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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: Soulfuldream

The wrong can never be erased. It will stay no matter what

But is public shame a solution? Atleast turn the page to start afresh...where is point in going back scrarching the wound over and over again...
A few years down the line when the hurt subsides,,the pain mellows down we all retrospect about the sorry events in life...
And I am sure Mauli does not need the deceitful friend, she needs that Nandini who was the light and warmth of her life

She can never have the bestie relationship with Nandini again but for her own closure she needs to empty herself...and only one woman can be that vessel for her the woman who has given her that wound..


For her own closure, its not necessary that u need that only women. Time is the best healer and detachment with those ppl not just physically but mentally and emotionally as well.
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Posted: 6 years ago
#12

Originally posted by: Soulfuldream

Nandini...beautiful,elegant,stunning,lovable,warm,naive,innocent,victim and so on...this is how she was judged earlier...
Now,,,,homewrecker,lusty,chudail,besharam,kulta (some one please erase this word from the dictionary),ghinona, characterless and so much more which I can't even pen down per say ...
And for what?? Because she fell in love with the right man at the wrong time..
If this isn't mental torture then what is? Hats off to her too,she is fighting this battle in her own way..its easy to say that she vibrates and god knows what else...but if i were her i would have given up long ago...at least she is trying to hold fort...
Did she wrong any of those who have been calling her out all this?? She stands guilty only in front of Mauli...who till date has not abused her..I'm sure if Mauli comes to know about all the crap that her no longer friend is going through she will stand up for her again...no matter how tormented she is...Because she is a woman of character and not someone who is ready to sling mud at the first drop of the hat...This is where she wins my heart...makes her a freaking awesome person...
Both of them need each other...Mauli needs Nandu and Nandu will wilt without her...if only the heart did not play the spoiltsport..Mauli needs to let it out all on Nandini,,,empty her self up so that forgiveness can flow in her.. And Nandini needs to become her rock now...absorb the hurt she gave her,the tears and the deciet.. if that happens new beginnings will dawn...


Yes, absolutely Mauli is a woman of character, integrity , strength &
she has a lot of humanity & will not stand by & watch such atrocities even if it directed
to her worst enemy. But I will have to stop at that & respectfully disagree that she needs N
to let it all out...No not At all Since this so called friend is the prime cause of her pain,
a constant reminder of that betrayal .
If at all Mauli needs some one, she will find one but not from her past.
But yes, I would want Mauli to take her time, forgive the wronged, but not forget .
Forgiving will free her of that burden of pain & anger, gives clarity to
move forward to a better & brighter future And that's what I want Mauli to have
one that is free of all the painful past & a fresh start.

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Posted: 6 years ago
#13
Very well said...😊Mishfan...Mauli will stand up for any woman for her integrity...
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Posted: 6 years ago
#14
N very well know kunal is mauli life ..knowing tht she cheated mauli...no one in the world deserve a friend who cheats...cheating friend is harmful than 1000 enemies...
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Meeting the right person at the wrong time may happen but can one be so selfish to just snatch up on the opportunity even when you are fully aware, the same person is the "jaan" of your bestie who has helped save your "jaan".

I don't believe in words such as kulta, they are pathetic and cheap. But I do believe, Nandini has wronged Mauli. Every person is different. If Mauli can stand up for Nandini after all this, she is strong, she can forgive. But if I were in the same situation as Mauli, I won't. Cuz I am not Mauli.

As for judging, we are shown and thus know everything about Nandini. There's nothing good that has been hidden from the viewers. So technically we are reacting to her actions and not judging.
Edited by Priya_18 - 6 years ago
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Posted: 6 years ago
#16
Hah! no. No one cares that she fell for Kunal. We all knew from the show's promo the premise would involve her falling for her best friend's husband. It is what she has been doing since she fell for him that has been pissing people off. Nothing can justify her dirty behavior.
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Posted: 6 years ago
#17
We all share what we feel...
And this is for Mauli...
Hope this month paves in magnificent changes for her..May she find what she truly seeks..
Perhaps the butterfly is an apt example for her..
It goes through a great deal of darkness and silence to transform into something magnificent and free ...

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Posted: 6 years ago
#18
i stop reading at - mauli need nandu- for what to break her heart.

P.S wowww i can tell you're nandani and kunal fan

thanks
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Posted: 6 years ago
#19
Kunan staying away from Mauli is what she needs now. Though she heartbroken she is a woman of character and she definitely has a brain and still sane enough to decide what to do in life.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: Soulfuldream

Nandini...beautiful,elegant,stunning,lovable,warm,naive,innocent,victim and so on...this is how she was judged earlier...
Now,,,,homewrecker,lusty,chudail,besharam,kulta (some one please erase this word from the dictionary),ghinona, characterless and so much more which I can't even pen down per say ...
And for what?? Because she fell in love with the right man at the wrong time..
If this isn't mental torture then what is? Hats off to her too,she is fighting this battle in her own way..its easy to say that she vibrates and god knows what else...but if i were her i would have given up long ago...at least she is trying to hold fort...
Did she wrong any of those who have been calling her out all this?? She stands guilty only in front of Mauli...who till date has not abused her..I'm sure if Mauli comes to know about all the crap that her no longer friend is going through she will stand up for her again...no matter how tormented she is...Because she is a woman of character and not someone who is ready to sling mud at the first drop of the hat...This is where she wins my heart...makes her a freaking awesome person...
Both of them need each other...Mauli needs Nandu and Nandu will wilt without her...if only the heart did not play the spoiltsport..Mauli needs to let it out all on Nandini,,,empty her self up so that forgiveness can flow in her.. And Nandini needs to become her rock now...absorb the hurt she gave her,the tears and the deciet.. if that happens new beginnings will dawn...

Bold-Keep yourself at Mauli's place.If your bestfriend had betrayed you like that will you still say that she is innocent and just fell in love with the right man at wrong time?

And I dont think Mauli needs a person like Nandini who slept with her husband,doesnt even feel guilty about it,actually feels annoyed and jealous when her husband is returning to her(navratri pics) and doesnt even care that how much pain Mauli migjt be in because of her.Just because you are in pain doesnt mean you start giving pain to those who actually reduced your pain.You feel thankful to them.Nandini is not even a bit thankful to Mauli

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