Mauli checking kunals phone - Page 2

I think it depends on the intent and that is why Mauli was hesitant.

Husband and wife generally don't have anything to hide but it depends on the couple and level of trust. My husband and I when home majority of the times use the phone which is nearby- could be his or mine. We both have work phones and he never checks mine and I never check his - it contains private client information. We would never check that phone because there is no need.

Also I think if a man is going to cheat he will take better measures than our resident idiot kunal. That guy only lies both to his wife and girlfriend!!!

I think she did not want to check his phone with the intention of spying...bevause she was suspicious and did not want to malign the trust she had on him despite the glaring evidences...

I disagree.
Being married doesn't mean that we have to share each and everything with our spouses. IMO. Do we share our social media passwords with our parents? Do we let them scroll through our whatsapp chats? The answer to these questions would be different from person to person but for me its a big NO.

I have my own personal space and so does my husband. We don't know each other's passwords and have never checked each other's phone without asking. Not that I'm 'hiding' something from him but there are conversations with my girlfriends that I don't want him to read, there are small poems that I write that I want noone to read, failed attempt at selfies that I don't wish to delete but dnt want anyone to see either. We use each other's phone from time to time to make calls or pay bills etc., but we both understand that its basic manners not to go through anyone's messages or pictures without asking them, even if the person is your spouse. Unless you are snooping. That's our take on it. Maybe Mauli is also like this.

But again. Opinions differ. My parents use each others phone all the time and have no passcodes.

My husband knows my code and I know his. But we never spyed in each other. There are times he has left me with his phone and I have done the same.

Mauli and kunal were really close before this nandini fiasco happened. So they might have even used each other's phones. But yesterday mauli was hesitant for the reason that she was not just using his phone. She took it for checking whether there is some truth in what she is thinking.. But I really liked what mauli did.. the was her purity as an individual. thinking something is never wrong but acting on it while knowing it is wrong destroys your character..which kunal and nandini are doing anyway😔

Basically the intention here is the key.

IMO we need personal space in all relationship. Most of them consider that it is normal and it is expected to invade the personal space of spouses but I would say if there is mutual respect and trust the spouse will respect the personal space and the life would be very beautiful . Having said that people like Kunal doesn't deserve the mutual respect or trust and Mauli will at least once think that it is because of her blind trust Kunal cheated her .

Best way to keep track of your husband is to keep track of his phone.