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Posted: 6 years ago
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There was a famous lawyer named ted Bundy who used to have connections at white house as well.
He raped and murdered 100s of girls which is estimated because remains of many victims were never found out
Now his excuse can be he came from a broken and unstable family.
Does that gave him right to kill so many people?
NO . so yes nandini's fault is equal as kunals
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: Terenaina

And the reason why I started watching this show is because of the cheating angle and the friendship, it's interesting topic. And I understand nandi's role very closely because your lonely, and see this guy who loves you. Her feelings are justified in my opinion but it was wrong for her to take steps of cheating because Mauli is a her sister that helped her out. But if Mauli was a friend that was the vamp type who was thought she was better then everyone, became an enemy, I say cheat and steal her husband. But here the case is Mauli is sweet so never cheat on her.


If Kunal-Mauli were in a bad relationship, fighting and staying together for a reason other than love, then too they could have gone for a divorce and then Kunal-Nandini would have been fine. You can fall out of love. That's ok.

But not this.


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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: togepe30


If Kunal-Mauli were in a bad relationship, fighting and staying together for a reason other than love, then too they could have gone for a divorce and then Kunal-Nandini would have been fine. You can fall out of love. That's ok.

But not this.


But In REAL life, I know many couples who have been cheating where the couple was in love at the beginning and you wonder how did the husband cheated on her. So that's why I LOVE this show, it's wrong for you guys here but it's good to see reality being shown instead of the dream tale of every show being the perfect couple or getting divorce and happily ever after always in the shows. We need to see layered characters, damaged characters because in real life we see these people. Just like crime is wrong but we show it in tv, we need to see affairs where happily married couple, one cheats
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: Terenaina

But In REAL life, I know many couples who have been cheating where the couple was in love at the beginning and you wonder how did the husband cheated on her. So that's why I LOVE this show, it's wrong for you guys here but it's good to see reality being shown instead of the dream tale of every show being the perfect couple or getting divorce and happily ever after always in the shows. We need to see layered characters, damaged characters because in real life we see these people. Just like crime is wrong but we show it in tv, we need to see affairs where happily married couple, one cheats


Agreed. But then show it like it is. Don't say divine connection and pure love. That's just rubbish.
Also, ex-wives don't go around turning into vamps. So don't do that to Mauli either.

It would be totally uncalled for it they turn Mauli into a vamp. I think that is what they are gonna do now.

To justify Kunal-Nandini, they will create an evil backstory for Mauli or make her team up with Rajdeep n do so much evil that people will forget that Kunal-Nandini were the ones who were wrong.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: togepe30


Agreed. But then show it like it is. Don't say divine connection and pure love. That's just rubbish.
Also, ex-wives don't go around turning into vamps. So don't do that to Mauli either.

It would be totally uncalled for it they turn Mauli into a vamp. I think that is what they are gonna do now.

To justify Kunal-Nandini, they will create an evil backstory for Mauli or make her team up with Rajdeep n do so much evil that people will forget that Kunal-Nandini were the ones who were wrong.

That's wrong but how cool the story would be to see Mauli and Rajdeep teaming up. I swear that guy makes me laugh so much with his expressions. Some ex-wifes are vamps but some are sweet, we can't generalize them.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: JuniorAssistant

I have been a silent reader in this forum for a long time. And i finally made an account today just to make this post.

I want to ask why is everyone bashing nandini? I know what she did was wrong but we should also think from her point of view right. she never got love, she was always abused and tortured and beaten up by her own husband, so much so, that she has lost all her confidence, she gets scared in the smallest of things and she can never speak up for herself. when kunal started being so caring and nice towards her, it was natural that she built feelings for her. Anyone would, eso if you never got love in your life. And it is not like she is an evil [person. she never wanted to destroy mauli's life. she never wanted bad for her. it all just happened... without her knowledge. without her full conscience. now she IS feeling guillty of what she did. we all saw how much she was affected by it...she locked herself up, she was weeping like a child. she looked completely broken for breaking her friend's trust. do you guys not feel for her at all?! Mistakes can happen by anyone! even you could do it but what matters is if you're feeling bad about it or now. and in this case, nandini IS doing that. and she never had a bad intention.

I feel very bad for mauli but that doesn't mean it was all nandini's fault. we should put ourselves in her shoes and then talk.

Even I had to suffer mental abuse of my boyfriend ..was hurt emotionally , mentally and at that time my best friend and her boyfriend supported me .. My bestfriend had her own problems due to which I would talk with her boyfriend about how I'm having hard time forgetting that guy ..and he use to be there for me . And I did form a respect for him but didn't fall in love with him
We're still close but I never thought of getting love from him
He is like the perfect boyfriend anyone would wish. He respects girls and their feelings. And at that time I did wish for a boy like him but didn't wish for him .
Because I have values . Values that says not to indulge with commited/ married man . And like mauli . I love my bestfriend and she loves me too . I'll never want to be happy by snatching my bestfriend's happiness .
Abuse , emotional turmoil doesnot give you lisence to fall in love with married man .be it your bestfriend's husband or others husband
And moving on doesn't mean you need love of boy . Bestfriend's love is enough for that. And even family love .
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: Momrin

ok as u say i put myself on her place and i find that if i may have start growing feelings for my bff's husband no matter how becahri and loveless my life is i would kick my ass hardly and slap myself so that this kind of ghatiya soch of ruining my bff life wahsed away my brain.. i would take my time and stop go to her house every then and now for somedays.. if she questioned me i would be honest with her and tell her that i have grown a problem in me and i need time.. blv it or not i keep honesty beyond anything and i would be honest with her and tell her to give me some space so that i can overcome my lust.. and if my bff's husband proposed and try to convince me i would have kick his ass too.. that is how a sane person will react but if u have a selfish mind and black heart like nanadini than u will react like her and go with ur lust naming it as jaazbaat and all bakwas..

I agree with you .. if my bff's boyfriend confessed love for me ..I would have beaten him. For me my bestfriend came in my life forst than her boyfriend.. and no matter how much I like his kindess . I would never even think of hurting her . I can't even see tears in her eyes. I cry when she cries . So I can't even think of me giving her pain that too this level of pain . Snatching someone's love is never a mistake .. it is crime
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Posted: 6 years ago
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even in cocktail movie , diana chose deepika's friendship above luv & in end diana had luv also & friendship also.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: Sarahbelle

If I put myself in Nandini's shoes, I would never betray my best friend. Period. I would never think of it. Yes, Nandini suffered through trauma, but her trauma didn't effect her to a point of being mentally unstable. There were never any severe disturbances to her thoughts and behaviours.

When Nandini moved on from Rajdeep, she was doing fine. She had her house, her confident started to grow (thanks to Mouli) and she was showing signs of independence. Clearly at that point her trauma didn't effect her as much as some may think.

Nandini IS an evil person. If she wasn't evil, she would show signs of regret the FIRST time she decided to mingle with her BFF's HUBBY!

Nandini fully deserves to be bashed, even that is being generous.

Also I have a question. Would you make this post if it was a different actress playing Nandini?


You're one of the most mature Drashti fans I have seen on this forum. Well done! šŸ‘
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: Twisterfry


You're one of the most mature Drashti fans I have seen on this forum. Well done! šŸ‘


Thank you. I try to be objective whenever I post, unlike some blind DD fans. Your comment means a lot. 😊
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