if dida and radhika will ask him now or scold him then kunal amd mauli can never be together and there will be no ema. story over.. so all this stupidity to keep the show going..

if i dont talk about cvs and have to put it only in terms of characters then i think its wrong that they didnt even tried to know what exactly has happened.. but it just happened in a day or two. mauli went to court and filed for divorce.. it was a sudden decision.. and moreover kunal also left his home. so dida has seen both being adamant about leaving each other..

a conversation is a must. i agree.. but i am assuming both dida and radhika are giving some time to things to get normal. radhika is a strong lady. i think if she comes to know about dida's tactics she wont like them for sure..

i still hope someday i see radhika putting some questions in front of kunal.. dida scolding him for being a cheat and probably for not giving a genuine try to their relationship..

do you think mauli can accept kunal like aise hi... she is not such woman.. she didnt expect kunal to give their relationship another try bcz her decision doesnt depend on kunal's willingness.. dida can force her to give it a try for one month and she is pretending. dida is not asking her to adjust with him for ever.. mauli is pretending.. i know she is suffering but see the bright side of this.. she will witness kunal and nandini's love affair and that will make it easy for her to chose a right thing for her..

@pamk06 - yup i agree she should give that gyaan to him.. he desperately need that.. and i hope to see them talking to him and not assuming that since kunal saved mauli and fight for her pride he loves her...