What do u expect out of Extra Martial Affair

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Posted: 7 years ago
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So the consummation happened between Kunal and Nandini...
This is the reason for all the halla hoo here 😆

I would just like to know what do people expect out of the extra martial affair, Is extra martial affair means just the dating but not the consummation, what do u expect them to play Teen Patti with each other instead of making out 😆

If someone is having affair outside marriage its not just for talking chatting on phone they will eventually do everything with other, They feel more attraction n passion from there respective partner at home, They lie they hide it from the society, Nobody just go to there partner and tell them listen i am having an affait could you give me a divorce and leave. They would feel its wrong that they are cheating at the start but once they are into it , It starts to matter less and less with every passing day, Slowly they wont be feeling any remorse in lying to there loved one's

If CV's have to make them feel shit all the time about what they are doing they wouldn't have started the affair at first place, If they have started they will do everything without any regret. It is why we call it extra martial affair.

From the 1st promo of the show it was clear that its going to be EMA between the leads, The voiceover of kunal clearly said how things changed after a frnd entered there life, People are having trouble digesting it bcoz CV have not shown anyone negative, They may have expected that Mauli will be negative or something, She will do something really bad to make kunal seeks love out of Marriage, But CV's never took that turn they were brave enough to show it as in bold way, Here the wife is positive and loving still husband fell for another one..


If they would have tragic way and negative way Kunal may have got sympathy from audience but mat he CVs didnt want to show it, They want to show it as rejection from society, Mauli's mother gave a trailor to Nandini already.

Usually what happens in show is that love return from past but here kunal nandini had only one connection that is Mauli, No one is shown highly negative , It just happened..

Regarding God sign was shown from Nandini side not from kunal, Nandini was into abusive realtion kunal came like a fresh air caring helping n everything women want in their partner (May ne they went bit extra notch in showing it)

Two ppl are having EMA how does it mean they dont have morals related to other aspects of their life , How it means they are not humans anymore or have humanity left to feel fir society's other issues, How that justify that Nandini cant feel bad for what rajdeep did to her recently, Just bcoz they are having an affair doesnt mean they have no values left for other relations of there life.



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Posted: 7 years ago
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Prob is not ema ..
Here they r making a mockery of sexually abused victims ..showing the exact opposite of what they would behave in real world and showing like god gave permission to this ema


Ema can be shown in many ways ..silsila ,arth movies r ema but they have shown it realistically they dud not make a mockery of sexually abused victims or used god interference yo justify it
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Posted: 7 years ago
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lol arnav 😆 though u have touched he topic in a humorous way, you are right about it...

n Exactly...the promos too dint promise otherwise ...the whole show itself is about EMA... don't know why the hatred every single day...
more than the people who like watching show, its the haters who are so into the soap😆... they cant keep giving excuses for the reason they are watching something they totally dislike and so not their genre of soap...
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Posted: 7 years ago
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We expect emotions other than pure love. Is love the only emotion in the world to witness.
Real life experiences have been shared on this forum to explain exactly where this show falters.
There have been classics on this subject to explain the whole process and psyche involved in an affair.
Audience just wants the characters to call sade a spade rather than anything else.
This is the natural reaction to affair in general. Dear KuNan are being expressed the general thing.

So much delusion. This show went ahead from class to crass with worst story development of this sensitive subject and made absolute mockery of so many underlying themes of abuse, rehabilitation and still the question is why watch a genre you don't like. As if this question hasn't been sensibly answered countless times.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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I don't know about others i expected mature treatment for senstive subject like EMA.if you want to show EMA go ahead don't try to bring destiny and God to justify cheating.If they are bold enough show EMA like EMA don't project it something pure and white.If cvs have not tried to romtanticize or white wash the leads kunal and nandini ppl would hv accepted them better and actors would have been more apppreciated.Show grey as grey and dark as dark don't try to project grey or dark in postive light becoz whatever ppl or fans say in the end cheating is wrong plz don't glorify it in name of jazzbat.
Hasrateein was the show which dealt with EMA so maturely there leads were grey and cvs there never tried to white wash them so that's the leads then was popular and liked by audience .So mature treatment was expected from cvs where they failed hence this criticism is justified.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: TheMockingBird

I don't know about others i expected mature treatment for senstive subject like EMA.if you want to show EMA go ahead don't try to bring destiny and God to justify cheating.If they are bold enough show EMA like EMA don't project it something pure and white.If cvs have not tried to romtanticize or white wash the leads kunal and nandini ppl would hv accepted them better and actors would have been more apppreciated.Show grey as grey and dark as dark don't try to project grey or dark in postive light becoz whatever ppl or fans say in the end cheating is wrong plz don't glorify it in name of jazzbat.

Hasrateein was the show which dealt with EMA so maturely there leads were grey and cvs there never tried to white wash them so that's the leads then was popular and liked by audience .So mature treatment was expected from cvs where they failed hence this criticism is justified.


Exactly they r making a mockery of sexually abused and marital abuse victims to justify ema .they r playing a cruel joke on those kind of victims

And detest g thing is they r using divine Interference

So many movies on ema but never seen this detecting making a mockery of victims and using divine Interference so this backlash


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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: TheMockingBird

I don't know about others i expected mature treatment for senstive subject like EMA.if you want to show EMA go ahead don't try to bring destiny and God to justify cheating.If they are bold enough show EMA like EMA don't project it something pure and white.If cvs have not tried to romtanticize or white wash the leads kunal and nandini ppl would hv accepted them better and actors would have been more apppreciated.Show grey as grey and dark as dark don't try to project grey or dark in postive light becoz whatever ppl or fans say in the end cheating is wrong plz don't glorify it in name of jazzbat.

Hasrateein was the show which dealt with EMA so maturely there leads were grey and cvs there never tried to white wash them so that's the leads then was popular and liked by audience .So mature treatment was expected from cvs where they failed hence this criticism is justified.


Exactly.

An abuse victim who isn't yet over with her previous crisis, can't even stand for herself in front of people, goes on to have an affair without showing any sign of glimpse

All she does is shiver, cry and love in an affair. Rest of the forms of love are dead to her.

This character had the potential for becoming best character with different shades, but no, makers had to ruin it

Even finite stories are better at presentation. Pakistani shows are classic examples of it
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: Arnav90

So the consummation happened between Kunal and Nandini...

This is the reason for all the halla hoo here 😆

I would just like to know what do people expect out of the extra martial affair, Is extra martial affair means just the dating but not the consummation, what do u expect them to play Teen Patti with each other instead of making out 😆

If someone is having affair outside marriage its not just for talking chatting on phone they will eventually do everything with other, They feel more attraction n passion from there respective partner at home, They lie they hide it from the society, Nobody just go to there partner and tell them listen i am having an affait could you give me a divorce and leave. They would feel its wrong that they are cheating at the start but once they are into it , It starts to matter less and less with every passing day, Slowly they wont be feeling any remorse in lying to there loved one's

If CV's have to make them feel shit all the time about what they are doing they wouldn't have started the affair at first place, If they have started they will do everything without any regret. It is why we call it extra martial affair.

From the 1st promo of the show it was clear that its going to be EMA between the leads, The voiceover of kunal clearly said how things changed after a frnd entered there life, People are having trouble digesting it bcoz CV have not shown anyone negative, They may have expected that Mauli will be negative or something, She will do something really bad to make kunal seeks love out of Marriage, But CV's never took that turn they were brave enough to show it as in bold way, Here the wife is positive and loving still husband fell for another one..






We don't expect makers to falsely potray behaviour of sexual and mental abuse victims.. They dont jump into bed within hours!!!
We don't expect makers to potray doctors as fools who have sex with abuse victims instead of taking them for counselling, medical checkup and reporting to police..
We don't want poor God to be blamed for every mistake of the characters.. Whats with this symbolisms to show them destined couple and the wife as an intruder!!!

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Posted: 7 years ago
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People need to growup and stop calling everyone haters who doesn't support nandus wring doings. Opinions would ve different if actresses roles were reversed simply. why there were so many crying threads when rk used to torture madhubala? Now people are singing different tunes lol!
We are expecting realistic touch like hasratein. Their leads were not singing romantic background songs and acting holier than thou.
Edited by oldanurprernfan - 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: VARUNI2014

Prob is not ema ..

Here they r making a mockery of sexually abused victims ..showing the exact opposite of what they would behave in real world and showing like god gave permission to this ema


Ema can be shown in many ways ..silsila ,arth movies r ema but they have shown it realistically they dud not make a mockery of sexually abused victims or used god interference yo justify it


Not every case of EMA is same, Some ppl find love outside bcoz of abusive relationship at home
How are they making mockery of sexually abused victim

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