What do u expect out of Extra Martial Affair - Page 3

Originally posted by: Arnav90

The God angle was shown from Nandini's perspective, It was shown in way for girl who was getting abused met someone very caring an ideal kind of a person, It was not shown from Kunal's perspective...

EMA is wrong i agree but how can u say those person who are committing this cannot be good, They are cheating with there partner its definitely there mistake but that doesn't mean they dont have any moral values left regarding other ppl related to them, They don't any humanity left..

What is destiny as per you, Anything that happens unexpectedly in our life which we didn't knew will happen we name it as Kismat destiny weather its good or bad, Didn't ppl say shayad bhagwan ki yahi marzi thee when they dont understand things, It makes them feel better...

Regarding Jajbaat thing what is jajbaat it simply means feelings which include everything love lust attraction etc so what is wrong in saying it as jajbaat

Arnav cheating is not mistake it's crime and Sin.So blaming destiny for Sins you commit is not understandable for me.It is not a mishappening or accident which u can call that it happened because of destiny.Going by this any defaulter or criminal will blame destiny for his crimes and sins he or she will commit.So for me blaming god or destiny for wrong doings is unexplainable.

Originally posted by: Arnav90

The God angle was shown from Nandini's perspective, It was shown in way for girl who was getting abused met someone very caring an ideal kind of a person, It was not shown from Kunal's perspective...

EMA is wrong i agree but how can u say those person who are committing this cannot be good, They are cheating with there partner its definitely there mistake but that doesn't mean they dont have any moral values left regarding other ppl related to them, They don't any humanity left..

What is destiny as per you, Anything that happens unexpectedly in our life which we didn't knew will happen we name it as Kismat destiny weather its good or bad, Didn't ppl say shayad bhagwan ki yahi marzi thee when they dont understand things, It makes them feel better...

Regarding Jajbaat thing what is jajbaat it simply means feelings which include everything love lust attraction etc so what is wrong in saying it as jajbaat

I have watched shows on EMA years ago on Indian TV. The producers are not doing anything path breaking by showing a positive wife and the husband having an affair with another woman. I watched Saans from Neena Gupta , a show based solely on EMA and it showed far more sensitivity and maturity in depicting an EMA than the gross execution we see in 2018.
The execution and script of this show needs rethinking. The way the whole EMA thing has been shown only makes audience totally disconnect with Kunal and Nandini and makes a mockery of their characters and the sensitive issue that they are dealing with.

Originally posted by: Arnav90

Not every case of EMA is same, Some ppl find love outside bcoz of abusive relationship at home

How are they making mockery of sexually abused victim

Originally posted by: aashyagh

Agree and when you are abused and hurt,and when you are vulnerable, having sex isn't uncommon, the intimacy makes person feel better, but all we see here is right, wrong, ethic, cheating. EMA is cheating only, even if you are guilty, you don't stop having an affair 😆! People find love outside marriage inspite of having best spouses, we know it's not right, but who can explain?

Because people expected maturity from the story, and victim of sexual abuse won't react like nandini is reacting they would be needing counseling to come out of their trauma but instead nandini is jumping on bed with her BFF's hubby, without any guilt she's backstabbing her friend who always stood for her and that's the last thing any sexual abuse victim will do.. Kunal and nandini are such character less people, kunal is a spineless cheater and nandini is a backstabber and officially Kunals mistress and that's exactly how these two r coming out

Originally posted by: amortentia15

Yes the promos clearly said its an ema!! But whoever vowed not to criticise the characters or the storyline just because we were aware of the core subject...

Nobody really put their hands on a holy book and promised to wax rhapsodies on any character or decided to circumambulate around the divine couple chanting praises...

Apart from the fact that a few grave issues have been dealt with in a very careless manner and people are miffed with that we can criticise the characters if they do not appeal to us!!!

As to what are the expectations i hope karma dishes out what exactly they deserve for mercilessly trampling on the feelings of a genuine soul...

Originally posted by: aashyagh

Agree and when you are abused and hurt,and when you are vulnerable, having sex isn't uncommon, the intimacy makes person feel better, but all we see here is right, wrong, ethic, cheating. EMA is cheating only, even if you are guilty, you don't stop having an affair😆! People find love outside marriage inspite of having best spouses, we know it's not right, but who can explain?

Which person having an extramarital affair without an iota of guilt is said to be having morals or values? It is because they are so immoral in life that it doesn't bother them cheating their spouse or the friend who saved their life. Falling in love doesn't justify these things. Breaking marriage vows , cheating and lying cannot be justified because they fell in love with somebody else. Marriage is all about that trust between two people. Kunal is murdering that trust for his own selfish reasons.

Well sweetheart, it appears as though you are stating a rhetoric. However; if you aren't and if you are asking me an audience what I expect from an extra marital affair? Well technically I don't expect anything, why would I? It's not something i waste my time on, so your point seems moot.

Now if you are speaking regarding this series, I expect coherence and some if not complete logic. Many have affairs which is perfectly normal, many never tell their spouses which is again very normal. My issue was never the affair, my issue is the emotiation of this apparently godly affair.

Precious kunal either looks panicked, confused, or guilty. Darling Nandini doesn't want to left behind so she is perpetually crying, on the verge of crying, or has just finished crying. In between these two are either acting like a 16 year old who has experienced first love or like long lost lovers who will die if not together. All good, BUT when you say it's because of god and is sacred then those emotions are contradicting and somewhat paradoxical.

It's not hating a series and fake characters- I think us adults can defrentiate but when a love is shown to be pure then it's execution should be accordingly.