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Posted: 7 years ago
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Yesterday she almost checked his phone , she knew the password , yet she couldn't bring herself to doubt nandini and kunal ..

My question is , isn't it normal between a husband and wife ? Why would they need their private space, why is phone a private space ? when there is nothing to hide then why ? Why was mauli so hesitant ? I know she was in denial , with all the hints that she was getting , she was confused ..but she could have normally checked his phone ..not checked but seen..checking is doubting and mauli was secure in her relationship .

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Mauli was right
As a trusting couple people don't check each others phone
There is nothing to check
TRUST that is the base of any relationship
That is why Mauli didn't check
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Well some people blame M for being dumb and on the other hand, others blame her for being suspicious. 😳
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: Y12345

Well some people blame M for being dumb and on the other hand, others blame her for being suspicious. 😳


It's.not about being dumb or suspicious ..as a couple , there is nothing to hide from each othrr ..mauli could have normally seen Kunals phone , at any other given time ...I am not saying a husband wife should "check " each other's phone ..or trust and not check or blind trust ..why would kunal give his password then ? Because as a couple there were.no set boundaries between them
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Taking your husband's phone casually and to spy on him is different.also I think Mauli believes in giving Kunal his space. She never questions him as to his whereabouts or what he was doing.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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I think taking anyone's phone and to check personal messages is wrong even if it's your spouse. There are conversations they may have had with friends like venting or with ex's (not romantic) about closure or someone telling them something they don't want others to know.

Husband and wife should share everything but it has to be organic. I do believe that every human being has some secrets from past which they may not be able to share with their spouse as they aren't ready. Mauli checking his phone would be invading privacy and betraying trust though in that circumstance i surely would have haha.



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Posted: 7 years ago
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It's a different scenario all together , taking your partner's phone and use it something different but checking it with a suspicion in head is different. Mauli thought of doing the second one which she think isn't good it made her think she is doubting kunal.
If we remember when zoya came it's Mauli who gave Kunal's phone to zoya to check photos so she uses it but it's the thought process that differs.

And just because he/she is your partner that doesn't give right to spy. Some people don't like it, no it's nothing to do with trust it's just some don't like to do so.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Nothing should be private between wife and husband .if its private then u r not in love .as simple as that
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: VARUNI2014

Nothing should be private between wife and husband .if its private then u r not in love .as simple as that


Exactly..there should be no harm in checking the phone once in a while , I repeat , not spying ..if mauli was so confident of kunal she could have checked it..she actually feared the outcome ..


The same scene was so beautifully shown in zindagi gulzar hai..obviously kunal and mauli are much more open ..giving space is also trusting your partner ...for the same reason she didn't see the cctv footage..removing all doubts would have been better but mauli ignored rajdeep and the mms..poor her..she could sense that something is not right..
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Exactly..there should be no harm in checking the phone once in a while , I repeat , not spying ..if mauli was so confident of kunal she could have checked it..she actually feared the outcome ..


The same scene was so beautifully shown in zindagi gulzar hai..obviously kunal and mauli are much more open ..giving space is also trusting your partner ...for the same reason she didn't see the cctv footage..removing all doubts would have been better but mauli ignored rajdeep and the mms..poor her..she could sense that something is not right..


I don't understand this secrecy between two persons if they really love each ither .

My hubby knows my password .he checks some times just bcos of curiosity. I do the same on his mail I'd too.

It's not I or he is SUSPECTING.

So what the big deal .,and I can never understand this secrecy

For me giving space means . If I don't like the movie he watches I won't go and if he does not want to attend a function with me I won't insist

We watch diff channels and have diff hobbies

But this secrecy maintain ing thing I don't agree it's giving space .u will do that only if u don't love u r hubby or reverse he don't loves u and maintain secrecy
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