Originally posted by: g.sreedurga
I'm sorry but I had to reply for this though I don't usually make posts in this forum. You're drawing parallels between Nandini and a 5 year old?!!
Firstly, you go to any 5 year old and say some fictional story to make them sleep. They'll believe it and sleep to save themselves from rakshas. Why? Because they don't know people lie. They don't know cheaters exist. They believe in everything they see/listen, especially if it's their mom who's saying. They're as pure as gems. Even if they lie, their mom would know it in their eyes. And now Nandini ma'am acts in such a way, pretends in such a way that anyone including Mauli would never even have an ounce of doubt on her. You say she's like a kid?
Second, Nandini thought Mauli has too many toys and wouldn't mind taking one away from her? Really? What are her toys? Isn't a successful professional life one of them? Didn't she earn it all on her own? If Nandini wanted that, why couldn't she go that way and earn professional success? And she thinks Kunal is 'one' of the toys Mauli has? As if Mauli is sleeping around with men like her husband! Mauli clearly told Nandini that Kunal is her 'life'!!! Nandini is very much aware of the degree of his importance and need in Mauli's life and he's just not another 'good thing' in her life but much more than that!! As you said, kids don't know about ownership or morality. But Nandini knows them and also their repercussions, it's just that she 'choose' to ignore them for her so called jazbaat. And you say she's a kid?
Third, let some 5 yr old niece of you who loves you snatch something from you or break it. Then you make a sad and upset face. You see how that kid will be upset for the whole day trying to apologize to you or trying to be good with you. They can't see their loved ones in pain. To an extent that if father shouts on mother and mother cries, they'll be very upset with their father. They needn't even know the reason. Such is their love. And this woman, who clearly experienced how it feels to have an infedile husband, is doing the same to someone whom she claims to love a lot. Someone because of whom she is what she's today. That too with no ounce of guilt. And you say she's a kid?
Fourth, don't even get me on kid's loyalty. They are those constants who you needn't doubt ever. They take their friendships, their cuts so seriously and be honest to it. Imagine a Kindergarten where a boy constantly hits another boy. Meanwhile some other boy comes into picture and saves him. If this happens twice or thrice, the saved kid will be so loyal to his friendship towards one who defended him. To an extent that he'd get into brawl with anyone in future to defend him. Why do you think childhood friendships are so strong many times? And here this woman doesn't know what friendship is or what loyalty is. And you are saying she's like a kid?
There's a difference between being childish and being selfish. There's a difference between committing a mistake and committing a sin. There's a difference between being innocent and being negligent. There's a difference between being careless and being characterless. If she gets jealous of Mauli and impulsively shout on her or pray for her failure, it's immaturity. If she gets jealous of Mauli and jumps on to bed with her husband, it's infedility. There's a fine line. What she's doing is disgusting and the characterization is puke worthy. It's faaar from childish. And what she's doing is 'Adultery'. No parallels between the impurest being and the purest souls on the face of this planet.
I agree with your last two paragraphs. On point. No offense about my other points please. I don't know if you're even supporter of KuNan or not but somehow couldn't agree on the point that Nandini is like a child. So replied to that. Hope you don't take it as on offense.
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