It was not nandini's fault

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elim

@elim

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Posted: 6 years ago

#41

Originally posted by: togepe30

So let's steal her husband👏👏
Mauli should have quit her job too and sat with her. Then all three could have gone begging on the street.

where did i say that ?

i was saying how she developed feelings for him.dont make up things to fit ur narrative

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@Terenaina

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Posted: 6 years ago

#42

Originally posted by: White..Magic
And then there are untouchy people who cant stand reality of a vamp. After a bad marriage, years of abuse, she just need someone jobless spending time with her to fall in his trap once again, kunal should remain unemployed, otherwise madem will find a neighbour to spend time the moment he gets busy with other stuff. 😆

Kunal would cheat on nandi because she's always at home, never working. He didn't like how mauli was working😆

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justforlyf1

@justforlyf1

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Posted: 6 years ago

#43

Originally posted by: elim
She spent more time with Kunal than Mauli .Mauli was busy with her work while kunal took care of her

So f tmw kunal starts his clinic nd sme guy comes nd shower her vth love nd spends tme vth her will she fall fr him too? F love s all she needed den t vl keep on changng accordng to whom she spends tme vth?tats strange meaning f love.

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Daebak

@Daebak

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Posted: 6 years ago

#44

Originally posted by: elim

where did i say that ?
i was saying how she developed feelings for him.dont make up things to fit ur narrative

So you mean, you didn't imply that she should have stolen her husband..

Great which means we are on the same page.

Nandini was wrong.

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manju

@akashnanda

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Posted: 6 years ago

#45

Originally posted by: elim
She spent more time with Kunal than Mauli .Mauli was busy with her work while kunal took care of her

means people who take care of you ..U should have illegal relationship with them...n that becomes right coz they took care of us...As for as I remember nandini n mauli n kunal all were together n spending time with each other only after they both got attracted to each other they started spending time together...If a doctor gives emotional strength have relationship with him too...

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Daebak

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Posted: 6 years ago

#46

Originally posted by: Terenaina
Kunal would cheat on nandi because she's always at home, never working. He didn't like how mauli was working😆

Such people will always cheat. They will always find reasons to.

They have 2 strong female leads and a fantastic subject.

They should have nipped all these ties in the bud and let them all find their own path. I think the urban audience is ready for such shows.

Also, makers need to realize that they cannot justify EMA just coz they cast DD in the wrong role. If they wanted her to be at the forefront then they should have cast her as the wife. They cast her in the wrong role. People saying it is a challenging role, to phir let her play the character she chose. She wants to do a challenging role, good for her as an actor. She is trying out new things. But that doesn't mean that EMA will become right, just coz a certain actor is playing the role (even if Alia Bhatt plays the role, jo galat hai wo galat hai). It is a layered character which is selfish and has grey shades, the fans should accept it for what it is.

Saying this coz I feel everyone who is supporting Nandini is doing it coz its being played by DD. If it was an unknown face, then they wouldn't have given two hoots about Nandini. It is just about the character, not DD.

Also bashing actors is not right, whether it is DD, Shakti or Abhinav... Abhinav is doing a fab job; it is the makers who are at fault.

Would any person here, in their personal life think about Nandini if they are in Mauli's place? As a woman who has been through a hellish marriage, Nandini should have realized what she is doing.

Also, I have seen Aditi somewhere before, this is not her first show right? Has she done a show with Ankita Lokhande?

Edited by togepe30 - 6 years ago

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Nabila

@bila_a

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Posted: 6 years ago

#47

Originally posted by: JuniorAssistant
I have been a silent reader in this forum for a long time. And i finally made an account today just to make this post.
I want to ask why is everyone bashing nandini? I know what she did was wrong but we should also think from her point of view right. she never got love, she was always abused and tortured and beaten up by her own husband, so much so, that she has lost all her confidence, she gets scared in the smallest of things and she can never speak up for herself. when kunal started being so caring and nice towards her, it was natural that she built feelings for her. Anyone would, eso if you never got love in your life. And it is not like she is an evil [person. she never wanted to destroy mauli's life. she never wanted bad for her. it all just happened... without her knowledge. without her full conscience. now she IS feeling guillty of what she did. we all saw how much she was affected by it...she locked herself up, she was weeping like a child. she looked completely broken for breaking her friend's trust. do you guys not feel for her at all?! Mistakes can happen by anyone! even you could do it but what matters is if you're feeling bad about it or now. and in this case, nandini IS doing that. and she never had a bad intention.

I feel very bad for mauli but that doesn't mean it was all nandini's fault. we should put ourselves in her shoes and then talk.

a traumatic past can explain why someone is acting the way they do but it doesnt excuse it. she never wanted to destroy mauli's life but she did, it doesnt all just happen, choices are made each and every step, she should have felt bad before actually having an affair with her best friends husband, mistakes can happen, but this was series of mistakes, its not like a petty mistake, this is cheating your friend and having an affair with a married man. nope, i certainly wouldnt do this, why would i be with a guy that can cheat on his own wife with someone so close to her, it doesnt matter if she is feeling bad about it now, the damage has been done, mauli's life has been destroyed, her identity changed, just before mauli caught them she was happily romancing kunal, like mauli said, she will never be the mauli we knew at the start, did she never think before getting involved. cheating with you best friends husband is no easy task, the lies, deception, its not like you accidentally did something. if she genuinely feels bad, if she wants to repent and not further hurt mauli then if going by the rumour she shouldnt be living with kunal at all and just leave and go whether mauli takes kunal back or not. honestly who care what she thinks or feels, its a little too late, she was selfish and if she stays with kunal after the leap then that only reinforces it.

and if the case is that its because of her trauma, because she never had a men love or care about her in that way and so she jumped on the first guy that did, then she needs series therapy because that's not healthy

Edited by bila_a - 6 years ago

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kuchnaakahoo

@kuchnaakahoo

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Posted: 6 years ago

#48

Now say if tomorrow Kunal realises his mistake and leaves Nandini , madam will again be lonely . If someone else starts to care for her and spends ample time with her, she will again fall in love. Crux is any Tom dick and harry spends quality time with her, cares for her will automatically be her prefect partner .

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Unique

@Terenaina

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Posted: 6 years ago

#49

And the reason why I started watching this show is because of the cheating angle and the friendship, it's interesting topic. And I understand nandi's role very closely because your lonely, and see this guy who loves you. Her feelings are justified in my opinion but it was wrong for her to take steps of cheating because Mauli is a her sister that helped her out. But if Mauli was a friend that was the vamp type who was thought she was better then everyone, became an enemy, I say cheat and steal her husband. But here the case is Mauli is sweet so never cheat on her.

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Daebak

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Posted: 6 years ago

#50

Originally posted by: TheSmurfs
Now say if tomorrow Kunal realises his mistake and leaves Nandini , madam will again be lonely . If someone else starts to care for her and spends ample time with her, she will again fall in love. Crux is any Tom dick and harry spends quality time with her, cares for her will automatically be her prefect partner .

It is actually a pathetic light to show a person in. They had so much scope with Nandini's character. They turned it into a ghisa pita TV show.

Why are producers so scared of empowering female characters.