It was not nandini's fault

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Twisterfry

@Twisterfry

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Posted: 6 years ago

#61

Originally posted by: AkaShi28

I agree with you .. if my bff's boyfriend confessed love for me ..I would have beaten him. For me my bestfriend came in my life forst than her boyfriend.. and no matter how much I like his kindess . I would never even think of hurting her . I can't even see tears in her eyes. I cry when she cries . So I can't even think of me giving her pain that too this level of pain . Snatching someone's love is never a mistake .. it is crime

Exactly, I wouldn't even want to date a guy my bff has stro ngfeelings for, because she is like my sister and I don't want to sour our relationship even by a little bit. Dating her boyfriend/husband toh door ki baat hai

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Vidhy

@Anee2

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Posted: 6 years ago

#62

Originally posted by: Terenaina
Never been married, never been in a relationship so maybe that's why I feel like Nandini is right in her feelings😊 I feel for her because you can fall in love with married man even if it's your friend's husband. She found love and her perfect partner. But I love Mauli's character too

Wow how far beyond rationality we've progressed - from a traumatized Nandini not being at fault to now Nandini being right. 👏Same here about not being married or in relationships, but where does that even begin to justify the idea that Nandini is right? I'm sure you have loved ones in your life.

It may be too quick and out your control to be infatuated with someone you see, to be attracted to someone's personality, to have lust for someone's beauty and features. But you don't just fall in love like you fall on the floor! You can tell if you're developing feelings for somebody (love isn't really all that blind), and those feelings aren't an irresistible force like quicksand that you can't get out from.

Nandini slowly began to have feelings for Kunal, acknowledged them, knew they were wrong -> Ok sure, justified.

She half-heartedly tried to avoid those feelings and then accepted them as if its part of her fate. She proceeded consciously with the right state of mind, and it was a very clear decision to choose Kunal over Mauli. -> Now that is what is utterly wrong!!!!

Even if it was real love, so many people sacrifice their love stories. Why can't Kunal and Nandini for the person who loves them the most?

Also, saying Nandini found her perfect partner and also loving Mauli just doesn't fit in my head. How can you love Mauli and yet ship her husband as the perfect match for Nandini? They may look nice together and connect well, but you don't just pick up a relationship with someone because they are good. Marriage and friendships are both commitments that have to be considered, otherwise why bother, just go around like animals with anyone you like.

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@Terenaina

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Posted: 6 years ago

#63

I am the kind of person that scarifies my own happiness for family or friends. But not everyone is the same.Nandini's only dream in life was to be a housewife and have kids, she didn't find the right partner. She finally found someone that loves her and cares for her. If she had a career like Mauli, she can scarifies love but how can someone who don't have a job, a career, sacrifices love as well? I am not justifying Nandini's actions but I understand her feelings, it was wrong for her to cheat by sleeping with the guy though. But I understand her feelings of being alone and falling in love with Kunal.

Kunal seems like a loser in my eyes though.

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shanaya

@sharie2525

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Posted: 6 years ago

#64

Originally posted by: JuniorAssistant

lol why do you think i am joking? I have seen people's comments and they bash nandini as if she's a mentally unstable prostitute. That is not right. no one who has gone through so much in her life deserve such hate. we should be more compassionate because the amoutn of hate nandini is getting is ridiculous and heart breaking. it is as if everyone in this forum are emotionless and heartless
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Didn't Mouli tried to be passionate but what did she get in return BETRAYAL
IT IS NOT HEARTBREAKING at all you know what's HEARTBREAKING MOULIS comdition...
Just because we don't feel bad for Nandini doesn't makes us heartless but way more wiser because trust me no one wants to be Nandini in real life...
She deserves the kind of hate she is geting as a character because she is a VAMP in a sati savitri attire

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shanaya

@sharie2525

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Posted: 6 years ago

#65

So this is like defending those mass shooters because of the fact that they have troubled childhood or defending sexual predators because they were once being violated as well
Like seriously

Edited by sharie2525 - 6 years ago

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Aditi

@adoremevirgo

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Posted: 6 years ago

#66

Originally posted by: abhiya_12

Give me episode links where they have shown Nandini spending more time Kunal than Mauli mind you before their feelings started not their affair timing.

And what's this excuse of spending time so cheated? And they never showed something like KuNan bonding emotionally or Nandini talking to Kunal in Mauli's absence and giving emotional support on so called busy Mauli. And taking care doesn't give you right to cheat.

Even if Mauli is a bad wife they freaking don't have right to cheat on her, there's a thing called divorce.

The kind of lame excuses and POVs I read here in defense of Nandini is something over my head.

Cheating is cheating no ifs and buts will justify it

@bold...exactly my words...thatz y i literally clapped wen kunal's mom said that there can be no reason for wat u did except beimaani...

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Aditi

@adoremevirgo

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Posted: 6 years ago

#67

Originally posted by: JuniorAssistant
I have been a silent reader in this forum for a long time. And i finally made an account today just to make this post.
I want to ask why is everyone bashing nandini? I know what she did was wrong but we should also think from her point of view right. she never got love, she was always abused and tortured and beaten up by her own husband, so much so, that she has lost all her confidence, she gets scared in the smallest of things and she can never speak up for herself. when kunal started being so caring and nice towards her, it was natural that she built feelings for her. Anyone would, eso if you never got love in your life. And it is not like she is an evil [person. she never wanted to destroy mauli's life. she never wanted bad for her. it all just happened... without her knowledge. without her full conscience. now she IS feeling guillty of what she did. we all saw how much she was affected by it...she locked herself up, she was weeping like a child. she looked completely broken for breaking her friend's trust. do you guys not feel for her at all?! Mistakes can happen by anyone! even you could do it but what matters is if you're feeling bad about it or now. and in this case, nandini IS doing that. and she never had a bad intention.

I feel very bad for mauli but that doesn't mean it was all nandini's fault. we should put ourselves in her shoes and then talk.

I said this same thing about gender in twitter and i was attacked...nywyz i am used to getting attacked for putting forward my views...

some ppl say nandini was craving for spousal love...how is spousal love different from a best friend's love expect the physical aspect...so actually nandini was craving for someone to take her to bed and doesnt matter if that person is the husband of the one whom she calls best friend or the one who has tried to gv her a new life...

however i think everything shud not hv come down to this...writers hv messed up pathetically...

nandini was a tortured wife no doubt...so wen mouli rescued her nandini shud hv been going through a phase of post trauma...a long time is needed for someone to emotionally recover from years of torture...during this phase one can end up sleeping with someone but not fall romantically in love...because during this phase its not possible to love and trust someone...

if this wud hv been a one night stand it wud hv been justifiable...but showing nandini completely in love with kunal made no sense...if emotionally she was so unscarred that she cud so soon fall in love that means rajdeep's torture made no impact on her...if she was so comfortable with that life then mouli shudnt hv rescued her...

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Rosh4rose

@Rosh4rose

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Posted: 6 years ago

#68

Originally posted by: LoveNakuulMehta

Lmaooo🤣

You cracked me up

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VARUNI2014

@VARUNI2014

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Posted: 6 years ago

#69

Originally posted by: White..Magic
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I Keep reading complex definations of love in this forum. It's Wikipedia type definations which are not easy to understand. Let's make it very simple. Does falling in love mean only with opposite gender who can give you sexual satisfaction?

If she was so much desperate for love, she was yearning and craving for love after years of abuse- why didn't she fall in love with Mauli who helped her after getting backstab from her in Rajdeep's case? Because Mauli can't make her happy in bed?

Let's not go into 'it was all unintentional' discussion. Because everything was INTENTIONAL and none of them ever cared about Mauli. Unintentional is when you're doing something which you don't know will hurt someone. Kunnu and nannu used to go in shivering mode the moment they get to know there are chances their Raas leela getting exposed. It means they knew it was wrong, but still carried on their pukeworthy romance everywhere till caught red handed.

Exactly my point ..I posted just like u ..does love have gender ..no only difference between men love and women love is sex

If that bitxch nandhini fell in love with Mauli she would never had jump in bed in with kunal bcos all kunal can offer which Mauli can not us sex sex and sex which rondini is craving for

If she craves for sex she should have got in to some online portal and find men that can satisfy her instead if going to bed with kunal